Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

More Good News: Maybe Looks Don't Matter After All!

joesbigship

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2021
Messages
143
Reaction score
80
I'm a big advocate of boosting your smv in any way practically possible. This means grooming, exercise, wardrobe, social skills, and of course income. There is zero doubt that doing so will increase the quality and quantity of access to higher quality women.

Having said that, when out on my own taking care of chores, out with friends, or with the girl I'm dating, I can't help but notice that attractive women are clearly dating men who vary enormously in physical attractiveness/smv.

For long term relationships, comfort, familiarity, common work, school, organization are far more important determining factors. If you are looking for a long term relationship, cold approach is absolutely the wrong approach. You will need to start with friendship and familiarity and create a relationship over time (start early and often!).

Basically, there are two game modes: short term and long term. The only way to access multiple short term relationships is by boosting your smv sharply but being smart enough to abandon short term game if you can't. Long term game requires ongoing relationships where comfort and actually getting to know each other is possible.

Guys, let's drop the blackpills and discuss reality.
 

LARaiders85

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2016
Messages
10,756
Reaction score
10,544
Age
37
If you are looking for a long term relationship, cold approach is absolutely the wrong approach. You will need to start with friendship and familiarity and create a relationship over time (start early and often!).
Being aggressive at the outset is still far superior for a long term relationship than platonic friendship, that I guarantee you.
 

SargeMaximus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2020
Messages
3,029
Reaction score
1,481
Age
34
As a 7.5(8 in my head) guy who has been approached by women throughout my life and always bombed because of my verbal game I can tell you 100% that looks don’t matter. Game is all that matters
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,707
Reaction score
799
Age
38
As a 7.5(8 in my head) guy who has been approached by women throughout my life and always bombed because of my verbal game I can tell you 100% that looks don’t matter. Game is all that matters
Money too these days, especially for men once you get into your later 30s. It just seems down here in FL I see fat men, sloppy men, old men with hot looking women. I always see guys like Doctors and such with hot wives and younger too.
 

SargeMaximus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2020
Messages
3,029
Reaction score
1,481
Age
34
Money too these days, especially for men once you get into your later 30s. It just seems down here in FL I see fat men, sloppy men, old men with hot looking women. I always see guys like Doctors and such with hot wives and younger too.
Yeah I do think money will become more important in the current economic climate going forward
 

Warning!

Do not subscribe to The SoSuave Newsletter unless you are already a chick magnet!

The information in each issue of The SoSuave Newsletter is too powerful for most guys to handle. If you are an ordinary guy, it is not for you. It is meant for the elite few. Not the unwashed masses.

If you know you can handle it...

If you already have girls calling you at all hours of the day and night, showing up at your door, throwing themselves at you everywhere you go...

Then sign up below.

But if you're just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – then skip this. It is not for you.

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,707
Reaction score
799
Age
38
Yeah I do think money will become more important in the current economic climate going forward
High school and college age girls of course it's totally different but once out on their own they quickly become gold diggers.

Note on OLD how women use code words on their profiles describing what they're looking for. Phrases like "financially stable." yet on their profiles they don't even list their career. I always wonder how they have all these traveling pics and who foots the bill.

Like an low end HB 7 I'm talking to on FB dating app. 31 years old. She doesn't work, just stay at home mom! Spent the summer in NY gardening and last night went out and played video games late at night. Sounds more like your typical Simpson Comic Book guy only a woman. Yet this women don't want to carry their own weight and usually expect a guy who's making close to 100 grand a year.

to be clear not all women are like this. I think OLD brings them out more because they're resulting to OLD because they're damaged.

One advantage of dating younger women is they're not into full gold digging mode yet.
 
Top