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My lame experience in Medellin, Colombia

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Upon arriving I spent some time at various clubs and noticed right off the bat that pulling would be arduous. People go out in groups and stick to them rather rigidly, good luck going up to someone out of nowhere when she likely is with her boyfriend. I realized there wasn’t the same hookup culture as there is in the states and that I would need to reassess my game plan.
That sounds like most places in the States now.
 

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A few years ago I noticed that everyone and their mother was raving online about Medellin and how beautiful the women were and easy to lay. Eventually I decided to see for myself and booked a flight there from Miami. Upon arriving I spent some time at various clubs and noticed right off the bat that pulling would be arduous. People go out in groups and stick to them rather rigidly, good luck going up to someone out of nowhere when she likely is with her boyfriend. I realized there wasn’t the same hookup culture as there is in the states and that I would need to reassess my game plan.

What I realized was that the dip****s raving about how easy it was to get laid were ****ing hookers or prepagas. If you see a girl by herself at the club you can guarantee she’s working. Upon coming to this conclusion I decided that I wouldn’t bother with the bull**** and would try my luck on tinder. I managed to **** one fatty through that and returned home feeling like it was a worthless experience.

I prefer to **** regular girls so this unpleasant experience was a bit difficult to stomach. Some might have different experiences but I can sure as hell tell you I didn’t. I heard Bogota was better but I don’t care to find out, that place sucks ass.

Anyway, just my two cents.
With Columbia going communist, maybe the chicas there will be more pliable.
Critics say his ideas are strikingly similar to the early days of late socialist leader Hugo Chavez’s government in Venezuela.
 

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Another person I know back home in Europe, a family friend, he regularly visits the ladies of the night. Considering he is my age and I don't really think he has ever had a girlfriend I think he has resigned to the fact this the way for him. These three guys are all pretty decent as people mentally there is a hang up.
For a lot of men, the choice is:
- orbit an obnoxiously fat woman
- single mommie living in a crowded trailer (and the place is an utter mess)
- EscortMax
- IncelMin
 

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If you’re a native Spanish speaker, with a Latin American or Hispanic cultural background, you can sweep there. Even more so if you’re not the normal-looking guy that the women see out on the town there. It gets you invited to after-hours house parties, pool parties, etc. If you don’t have a hook it isn’t going to work.

Pipeline a week or two before from wherever you are is the only hope for a true foreigner. Once on the ground make male friends, buy a guy or group of high smv guys a drink and tell them your story at a higher end venue and find out what the real deal is. Part of your trip will be spent hanging with the bros, but if you make fast friends with locals your next trip will yield.

People raving about Colombia and the Philippines are liars. They are trying to justify their life choices by posting on forums how "awesome" it is living there. The reality is that Medellin is a 3rd-world trashy city, with mostly prostitutes as you have noticed, and low-value tattooed american tourists.

The only acceptable places for a white man in south america are argentina, uruguay and south brazil.
 
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This is true for the most part, and anyone who is telling you differently I would be skeptical off

However, If you go to Colombia, Brazil, Mexico etc

You gotta Pre-Funnel, meaning get on the dating apps before you get there so you got chicks lined up. Personally, for me I don't see the point of traveling for women if you can only do it once or twice a year it's a waste of time. For best optimization I think living there is best
If the way to meet girls in Latin America is via Tinder. Why not just stay in the US (assuming that’s where you are) & Tinder here?
 

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When I became single in ‘18, my plan was to try some 3rd World place like Columbia, Cambodia…. Seemed exotic and adventurous. I figured as an attractive, well-to-do White American, I’d clean up hot young pu$$y. Wound up getting entangled right here and never went. I live vicariously by reading threads like these. Sigh.
 
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When I became single in ‘18, my plan was to try some 3rd World place like Columbia, Cambodia…. Seemed exotic and adventurous. I figured as an attractive, well-to-do White American, I’d clean up hot young pu$$y. Wound up getting entangled right here and never went. I live vicariously by reading threads like these. Sigh.
You didn't miss anything. If you want to travel to a decent place, please refer to my world map of liveable places. I made a thread about it here : https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/tall-women-world-map.274304/
 

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A few years ago I noticed that everyone and their mother was raving online about Medellin and how beautiful the women were and easy to lay. Eventually I decided to see for myself and booked a flight there from Miami. Upon arriving I spent some time at various clubs and noticed right off the bat that pulling would be arduous. People go out in groups and stick to them rather rigidly, good luck going up to someone out of nowhere when she likely is with her boyfriend. I realized there wasn’t the same hookup culture as there is in the states and that I would need to reassess my game plan.

What I realized was that the dip****s raving about how easy it was to get laid were ****ing hookers or prepagas. If you see a girl by herself at the club you can guarantee she’s working. Upon coming to this conclusion I decided that I wouldn’t bother with the bull**** and would try my luck on tinder. I managed to **** one fatty through that and returned home feeling like it was a worthless experience.

I prefer to **** regular girls so this unpleasant experience was a bit difficult to stomach. Some might have different experiences but I can sure as hell tell you I didn’t. I heard Bogota was better but I don’t care to find out, that place sucks ass.

Anyway, just my two cents.
Well you probably also need to look within. Girls are girls all over the world. They are the same. Some cultures will encourage certain behaviours but women are the same. They want the best. If you went to Colombia and you went into clubs looking specifically for girls, that is the wrong mindset to have. You would have the same problem in every country. You should have gone looking to have fun with everyone, being social with everyone and go for a good time and things would happen and fall into place.
 

