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Most stupid things said by PUAs

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PUAs saying stupid things is the norm.
It's fun to read, and some of them actually end up getting some good ideas, but their main problem is their background. They are never naturals, so they can't teach like naturals.

In my opinion, the most stupid thing about them isn't what they say l, but their whole approach. Being robotic instead of just acting like a normal guy. Routines. Canned openers. Instead of just interacting with women like a normal human being. Men and women have a lot of differences, but we're not different species...

In the end, I see a lot of them realising that they've been wrong, leaving the ONS life behind and finding a normal woman that doesn't fall for that crappy mumbo jumbo.


P.S. Some really fun answers so far. Roosh V's idea of rambling sounds absolutely ridiculous to me
I always thought that Rooshv wasn't really a pickup artist. He didn't really have any special techniques. He just went to countries where getting laid was easy and then wrote about it.
 

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“She’s not rejecting you; she’s rejecting your approach.”*

Nah, she’s rejecting YOU. Sorry.

*Not sure of source. Early 2000s guru.
To some extent, this is applicable to guys who make terrible approaches.

Indirect opener. Such as "who lies more, men or women?". I honestly dont see the point. Why not just start with a "Hi I'm ..."
This one depends on how your game works, if talking to her will increase your chances then an indirect opener that leads to conversations is a good play.

If you're built like Batman but have a voice like Mickey Mouse, then maybe going as direct as possible and minimizing the chitchat is in your best interest.

"She's not yours, it's just your turn"

A saying said mostly by promiscous men claiming to be high value, while only seeking out equally superficial and promiscous women and then are bitter because she´s moved on to the next guy, when he himself had the same plan and never really made an effort to go slow and get to know a women before having sex at their place.

similar attracts similar... they just wanna blame their bad relationship and incapacity to grow on a whole gender. there are plenty of shy, reserved and family oriented girls out there, but they only go out and meet girls on parties, raves, tinder and so on.

Forget this limiting belief. Build a genuine connection with a woman and your turn will last until your or her last breath.
I have thought about this too, that a lot of the stuff we talk about on these forums is caused by mostly dating club slvts.

But at the same time, maybe these are the only types of women who are receptive to random guys in the first place.

If 10% of BPD women like to date and fvck guys from cold approach or night game, but only 1% of southern belles like to do that, then our dating pool would be 10:1 BPD to Southern Belle
 

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I always thought that Rooshv wasn't really a pickup artist. He didn't really have any special techniques. He just went to countries where getting laid was easy and then wrote about it.
Somebody once made a great point that RooshV is a short hairy ugly dude, he's the kind of guy that needs insane dedication to get laid and do 100+ approaches each time.

For a dude who is average or close to it, they probably wouldn't need the extremes of his game.
 
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