PoachR75
Senior Don Juan
My story is poignant because it shows a direct "cause and effect" relationship between the study of this website and changing my past failures to success.
Years ago, I was dumped after 5 years in a relationship. I had consistant female attention since then, but they never worked out. I was a jerk in my LTR and I swore that I would never do that again so as to be dumped for someone else and feel that incredible pain and depression.
Consequently, I was an AFC in approximately 8 dating relationships in 5 years. They would last as little as 3 weeks to my longest of 10 months. Almost always, I would get dumped. I discovered this site late last year and started using the principles on my latest opportunity (and she is a babe). I started immediately with 6 DAY WAIT to call. Worked beautifully. We are going on 6 months and going strong. I am in control of the relationship, but not like a dictator, I would say that I have about 60% of the power, and I get laid about 5-10 times per week. Everything is grand, but I will never stop reading this forum.
The moral of the story is ... I did the wrong thing for YEARS (with good girls, naughty girls, hot girls, so-so girls). Doing the AFC thing never worked, and it CONSISTANTLY never worked. I'll never go back. EVER>
This DJ philosophy is now RELIGION to me. I am totally confident that it works, and even if my GF and I break up, I will remember that it works and that I'll be fine.
HAVE NO GUILT IN DJing. It is not morally wrong and is not evil. It is fair, appropriate, and applies no matter what the girl is like or what your goals are (laid, LTR, hell, even just feeding your own ego).
All the guys that you know that are married and happy, with babe wives and cute kids and good jobs...they all DJ'ed their spouses in some way, at some level, ... THEY JUST DIDN'T CALL IT DJ'ING!!!!!
I feel we are a brotherhood here.
You guys are the best.
(Special thanks to those who I feel give some of the best advice ever : Giovanni, TND, Galactus, RKTEK, Crowes22, and others).
Years ago, I was dumped after 5 years in a relationship. I had consistant female attention since then, but they never worked out. I was a jerk in my LTR and I swore that I would never do that again so as to be dumped for someone else and feel that incredible pain and depression.
Consequently, I was an AFC in approximately 8 dating relationships in 5 years. They would last as little as 3 weeks to my longest of 10 months. Almost always, I would get dumped. I discovered this site late last year and started using the principles on my latest opportunity (and she is a babe). I started immediately with 6 DAY WAIT to call. Worked beautifully. We are going on 6 months and going strong. I am in control of the relationship, but not like a dictator, I would say that I have about 60% of the power, and I get laid about 5-10 times per week. Everything is grand, but I will never stop reading this forum.
The moral of the story is ... I did the wrong thing for YEARS (with good girls, naughty girls, hot girls, so-so girls). Doing the AFC thing never worked, and it CONSISTANTLY never worked. I'll never go back. EVER>
This DJ philosophy is now RELIGION to me. I am totally confident that it works, and even if my GF and I break up, I will remember that it works and that I'll be fine.
HAVE NO GUILT IN DJing. It is not morally wrong and is not evil. It is fair, appropriate, and applies no matter what the girl is like or what your goals are (laid, LTR, hell, even just feeding your own ego).
All the guys that you know that are married and happy, with babe wives and cute kids and good jobs...they all DJ'ed their spouses in some way, at some level, ... THEY JUST DIDN'T CALL IT DJ'ING!!!!!
I feel we are a brotherhood here.
You guys are the best.
(Special thanks to those who I feel give some of the best advice ever : Giovanni, TND, Galactus, RKTEK, Crowes22, and others).