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I think particularly in America, men are fed up with the entitled, feminist spewing, obese women, and look abroad for better quality. Many men in the United States (myself included), don’t touch women here with a ten foot pole. Therefore I am limited to what I might find overseas. The quality is astronomically better almost anywhere else, especially in places that haven’t been infested with “woke” feminism or whatever else. I realize that’s not the only aspect of it but as mentioned the entitlement complex here is appalling.
Really where are you located?
 

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If the way to meet girls in Latin America is via Tinder. Why not just stay in the US (assuming that’s where you are) & Tinder here?
You can always meet them in person but as I said, I never understood the point of just traveling to score some poon, most of those guys who just travel for women do pay 4 play lets be honest
 

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I know a married guy who is an inverterate players that travels to Columbia on “business trips”. He’s in his early 40’s.

He pipelines from the US on Tinder for a week or so before travel, gets a nice suite near nightlife and sees the women he’s set up. I’ve seen pics and unless he’s lying about p4p he does well. It’s his thing, he changes venues now and then, before this it was Barcelona.
 

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Places like Colombia and most of the third world are sold to lower-tier and incel caliber white guys as an ego boosting trip. Guys have a tough time accepting that if you cannot do well in the very place you were born and bred in, you will be largely unsuccessful in a society that is different than yours. Majority of the times when women from third world dumps swarm foreigners, it is almost always for financial gain and they used to put out easily to get that. Overtime, women learned that they can just tease a desperate guy and still get what they want.

A lot of these online posters love to paint a picture of exoticness and show a beautiful woman in a third world dump falling head over heels for some guy who looks different. In reality, there is almost always an ulterior motive.
 

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A few years ago I noticed that everyone and their mother was raving online about Medellin and how beautiful the women were and easy to lay. Eventually I decided to see for myself and booked a flight there from Miami. Upon arriving I spent some time at various clubs and noticed right off the bat that pulling would be arduous. People go out in groups and stick to them rather rigidly, good luck going up to someone out of nowhere when she likely is with her boyfriend. I realized there wasn’t the same hookup culture as there is in the states and that I would need to reassess my game plan.

What I realized was that the dip****s raving about how easy it was to get laid were ****ing hookers or prepagas. If you see a girl by herself at the club you can guarantee she’s working. Upon coming to this conclusion I decided that I wouldn’t bother with the bull**** and would try my luck on tinder. I managed to **** one fatty through that and returned home feeling like it was a worthless experience.

I prefer to **** regular girls so this unpleasant experience was a bit difficult to stomach. Some might have different experiences but I can sure as hell tell you I didn’t. I heard Bogota was better but I don’t care to find out, that place sucks ass.

Anyway, just my two cents.


I am currently living in Panama and was in Colombia for like two months.

You can hook up, but you have to get good at penetrating social groups when out and it's not easy to get same night lays.

I hate the stereotypes about latin America being so easy for any foreign men. It's not at all. Unless you like pros or visa chasers.

You have to put in more work here to build a steady pipeline of women but it can be done. They do expect you to court them though which is a pain. It's a good place for finding a high quality gf or wife, not good for a single playboy unless you are into hookers.

I currently have a very high quality Panamanian gf...very nice, pretty girl and traditional. Almost too nice. She works with autistic children and buys me gifts and helps me clean my apartment all the time. I have a tonne of respect for her actually.

I have plenty of other options as well that i could date anytime just from playing around on dating apps meeting a few times and a few good club approaches.

It requires a different kind of game down here and patience is needed. Good luck if you don't speak any Spanish. You definitely won't just step off the plane and be drowning in free *****. It is nothing like that. Inner confidence goes a long way here though. You will be **** tested a lot.

And the competition here is not light. They have a more macho culture down here and most ethnic latin men are naturally more alpha acting than your average gringo it seems. They have zero issues with approaching woman anywhere, anytime. It's accepted as part of the culture and even encouraged it seems.

And considering the language gap...unless you are fluent....yeah most girls that express interest in you will be after money or opportunity in some form or fashion. You can easily filter those ones out though.

Honestly, just for hooking up with non pros and going out....i would choose any big american city over anywhere i have been down here. Las Vegas for example is way easier and quicker. So is Atlanta even.
 
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Well you probably also need to look within. Girls are girls all over the world. They are the same. Some cultures will encourage certain behaviours but women are the same. They want the best. If you went to Colombia and you went into clubs looking specifically for girls, that is the wrong mindset to have. You would have the same problem in every country. You should have gone looking to have fun with everyone, being social with everyone and go for a good time and things would happen and fall into place.

Yes. It is very important to act relax when out and like you are having a lot of fun down here. The women have strong radars for that it seems. If you are blatantly out for sex and don't seem to be having fun or part of the party, they will label you as just another dull boring gringo. The whole stoic act routine or acting indifferent/****y routine and just machine approach thing doesn't work here.

They are much more impressed and open up better when you are dancing, singing, laughing and having a good time. It's not difficult once you catch it. It took me a few weeks honestly. I was still approaching like i would in any US city when i first got here and getting nowhere.
 

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As someone from the lesser Antilles myself I can say that you need some social proof, that’s why I suggested allying yourself with chill local dudes if you’re not a native Spanish speaker. Anything worthwhile takes some doing, magic will not happen the first time you visit - I’d almost guarantee that and I’m a native speaker.
 
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