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Settle for the best you can and then train the shvt out of her.
Lots of communication, say what ever qaulity you want is (attractive) over and over.
That doesn't work, best case scenario she will put on an act for a month or 2 and then she will slowly default back to her baseline behavior. You can't really change someone, the only way people change long-term is if they made that decision to do so on their own accord.

You also risk coming across as controlling and insecure. What usually ends up happening is that she will agree but over time will start to resent you and then the relationship will become toxic. Only commit your time to someone who is already where you need them to be or very close.
 

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An alpha is indifferent of her former lovers. Women use jealousy to own you. Learn to control irrational emotions.
 

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I read most of this thread. Some posts just go to deep.
Most of you in here are suffering from the Madonna/***** complex and its not good. It leads to pedestalizing the idiological quaulity girls. They dont exist. There are women with all kinds of traits. They all do women things and are capable of any behavior.
Pick the ones who have the traits you like best and just quit keeping score and just play the game.
Hit the ball back and forth.
In a nutshell .

That girl you call a bpd can go to church and that nice girl in the sundress can enjoy being pizzed on.
Focus on the basics. Her behavior and how she treats you and does she fullfill you sexually?
Every girl you meet in any age bracket you guys are in is a blank canvas to start with. Just vett them properly and you will find more compatable women. .02
I can't deny what I observe and experience, even if this seems mostly true. There is still a huge difference between "the girl you call bpd" and most women.
 

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I can't deny what I observe and experience, even if this seems mostly true. There is still a huge difference between "the girl you call bpd" and most women.
Then you need new goggles bruh. Every girl has bpd in them when paired with an idiot Bp man. They loathe it and will commit murder because of it. In some cases.
I would first try not needing everyone to line up with your "observations"
Then a man can properly observe not only through your own.
But family, friends, coworkers, news etc etc.
The #1 clientel for divorce lawyers is "stay at home housewives" yet here we are on SS talking about that "quaity girl" lmao
 

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Then you need new goggles bruh. Every girl has bpd in them when paired with an idiot Bp man. They loathe it and will commit murder because of it. In some cases.
I would first try not needing everyone to line up with your "observations"
Then a man can properly observe not only through your own.
But family, friends, coworkers, news etc etc.
The #1 clientel for divorce lawyers is "stay at home housewives" yet here we are on SS talking about that "quaity girl" lmao
Your standards for women are actually quite high, much higher than mine. You mask them under low expectations, but they are there. That is why you can't distinguish differences, you are too disappointed.

My standards are low and the "any woman can divorce" is too obvious to even mention.
 

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That doesn't work, best case scenario she will put on an act for a month or 2 and then she will slowly default back to her baseline behavior. You can't really change someone, the only way people change long-term is if they made that decision to do so on their own accord.

You also risk coming across as controlling and insecure. What usually ends up happening is that she will agree but over time will start to resent you and then the relationship will become toxic. Only commit your time to someone who is already where you need them to be or very close.
Worked for me, 7 years. No marriage or kids.
 

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Your standards for women are actually quite high, much higher than mine. You mask them under low expectations, but they are there. That is why you can't distinguish differences, you are too disappointed.

My standards are low and the "any woman can divorce" is too obvious to even mention.
I hope my standards are quite high. Wanting to find a peaceful situation why would your standards be so low?
 

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Quality is subjective. If it's strictly looks ... likely never find "quality"
 

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Your standards for women are actually quite high, much higher than mine. You mask them under low expectations, but they are there. That is why you can't distinguish differences, you are too disappointed.

My standards are low and the "any woman can divorce" is too obvious to even mention.
LA men should start in their mind they are a 10 and believe it. Know it
A thor 10 regardless if I think your girl is a 5. Or another guy does.
His opinion dont mean shyt
The way you hold yourself above them all.
The real rubber meeting the road is when it goes down you fck the hell out of them and not be the same old "Chad"
 

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That's a great indicator actually, if a man has the ability to recognize it. Joyous energy is immensely attractive and magnetic.
I only recently realised that I need this in a partner, some people just lift your spirits.
 
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