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My lame experience in Medellin, Colombia

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I know a married guy who is an inverterate players that travels to Columbia on “business trips”. He’s in his early 40’s.

He pipelines from the US on Tinder for a week or so before travel, gets a nice suite near nightlife and sees the women he’s set up. I’ve seen pics and unless he’s lying about p4p he does well. It’s his thing, he changes venues now and then, before this it was Barcelona.
You sure he’s not simply pipelining prostitutes?
 

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Places like Colombia and most of the third world are sold to lower-tier and incel caliber white guys as an ego boosting trip. Guys have a tough time accepting that if you cannot do well in the very place you were born and bred in, you will be largely unsuccessful in a society that is different than yours.
This is true. I'm a big supporter of the idea of banging women your own home nation first. Your own race/ethnicity within that home nation is going to be the easiest.

If you're a White male who wants to succeed in South America, Spanish fluency is a must.

A lot of these online posters love to paint a picture of exoticness and show a beautiful woman in a third world dump falling head over heels for some guy who looks different. In reality, there is almost always an ulterior motive.
Yes!

Something that very few guys want to accept is that high quality women, regardless of background, will always go for men that are a lot like them. If these women go for men outside of their group, that guy has to be exceptional as well. So many western guys think that they have won the lottery getting an ethnic wife only to find that they have been scammed for a Visa and are now stuck in a sexless marriage. It's really simple, to get hot girls, you more or less have to be hot or higher value as a guy yourself and then also approach them.

Guys often look for a quick fix like going to a country for an exotic bonus but it does very little in the long-run. If you cannot score in your own country, it is going to take a lot more for you to score in another land. Generally, the highest quality men remain in their home country since they have a lot of options to pick from.
All true. The most elite looking White women that go for non-White men are getting with elite men from non-White groups. This most commonly takes the form of NFL/NBA players in the Black community and drug traffickers in the Hispanic community.

The men doing the best in terms of sexual abundance in the USA aren't looking to expatriate.
 

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Places like Colombia and most of the third world are sold to lower-tier and incel caliber white guys as an ego boosting trip. Guys have a tough time accepting that if you cannot do well in the very place you were born and bred in, you will be largely unsuccessful in a society that is different than yours. Majority of the times when women from third world dumps swarm foreigners, it is almost always for financial gain and they used to put out easily to get that. Overtime, women learned that they can just tease a desperate guy and still get what they want.

A lot of these online posters love to paint a picture of exoticness and show a beautiful woman in a third world dump falling head over heels for some guy who looks different. In reality, there is almost always an ulterior motive.
All good points.

Sex tourism works best if you travel to a country that you have some ethnic and cultural connection to. Let’s say you were born in Romania but your parents immigrated to the west when you were a kid. If you go back to Romania as an adult, and can still speak the language, chances are you will do well with the ladies. That’s because you will come across as a richer, more travelled and more interesting version of the average Romanian guy. There is a centuries-old history of male European immigrants going back to their home countries to find wives after they become settled in North America.

Compare and contrast that to the case of a random gringo who never even heard of Romania until someone suggested it as a good place to score some pvssy. The guy buys a plane ticket to Romania but then what? He doesn’t speak the local language, doesn’t understand local culture, has nothing in common with the local women and is not particularly interesting to be around. He will become a target for prostitutes and scammers but that’s about it.

Imagine a guy from China or Mexico who has never lived in the west and doesn’t speak any English traveling to Chicago or NYC to bang women. Do you figure he’s going to clean up?
 
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Sex tourism works best if you travel to a country that you have some ethnic and cultural connection to.
I'd agree. Even White men who speak Spanish fluently as a 2nd language but do not have Hispanic ancestry are at a bit of a disadvantage in Central/South America. It's good that the White man speak Spanish in that case. He'll have a fighting chance because of the Spanish language fluency but it's still an uphill battle compared to local men in a city like Medellin, Santiago, or Buenos Aires.

