TyTe, if u r reading this, then here's my advice to you.Yeah, but that's what's great about the internet: you can't punch me in the mouth.
Anonymity and no fear of repercussion is what's great about the internet.
You can't be brutally honest with people in real life, less you lose their friendship. On here, you can let it rain.
You know how many great things I've learned from @sshole posters on sousave? More than I have from people in real life.
Forums like these are like gardens that men created, where they get to think things and perhaps achieve some enlightenment along the way.
However it's always best to be a warrior in a garden then a gardener in war.
The real world we all step into everyday is war. You need to fight daily, not just to survive but to excel.
And for those of you that thinks it's better to train men into gardeners in a garden, well the results you see in urselfs, is the ultimate result of that way of thinking.