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MatureDJ

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Day 21

3 weeks already! today was boring but I approached a girl on my way home from the gym. The approach was tight but I was dressed like a bum (sweat pants, large sweatshirt, dirty vans shoes), she said that she was not interested, but I didn't left immediately. She told me she was Muslim (probably Chechen or Dagestan..), then she asked where I was from, she got a bit interested. I said it's not important where I'm from since you don't want to meet and I left with a smile. She was hot, but Muslim. I wouldn't date a Muslim here, a good plan to get your ass kicked by his brother who's into MMA. I did the approach though.
I remember getting with a whacky Muslim Caucasusian in Sochi. She loved how thick my hair was in the front. :cool:
 
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I thought I could work in a bar or teach French in a private school.
Are you a French Canadian? It would explain why you speak English but speak French better. Also, what city in Russia are you in? I go to St. Pete (although with COVID, I'm back home in the United SaturatedFats of America until Russia opens up again
:mad:).
 

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I'd rather fap to something good than stick it into something I'm disgusted by. :rolleyes: Of course, I have no problem sticking it into something nice at a decent price when I EscortMax. :cool:
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Are you a French Canadian? It would explain why you speak English but speak French better. Also, what city in Russia are you in? I go to St. Pete (although with COVID, I'm back home in the United SaturatedFats of America until Russia opens up again
:mad:).
Yes I'm from Quebec. I live in Moscow. Nice city St. Petersburg I went there 2-3x
 

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Day 24

I met a German expat, he has a lot of contacts in the club scene, the vibe was good. I got out of my comfort zone, messaged him, arranged a meeting, met him in a bar where he works. He has status and I don't, it was not comfortable but I did it, now I have a good contact, he introduced me to the bar owner with whom I chatted a bit. He told the boss: "This guy is would like to work as a bartender, he speaks Russian". I didn't ask anything, didn't want to look like I wanted something from him/needy. But there is an opportunity I think, we'll see.

On my way there in the metro, there was a hot girl standing next to me, she was glued to her cellphone. She was so focused on her screen that she didn't notice that I was stalking her. She had so many direct on IG tha tshe had to search for messages in the search bar, it was endless. Same thing on Whatsapp. She was switching from one convo to another. Try to get with those girls...
She got out at my station, I wanted to approach her and I thought, fvck that i don't want to give her another shot of validation... I already knew how it would end up (rejection or # close then ghost). I had a strange feeling, I felt like Ewww no. Although she was super hot, the fact that I knew exactly how she would behave (99% sure) made her look unattractive. Like I'm not gonna give you what you crave for.

I will still approach hot girls, I just shouldn't have looked at her cellphone, it turned me off.
 

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Day 25

I got rejected by one of the girl I was seeing. Back to square 1, no girl at all. It was a ****ty day but I resisted to fap. Now I'm wondering why I'm doing this noFap thing.. At least I don't have any distraction anymore.
Tomorrow night i will go out on my own again. Gotta stay out of the comfort zone
 

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Of course, but unfortunately, lately I'm not getting laid at all .. At least, I'm working on my things, Girls can be such a distraction.
 

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Day 27

I created a new Tinder account, know I've kinda relapsed with Tinder but I want to test new pictures of me that I did. We'll see..
 

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Reset today

28 days, it was too much I was going crazy. A reset is ok, a relapse is not.
Not bad, almost a month
 

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I do think there is some benefit to NoFap. I've watched a few videos by some dude called Casey Zander, he says something along the line that women are attracted to a guy's aura if doesn't fap. I don't know about that, maybe. But I feel like the benefit is something like 2%, maybe 5%, you might be 5% better as a man if you don't fap. I don't think you become five times the man you were and suddenly grow abs and become Chad.

I still think the best thing about NoFap is that you're better off not wasting the time. If you're building something instead of wanking five times a day or whatever, obviously you're better off. Time is a commodity. I guess if you just toss one off in a minute and a half it's probably not that much of an issue. Porn is bad though.
 

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I do think there is some benefit to NoFap. I've watched a few videos by some dude called Casey Zander, he says something along the line that women are attracted to a guy's aura if doesn't fap. I don't know about that, maybe. But I feel like the benefit is something like 2%, maybe 5%, you might be 5% better as a man if you don't fap. I don't think you become five times the man you were and suddenly grow abs and become Chad.

I still think the best thing about NoFap is that you're better off not wasting the time. If you're building something instead of wanking five times a day or whatever, obviously you're better off. Time is a commodity. I guess if you just toss one off in a minute and a half it's probably not that much of an issue. Porn is bad though.
100% agree, tomorrow back to day 1.
 

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Day one will start on April 15 for me. I will beat your 28 days and try for 29 after April 15th. The imaginary totalitarian government has outlawed fapping effective on this date, lol!
 
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he says something along the line that women are attracted to a guy's aura if doesn't fap.
I am skeptical of that guys' views. The same guy that would become slightly more attractive to women due to not cvmming from his hand, would be more attractive to women if he came from sex. I believe females can pick up on scarcity vibes more than fapping vibes.
 
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