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mikedee

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I'm on day 7

I made a decision: No dating, no Tinder until I get my sh1ts together. Tinder + dating have been a distraction for me in the last weeks, I've been procrastinating a lot and focusing too much on getting girls, with poor results at the end. What a waste of time, wow.

I allow myself to cold approach because I think it's sane, but Tinder is out. I'm gonna be busy and gonna have to go to a lot of places. I will only meet with girls that I see in my everyday life and will date ONLY if I think the girl if worth dating.

Back on my projects and I have new ones. I still work out 3-4 times a week, I'm in a good shape. But dealing with girls, I can't do it anymore, not for now.

The main focus is me, that's it.
 

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Day four. No resistance. Looked at the first half of Chemtrails under the Country Club and it was nice to watch (dont watch to the end as it flips to Twilight).
 
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mikedee

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Day 7 done

I got friendzoned/rejected today, it was not a nice feeling but it's alright, I've seen worst. I was super productive today, I'm back on track and I'm motivated. Like I said, I've decided to focus on my projects. I've deleted Tinder and all tinder girls in my contacts. It feels good to be honest.
 

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Day 7 done

I got friendzoned/rejected today, it was not a nice feeling but it's alright, I've seen worst. I was super productive today, I'm back on track and I'm motivated. Like I said, I've decided to focus on my projects. I've deleted Tinder and all tinder girls in my contacts. It feels good to be honest.
Thought Russian girls were easy.
 

mikedee

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I'm on day 12

Doing good, working on my things, I'm productive. I realize that I have a hard time being "alone" (no women, no dates, no game), just focusing on what needs to be done in my life, no distractions. To be honest with all the crap I've been through with women since I moved here, I don't really know when I'm gonna get laid, and that is difficult psychologically. I try to "accept" the fact that there are good chances that I won't get laid for a long time, I try to free myself from that constant need to date and try to have sekc. Not easy. I'm a bit worried about my future in terms of dating and women as I get older. It just doesn't work right now and time flies. It's going to be more and more difficult to date hot girls in their early/mid-twenties, it's a tragedy. I know I can meet any woman I want here but my situation fvcks everything up, it's one of the reason why it never works (I think).

The best thing I can do right now to focus on my life, on my future and do my best to become the man I want to be, I wish I were a bit younger (5-6 years younger), the fact that I'm getting older is a stress I can't get rid of. I don't want to enjoy the party when I will be an old folk, I want to enjoy the lifestyle I've been dreaming about for years when I'm still young. I try to stay positive, I can say I have it good right compared to a lot of guys, but I'm not satisfied with my life right now and I have to work on that.

I always wanted to live the high life, which for me is to live in Moscow, drive a nice car (white bmw for example), have an online business, get laid with Russian babes (rotation), have a nice apartment, have money, be healthy (me and my family and friends) and in shape, be attractive. Will I get there? Right now there is no sign that I will. At least I live is Moscow and I'm healthy, it's a good start. Working on it.
 
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I'm on day 12

Doing good, working on my things, I'm productive. I realize that I have a hard time being "alone" (no women, no dates, no game), just focusing on what needs to be done in my life, no distractions. To be honest with all the crap I've been through with women since I moved here, I don't really know when I'm gonna get laid, and that is difficult psychologically. I try to "accept" the fact that there are good chances that I won't get laid for a long time, I try to free myself from that constant need to date and try to have sekc. Not easy. I'm a bit worried about my future in terms of dating and women as I get older. It just doesn't work right now and time flies. It's going to be more and more difficult to date hot girls in their early/mid-twenties, it's a tragedy. I know I can meet any woman I want here but my situation fvcks everything up, it's one of the reason why it's never works (I think).

The best thing I can do right now to focus on my life, on my future and do my best to become the man I want to be, I wish I were a bit younger (5-6 years younger), the fact that I'm getting older is a stress I can't get rid of. I don't want to enjoy the party when I will be an old folk, I want to enjoy the lifestyle I've been dreaming about for years when I'm still young. I try to stay positive, I can say I have it good right compared to a lot of guys, but I'm not satisfied with my life right now and I have to work on that.

I always wanted to live the high life, which for me is to live in Moscow, drive a nice car (white bmw for example), have an online business, get laid with Russian babes (rotation), have a nice apartment, have money, be healthy (me and my family and friends) and in shape, be attractive. Will I get there? Right now there is no sign that I will. At least I live is Moscow and I'm healthy, it's a good start. Working on it.
Good job bro. You’re an american expat living in Moscow? Hang in there.
 

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14 days, 2 weeks already

the most difficult part is to resist all the temptations, not porn but Tinder and texting girls I know. It's not easy to ignore them, to focus on what has to be done instead of focusing on hot chicks. I'm productive that's good but man it's a struggle. I have to constantly remind myself why I do noFap, why I need to focus on my life and why trying to date girls all the time is a waste of time right now.
I keep working out at the gym 3-4x per week, I've gained 15lbs and I'm in a good shape, that is good. I'm back at working on my blog, I officially started my youtube channel, working on my photography too and decided that I will shoot girls again (fashion), I stopped a few years ago... Gonna go meet model agencies in Moscow, I need to be sharp, to get out of my comfort zone, I'm ready. I might start DJing again too, but not now, I have too much on my plate. Photography + youtube is a good way to make my way here, if I can build a solid reputation as a photographer and youtuber here, it's gonna be easier to meet with my dream girls. I'm positive, the only thing that drags me down is the fact that I'm in my mid-thirties and getting older, I have the ****ty belief that over 40 life is over, that I won't get with any hot chicks because I will be too old. I need to work on that, it's limiting me a lot.. There is work to be done, I'm not perfect.
At least I'm doing something, if I keep working on my projects I can't believe it's not gonna pay off one day. I have everything, I might not have all the "ressources", but no excuses I watched a video on youtube yesterday, really powerful sh1t

When I watched the video, I told myself stop complaining and just do it. I've made a collage of the things I want in life, I put it as a wall paper on my second monitor, this way I always have that picture in front of me, it motivates me.
 

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I have to constantly remind myself why I do noFap, why I need to focus on my life and why trying to date girls all the time is a waste of time right now.
I think one of the real keys with this is to stay busy. Not as a distraction so much (although that's part of it), but just because you've got other things you need to be doing.
 

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I’ve watched too much porn a long time ago, I can’t watch it now without getting bored and exasperated at how cheap the acting is and how it’s basically the same thing every time. Girl seduces boy (usually older woman with 30 year old man pretending to be a teenager), boy licks boobs, woman sucks c0ck, vagin@l, anal, different position vagin@l, more anal, doggy style, end.
 
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