Compare and contrast that to the case of a random gringo who never even heard of Romania until someone suggested it as a good place to score some pvssy. The guy buys a plane ticket to Romania but then what? He doesn’t speak the local language, doesn’t understand local culture, has nothing in common with the local women and is not particularly interesting to be around. He will become a target for prostitutes and scammers but that’s about it.
Most of the sexpats are guys like that. Eastern Europe has been overrun with guys like that from the United States and Western Europe for the last 20 years. Ukraine and Russia used to be common destinations for those men until recent geopolitical upheaval.

Imagine a guy from China or Mexico who has never lived in the west and doesn’t speak any English traveling to Chicago or NYC to bang women. Do you think he’s going to clean up?
This is a good hypothetical exercise. The Chinese guy is going to struggle in all cases. He'll have a language issue and a height issue. No White woman is going to be interested. The Chinese guy's best hope would be other Chinese immigrants in NYC.

Mexico is an interesting case. Plenty of Mexicans arrive in the United States, both legally and illegally. A Mexican male who shows up in a city like Los Angeles, San Diego, Phoenix, Houston, or Dallas without speaking English can find a way to get his dicck wet. You can survive in all of those US cities without speaking English. Now, you'll be relegated to substandard, ghetto neighborhoods and the quality of vagina might not be as good. A Mexican who doesn't speak English in the Southwestern US big cities does have a niche for getting vagina though.
 

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All good points.

Sex tourism works best if you travel to a country that you have some ethnic and cultural connection to. Let’s say you were born in Romania but your parents immigrated to the west when you were a kid. If you go back to Romania as an adult, and can still speak the language, chances are you will do well with the ladies. That’s because you will come across as a richer, more travelled and more interesting version of the average Romanian guy. There is a centuries-old history of male European immigrants going back to their home countries to find wives after they become settled in North America.

Compare and contrast that to the case of a random gringo who never even heard of Romania until someone suggested it as a good place to score some pvssy. The guy buys a plane ticket to Romania but then what? He doesn’t speak the local language, doesn’t understand local culture, has nothing in common with the local women and is not particularly interesting to be around. He will become a target for prostitutes and scammers but that’s about it.

Imagine a guy from China or Mexico who has never lived in the west and doesn’t speak any English traveling to Chicago or NYC to bang women. Do you figure he’s going to clean up?

Depends on what type of guy you are :)
 

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well , look at the bright side the chads are not that many and for sure they can not bang 50%’of the world planet

so statistically you have a good chance to bang if you put in the work :)
And how many chicks can a Chad have in his harem? How many could he knock up, leaving the chick as a single mommy? Trump is a great example - he had the sexual prime of 3 different, very high-quality women, and thus there are 2 schlubs that poontangless because of him.

OK, so Trump's provisioning prowess is exceptional, but with Stepfather/Uncle Sam provisioning the Chad-impregnanted chicks, what need is there for a monogamously oriented normie? Heck, these days, chicks can get impregnanted by a collegiate Chad's donation at the fertility clinic right off-campus.

The only thing that a normie husband can give a chick that has any value is real, 24-hour attention that does not depend on her stripping at OnlyFans/Chaturbate. I think Game needs to be tailored to this - the PUA that can make his attention seem better than the other schlubs, and in such a way that he might not give it if she doesn't act right will be the winner.
 

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And how many chicks can a Chad have in his harem? How many could he knock up, leaving the chick as a single mommy? Trump is a great example - he had the sexual prime of 3 different, very high-quality women, and thus there are 2 schlubs that poontangless because of him.

OK, so Trump's provisioning prowess is exceptional, but with Stepfather/Uncle Sam provisioning the Chad-impregnanted chicks, what need is there for a monogamously oriented normie? Heck, these days, chicks can get impregnanted by a collegiate Chad's donation at the fertility clinic right off-campus.

