Im not a late bloomer so I know it’s 100% being at the right place at the right time and social networks.
The taken ones are into you because they are probably in “placeholder” relationships. The guy is a placeholder. He was just someone available from her pool. It doesn’t mean that she went out and fished for the absolute best.
There have been times when I would enter a social network and the women would put me on “queue.” They wait until there is a crack in their relationship, break up with him, and then invite me to be alone with them.
Like a printer that puts printing jobs on queue. The average woman has many printing jobs on queue.
If you are meeting them at the bars/cubs, you are not even on queue. There’s like 10 social circle guys ahead of you.
If you have this type of insider knowledge, you can simply enter a social network, establish some rapport with the women, have them put you on queue, and wait for your turn. There will always be a crack.
90% of Relationships are based on bartering and neediness and therefore, will end eventually. It’s not a matter of if, but when.