Me also...I had a woman who invited me over to her place on a 2nd date and we had dinner and kinda chilled and it got late and she was like 40 minutes from my place and she offered to let me sleep there and made sure to let me know she wanted me to sleep in her bed with her and not on the couch...Bingo, have done this before and it has worked
Went in the room, she stripped down to panties and bra and me to my boxers and I was pretty sure things were about to go down but she was super LMR and wouldn't let me go any farther. Got her panties off and was fingering her, she was super wet and was softly moaning but still wasn't going to do anything.
So I got up and said OK, I gotta get going and she was super surprised and was like why are you leaving?? And I told her I can't sleep in a bed with a woman who doesn't find me attractive enough to want anything from me and I turned to grab my hat and walk out of the bedroom door and I find her standing in front of it and she had this look in her eye and she said "You aren't going anywhere" and shoved me down on the bed and then proceeded to give me one of the best BJs of my life and then fvcked the hell out of me for a few hours and several rounds and then again twice more in the morning...
If a woman is actually interested in you, sex will never be the reason she loses you. She will ensure it happens.