I know I’m an outlier compared to most guys on here but I truly have been happier being single than I ever was when I was chasing women and bending over backwards to turn myself into the type of guy that women would like. It was exhausting and looking back, it wasn’t worth it. I’m not saying women are bad but what I am saying is don’t let anyone tell you you’re a loser just because you’re single or haven’t had success with women. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum, I’ve had mad success with women in my lifetime but I’ve also been sh!t on like you wouldn’t believe because I couldn’t shake my inner “nice guy”. The thing is, I wasn’t happy with myself when I tried to not be someone I wasn’t ( a genuinely decent guy who people liked being around, maybe it wasn’t sexy and panty wetting to women but so what). I will say that the lie of “be happy with yourself and women will come” is just that, a lie. I don’t have women beating down my door now when I’m at my peak happiness but I don’t really miss it either. I’ve gotten to where I realize I don’t need women in my life, I honestly don’t miss going on dates and being a dancing monkey hoping to get a second. I don’t care about “having game” or wearing certain clothes, I’m happiest in Columbia T-shirts’ and shorts and hey dude shoes. I don’t even own a suit and when I did own them I never wore them. It’s not me. I’m a guy that flys under the radar when it comes to women. I actually HAVE my stuff together but I don’t broadcast it because I don’t want them to know. Let them go find some other sucker to leech off of. I’ve played the game, I won at the game and I’ve lost at the game and you know what? The game made me tired, it became boring, it made me unhappy with myself.