well lets see, I have been reading the tips for new members about a week now, and i'm still reading trying to learn and all, and since i'm new on this i'm with some questions, more like ideas to fix a situation here.
so here is the case.
I work in a office then about a 1 year and half we hired a new girl, she was ok, talkative, and after some time we kinda became friends, we talked a lot, and never by my part I had any interest on her, but that kinda of change in the end of last year when I become really to like her and all that.
here is the deal about a month ago, in a talk she was asking me why I cared so much about her do mistakes and bad things(i'm blunt, enough to say what I think and if can hurt her), I let out I was intersted on her, well don't need to say that is when all did go to hell, then pretty much we started to fight a lot, then after some hours we are ok again till we fight again.
so my question is how I can fix this, or at least stop the bad aura we have most of time during work?
really lost here and i'm using this case more like a guinea, even though I like her she is immature, and is annoying like hell now work with her so I want to know what you guys think?
so here is the case.
I work in a office then about a 1 year and half we hired a new girl, she was ok, talkative, and after some time we kinda became friends, we talked a lot, and never by my part I had any interest on her, but that kinda of change in the end of last year when I become really to like her and all that.
here is the deal about a month ago, in a talk she was asking me why I cared so much about her do mistakes and bad things(i'm blunt, enough to say what I think and if can hurt her), I let out I was intersted on her, well don't need to say that is when all did go to hell, then pretty much we started to fight a lot, then after some hours we are ok again till we fight again.
so my question is how I can fix this, or at least stop the bad aura we have most of time during work?
really lost here and i'm using this case more like a guinea, even though I like her she is immature, and is annoying like hell now work with her so I want to know what you guys think?