Hi Boarders,
Moving on from the club scene i would like to investigate other areas i have had success i can only draw from my own experiences, so GREAT I HAVE SCORED WITH QUITE A FEW WOMEN lets have a look at where i have picked up or should i say made the inital contact:
15 Women from the BAR/CLUBS
4 Women from CAFES/RESTAURANTS
6 Women from FRIENDS/HOUSE PARTYS
2 Women WORK
Ok so I have only had 3 major relationships in my life guess what all these were from women I had met from friends. (I am seeing someone at the moment I see a pattern emerging here but we were introduced by mutual friends)
Note: I believe the relationships were formed because I felt a duty not to screw around the chicks partly from fear that I would get comeback as they new my friends also they are already assimilated into your group.
Lets examine CAFES/RESTAURANTS part (A) EMPLOYEES OF THESE PLACES:
I have had many part time jobs in my time while funding my University Experience this has given me an amazing insight into the mindset of WOMEN who work in these areas.
No matter how GOOD LOOKING YOU ARE 95%
of the time you will never get approached by a women who works in one of these places, and believe me if they are hot they have been hit on 50 times before you have even walked in. They see good-looking guys all the time so how you appear is EVERYTHING.
FIRST OFF if you are here in a restaurant/cafe you need to appear SINGLE this is very important: If you are with a group of Guy friends great. If you have some ladies in the group lose all the KINO and don’t appear overly interested in them.
GREAT so we need to observe our surrounding now. COOL you have spotted her slender tender waitress from heaven; damn she looks sweet in that tight skirt. So how we gonna play this, well is she your waitress YES great carry on, if she is NOT your waitress Id say forget it or go for a COLD approach at the end of the night although this is untested by me you wont have that BOND which will create in a second.
YES - she’s your waitress great heres how we will play it.. She will come over for an order (YOU HAVE TO BE THE ALPHA HERE, YOU DO ALL THE ORDERING OR INTIAL CONTACT) look for a name badge you must make sure that you find her name before you start the order, if she doesn’t have a badge ask her? Simple nothing unusual about asking your waitress her name, people just don’t do it much!
Order while USING HER NAME, COMPLIMENT THE RESTUARANT, if your crowd’s rowdy calm them down maker her feel at ease. NOW WHILE ORDERING SHE WILL MAKE EYECONTACT WITH YOU, KEEP THE EYE CONTACT A LITTLE BIT MORE THAN YOU WOULD USUALLY AND SMILE LOTS yes SMILE LOTS..
GREAT!!! You completed the first stage..( i used to be a chef and working with waitresses you hear a lot of , check out the cute guy on table 3 or damn that bloke on table 21 has such a nice smile)..
So she gone back with your order, appear interested in your friends key to this part is DONT LOOK BORED remember she will see exactly how u act in this environment Remember u may be dating her sometime so this is your chance to show her if u date she will have a GOOD TIME...When she comes back COMPLIMENT THE FOOD/JOKE AROUND WITH HER/ TRY TO MAKE HER BLUSH - you know the drill Vague NEG HITS/LIGHT FLIRTING/LOTS OF EYECONTACT - she will get the VIBE
Ok you’ve eaten had a good time, time to go WAIT NOT YET I HAVENT GOT A PHONE NUMBER!!! GOOD WHERE STILL ON THE BALL THIS IS WHERE WE STRIKE -->
Just as you friends are leaving approach her>>
>>You still remember her name right (this requires balls of Steele boys YOU CAN DO IT)
" Hi Mandy, I had a brilliant time tonight, the service was great too" (smile, use psychical language too)
>"Oh really glad you enjoyed it"
"Well you made it great"
>Blush
"Id love to do it again “
>>"you should it’s a great place"
“maybe just you and me”
>>blush basically anything other than “I got a boyfriend or no Fvck off” means go on to the next question
” so whens your next night off” (gives her time to think of a free day use this line exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!)
>>“ Thursday im not doing much”
“great give me your number and we`ll arrange something”
>>writes number let her do it on the back of your BILL
smile , exit GRACEFULLY
SCORE – ring in a few days in the phone converstation recount the restaurant,say how your friends enjoyed all that bvllshat”
Lets recount
You were DOMINANT, CONFIDENT, FUN,FRIENDLY, RESPECTFULL,YOU APPROACHED,SINCERE,DIRECT if women were with you you had social proof (I think you call it)
Pat your self on the back you scored in one of the toughest industries – It still takes balls for me to do this but done right I am confident you will score with the babe,TAKE THAT CHANCE!!
