XANEUS
Senior Don Juan
Lately, I’ve been gaming superhard, with the express intention of either closing a girl intensely or blowing her out. Some strange stuff has happened. I’ve come to the realization that blowouts are not permanent, but that post-blowout game is something I need a good deal of work on still.
Scenario 1: I overneg a girl where she works and she goes from laughing uncontrollably to screaming and running into the back room. I figured the sarge was blown. But when I saw her and her friend out at a bar the next weekend, they opened me and were really flirty. I couldn’t make this go anywhere though since it was too near closing time.
Scenario 2: I game a 9.5 in set with 8s. The 9.5 is reacting marvelously to my negs. She really wants my attention, but it too proud to openly ask for it. The obstacles LOVE me. But then, all of a sudden, the obstacles become really defensive of their friend and turn on me. I apologize slightly and re-engage them. The 9.5 rolls up a piece of paper and throws it at me to get my attention (I’ve been blatantly ignoring her). I bust her on her rudeness. She shows interest, but her friends get pissed at me for being an ******* and run away. The last half hour of the night 9.5 is staring at me mesmerized, but when I try to re-engage the group, the obstacles give me mad attitude, so I just say, “whatever” and walk off. She stared at me even more afterwards.
Scenario 3: Gaming a 9 with two 7s as friends. As above, I blow her friends out and they get defensive, so I eject with, “ok, nice meeting you.” At the end of the night, the 9 re-opens me, and is totally into me. I get deep into qualification, but then her friends drag her off… even though she physically resists them very strongly.
Scenario 4: An 8 walks by and says, “you are waaay to sexy for THIS place” but doesn’t even break stride. Like she knows she can’t have me. She was right too. I just continued talking to my wing. In this case it’s like I blew her out without even opening my mouth.
Scenario 5: I say something mildly rude to a stripper, and she cries and runs to the back room. When she returns she's totally complimentary and begs me to take her number.
So I’ve come to the conclusion that gaming girls you’ve blown out before is VERY doable, BUT I think there are some subtleties I’m missing. I’ll post back with new developments as they come. Bad as it sounds, I’m thinking that re-opening with a mild compliment may be the way to go. It feels weird for me to compliment though because the girl never sufficiently qualified herself for me. Thoughts?
-XANEUS
Scenario 1: I overneg a girl where she works and she goes from laughing uncontrollably to screaming and running into the back room. I figured the sarge was blown. But when I saw her and her friend out at a bar the next weekend, they opened me and were really flirty. I couldn’t make this go anywhere though since it was too near closing time.
Scenario 2: I game a 9.5 in set with 8s. The 9.5 is reacting marvelously to my negs. She really wants my attention, but it too proud to openly ask for it. The obstacles LOVE me. But then, all of a sudden, the obstacles become really defensive of their friend and turn on me. I apologize slightly and re-engage them. The 9.5 rolls up a piece of paper and throws it at me to get my attention (I’ve been blatantly ignoring her). I bust her on her rudeness. She shows interest, but her friends get pissed at me for being an ******* and run away. The last half hour of the night 9.5 is staring at me mesmerized, but when I try to re-engage the group, the obstacles give me mad attitude, so I just say, “whatever” and walk off. She stared at me even more afterwards.
Scenario 3: Gaming a 9 with two 7s as friends. As above, I blow her friends out and they get defensive, so I eject with, “ok, nice meeting you.” At the end of the night, the 9 re-opens me, and is totally into me. I get deep into qualification, but then her friends drag her off… even though she physically resists them very strongly.
Scenario 4: An 8 walks by and says, “you are waaay to sexy for THIS place” but doesn’t even break stride. Like she knows she can’t have me. She was right too. I just continued talking to my wing. In this case it’s like I blew her out without even opening my mouth.
Scenario 5: I say something mildly rude to a stripper, and she cries and runs to the back room. When she returns she's totally complimentary and begs me to take her number.
So I’ve come to the conclusion that gaming girls you’ve blown out before is VERY doable, BUT I think there are some subtleties I’m missing. I’ll post back with new developments as they come. Bad as it sounds, I’m thinking that re-opening with a mild compliment may be the way to go. It feels weird for me to compliment though because the girl never sufficiently qualified herself for me. Thoughts?
-XANEUS