The only thing that a normie husband can give a chick that has any value is real, 24-hour attention that does not depend on her stripping at OnlyFans/Chaturbate. I think Game needs to be tailored to this - the PUA that can make his attention seem better than the other schlubs, and in such a way that he might not give it if she doesn't act right will be the winner.
if this would be the case , then it would mean that most women should be single mommies . Which they are not

the problem of you and other guys just like you is that they gave up , which ofc will just make you paint the world even darker than it is
 

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A Spaniard for example (Caucasian) cleans da f*k up there, don’t ask me how I know. The accent alone makes undies moist. Spain is the mother country in Latin America - what all countries aspire to, it’s kind of like Stockholm Syndrome.


I'd agree. Even White men who speak Spanish fluently as a 2nd language but do not have Hispanic ancestry are at a bit of a disadvantage in Central/South America. It's good that the White man speak Spanish in that case. He'll have a fighting chance because of the Spanish language fluency but it's still an uphill battle compared to local men in a city like Medellin, Santiago, or Buenos Aires.



Most of the sexpats are guys like that. Eastern Europe has been overrun with guys like that from the United States and Western Europe for the last 20 years. Ukraine and Russia used to be common destinations for those men until recent geopolitical upheaval.



This is a good hypothetical exercise. The Chinese guy is going to struggle in all cases. He'll have a language issue and a height issue. No White woman is going to be interested. The Chinese guy's best hope would be other Chinese immigrants in NYC.

Mexico is an interesting case. Plenty of Mexicans arrive in the United States, both legally and illegally. A Mexican male who shows up in a city like Los Angeles, San Diego, Phoenix, Houston, or Dallas without speaking English can find a way to get his dicck wet. You can survive in all of those US cities without speaking English. Now, you'll be relegated to substandard, ghetto neighborhoods and the quality of vagina might not be as good. A Mexican who doesn't speak English in the Southwestern US big cities does have a niche for getting vagina though.
 

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A Spaniard for example (Caucasian) cleans da f*k up there, don’t ask me how I know. The accent alone makes undies moist. Spain is the mother country in Latin America - what all countries aspire to, it’s kind of like Stockholm Syndrome.
You're talking about a Spainard in Central/South America?
 

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if this would be the case , then it would mean that most women should be single mommies . Which they are not

the problem of you and other guys just like you is that they gave up , which ofc will just make you paint the world even darker than it is
Uh, have you been following the trends in out-of-wedlock births? divorce rates? :rolleyes:
 

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If you want to see what upper-middle-class and upper-class females in Latin America - not hood rats - look like watch this concert and look at the women in the crowd - there is a lot of panning of the crowd across all three clips.

Also, learn to dance, salsa, merengue, bachata, and cumbia...trust me guys...


Another good example: Viña Del Mar - the biggest multi-day music festival in Latin America:


 
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I beg to differ. In former communist Eastern European countries when at some times the folks are very poor, many women spent their last kopeks on makeup and came out truly amazing (the idea is that good looks will attract a wealthy man). I think the same dynamic is in Columbia, but a lot of women - the ones with significant multi-racial genetics - are just less attractive. It's like the old saying that you can't put lipstick on a pig.
In many poor countries and ridden by war. Women have only their look for tool, to survive.

These women are playing the marriage route to go up the social ladder.

It's their only option (or know option).

Columbia and Ukraine are such country. Study their history and you'll understand why look matters so much to them. Hint: they had civil war, genocide by starvation, ethnic conflict.

Sex is a tool to survive in these country.

All the "Russians" women have meet / dated always dissociated emotions from mariage and even sex.

The concept of handling suffering in these countries a matter of survival

If you want to land a "Latina" , you need to know salsa. It's going to be your social value test and icebreaker
 

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Medellin is amazing. There’s so much **** to do there. Obviously as a gringo sex tourist with little to no knowledge of the culture or language you’re not going to pull. Some of you think Medellin is some third world slum city but it really ain’t.
 

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Medellin is amazing. There’s so much **** to do there. Obviously as a gringo sex tourist with little to no knowledge of the culture or language you’re not going to pull. Some of you think Medellin is some third world slum city but it really ain’t.
we mainly said that if you are not successful in your own country , then very unlikely you will be successful in a city like Medellin

latinas are not that easy to nail . At least the decent ones and upwards . They have quite good verbal game themselves . Way better than the western women for sure !
 
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