Later PEOPLE,
Moving on from the club scene i would like to investigate other areas i have had success i can only draw from my own experiences, so GREAT I HAVE SCORED WITH QUITE A FEW WOMEN lets have a look at where i have picked up or should i say made the inital contact:
15 Women from the BAR/CLUBS
4 Women from CAFES/RESTAURANTS
6 Women from FRIENDS/HOUSE PARTYS
2 Women WORK
Ok so I have only had 3 major relationships in my life guess what all these were from women I had met from friends. (I am seeing someone at the moment I see a pattern emerging here but we were introduced by mutual friends)
Note: I believe the relationships were formed because I felt a duty not to screw around the chicks partly from fear that I would get comeback as they new my friends also they are already assimilated into your group.
Lets examine CAFES/RESTAURANTS part (A) EMPLOYEES OF THESE PLACES:
I have had many part time jobs in my time while funding my University Experience this has given me an amazing insight into the mindset of WOMEN who work in these areas.
No matter how GOOD LOOKING YOU ARE 95%
of the time you will never get approached by a women who works in one of these places, and believe me if they are hot they have been hit on 50 times before you have even walked in. They see good-looking guys all the time so how you appear is EVERYTHING.
FIRST OFF if you are here in a restaurant/cafe you need to appear SINGLE this is very important: If you are with a group of Guy friends great. If you have some ladies in the group lose all the KINO and don’t appear overly interested in them.
GREAT so we need to observe our surrounding now. COOL you have spotted her slender tender waitress from heaven; damn she looks sweet in that tight skirt. So how we gonna play this, well is she your waitress YES great carry on, if she is NOT your waitress Id say forget it or go for a COLD approach at the end of the night although this is untested by me you wont have that BOND which will create in a second.
YES - she’s your waitress great heres how we will play it.. She will come over for an order (YOU HAVE TO BE THE ALPHA HERE, YOU DO ALL THE ORDERING OR INTIAL CONTACT) look for a name badge you must make sure that you find her name before you start the order, if she doesn’t have a badge ask her? Simple nothing unusual about asking your waitress her name, people just don’t do it much!
Order while USING HER NAME, COMPLIMENT THE RESTUARANT, if your crowd’s rowdy calm them down maker her feel at ease. NOW WHILE ORDERING SHE WILL MAKE EYECONTACT WITH YOU, KEEP THE EYE CONTACT A LITTLE BIT MORE THAN YOU WOULD USUALLY AND SMILE LOTS yes SMILE LOTS..
GREAT!!! You completed the first stage..( i used to be a chef and working with waitresses you hear a lot of , check out the cute guy on table 3 or damn that bloke on table 21 has such a nice smile)..
So she gone back with your order, appear interested in your friends key to this part is DONT LOOK BORED remember she will see exactly how u act in this environment Remember u may be dating her sometime so this is your chance to show her if u date she will have a GOOD TIME...When she comes back COMPLIMENT THE FOOD/JOKE AROUND WITH HER/ TRY TO MAKE HER BLUSH - you know the drill Vague NEG HITS/LIGHT FLIRTING/LOTS OF EYECONTACT - she will get the VIBE
Ok you’ve eaten had a good time, time to go WAIT NOT YET I HAVENT GOT A PHONE NUMBER!!! GOOD WHERE STILL ON THE BALL THIS IS WHERE WE STRIKE -->
Just as you friends are leaving approach her>>
>>You still remember her name right (this requires balls of Steele boys YOU CAN DO IT)
" Hi Mandy, I had a brilliant time tonight, the service was great too" (smile, use psychical language too)
>"Oh really glad you enjoyed it"
"Well you made it great"
>Blush
"Id love to do it again “
>>"you should it’s a great place"
“maybe just you and me”
>>blush basically anything other than “I got a boyfriend or no Fvck off” means go on to the next question
” so whens your next night off” (gives her time to think of a free day use this line exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!)
>>“ Thursday im not doing much”
“great give me your number and we`ll arrange something”
>>writes number let her do it on the back of your BILL
smile , exit GRACEFULLY
SCORE – ring in a few days in the phone converstation recount the restaurant,say how your friends enjoyed all that bvllshat”
Lets recount
You were DOMINANT, CONFIDENT, FUN,FRIENDLY, RESPECTFULL,YOU APPROACHED,SINCERE,DIRECT if women were with you you had social proof (I think you call it)
Pat your self on the back you scored in one of the toughest industries – It still takes balls for me to do this but done right I am confident you will score with the babe,TAKE THAT CHANCE!!
Later PEOPLE,