Ill try not to be to long winded as im new here, my wife of 2 years, weve been together for 12, has expressed to me that she doesnt think she loves me as a husband, but as the father of our children and a family member only. Im not sure how to approach this "friends" situation. I have asked if I should leave, the answer is no, she does not want to leave either. She does not want to talk with our kids 9&4 about what is going on here. Has not mentioned to her parents or any one else. (For fear of being told shes wrong?) I said I had mentioned to her brother who has worked for me for the last 5 years and is a good friend and this really upset her. What do I do here? I love her and our children, we live a decent life and dont have any trailer trash drama outside of this incident. This is a very difficult thing to get around, I dont know how to approach being friends or if it is even something i would be able to tolerate, and if her feeling changes back to happy family mode is this something I should accept? I feel like my trust for this women has been seriously bent as we have made commitments to one another and her first voicing of concern is I dont think I love you that way anymore? WTF should I do, Im not sure sitting back and watching this unfold will last much longer, anyway thanks for any advice its much appreciated.