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MILF situation

The Purifier

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Hey guys,

Haven't posted in a while. I recently met a much older woman. She's a Latina. She's smokin hot. She also has a daughter that is really hot too and just graduated college. The thing is that I feel very attracted to the mother and the daughter. The problem is that the daughter lives in another country for now but she might be moving here possibly next year hopefully. I know there is no future with the mother because she is just too old for me but I was thinking that maybe I could see if she's DTF possibly and then go for the daughter later.

It's kind of a unique situation here but she told me several times that I'm too young for her and she seems like she really wants me to meet her daughter which is something I want BUT she gives off so many sexual vibes with me. She tells me that she likes to cuddle alot and be held. We've been out several times and she always holds me and I hold her as we walk like a couple would. She is very touchy feely. This is not just like friendly touching, I mean it's like boyfriend/girlfriend type of touching. We watched a movie at my place and we were cuddled up together like a couple.

I gave her a lower back massage under her shirt and she seemed to like it. I have held her lower back close to her ass and she's done the same thing with me. She's very feisty too. She is driving my hormones crazy. I'm just not sure what I should do. I think there is a part of her that wants me and the other part holding her back is the age difference. I can tell that she thinks I'm very attractive and likes my muscles. I don't want to make a move like trying to kiss and she denying me and it gets awkward because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I was just hoping it could be like a short term FWB type of thing. Again, I've never been in this situation or had a situation like this but I've always had this fantasy of being with a MILF for a long time.

What do you think I should do?
 

Julian

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The purifier lol more like the pu$$ifier. Like bro why r u being a phaggot rn? Shes waiting for your dumbazz to make a move. Shes nt going to deny you dude she wants u fukin ay bro dont fear rejection or awkwardness or anything. Either that or its cuz U cant even make a move on this hot milf and u think u can handle the daughter. Ur a beta male. She sees you as her gay lil friend thats why she feels comfy getting close to you because ur a soyboy. Lets hope its not that second part.

Be alpha bro smash out the mom and she will give u the key to her daughter broski
 

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Hey guys,

Haven't posted in a while. I recently met a much older woman. She's a Latina. She's smokin hot. She also has a daughter that is really hot too and just graduated college. The thing is that I feel very attracted to the mother and the daughter. The problem is that the daughter lives in another country for now but she might be moving here possibly next year hopefully. I know there is no future with the mother because she is just too old for me but I was thinking that maybe I could see if she's DTF possibly and then go for the daughter later.

It's kind of a unique situation here but she told me several times that I'm too young for her and she seems like she really wants me to meet her daughter which is something I want BUT she gives off so many sexual vibes with me. She tells me that she likes to cuddle alot and be held. We've been out several times and she always holds me and I hold her as we walk like a couple would. She is very touchy feely. This is not just like friendly touching, I mean it's like boyfriend/girlfriend type of touching. We watched a movie at my place and we were cuddled up together like a couple.

I gave her a lower back massage under her shirt and she seemed to like it. I have held her lower back close to her ass and she's done the same thing with me. She's very feisty too. She is driving my hormones crazy. I'm just not sure what I should do. I think there is a part of her that wants me and the other part holding her back is the age difference. I can tell that she thinks I'm very attractive and likes my muscles. I don't want to make a move like trying to kiss and she denying me and it gets awkward because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I was just hoping it could be like a short term FWB type of thing. Again, I've never been in this situation or had a situation like this but I've always had this fantasy of being with a MILF for a long time.

What do you think I should do?
Dude... You failed a major test.. How old are you?
 

Mazer

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Do you think this woman got together with you to be your friend? Lol. Get down to business bro before she ejects. She wants sex and she is starting to think your not man enough. Good Luck.
 

Serenity

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I don't want to make a move like trying to kiss and she denying me and it gets awkward because I don't want to ruin our friendship.
And that's the typical way into the friendzone. Act like a friend and you'll be just that, a friend. You MUST be sexual and frankly it's better to risk it because if you're not getting anywhere with that you can stop wasting your time on a fantasy that won't come true.
 

The Duke

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Ohh boy another one of these guys. What is this Loveshack? :oops:
 

RickTheToad

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This dude is cruising for a bruising. This cannot and will not end well. Dude, why put yourself in this mess? Can you not get a lady w/o a kid? They cannot love or care for you. You will always be last. Come on dude.
 

The Purifier

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Thanks for the advice for those of you who gave me solid advice instead of insulting me...Update on the situation.....I made a move and got laid...She was hesistant at first but we were making out alot and touching and finally she was just like let's go...It wasn't easy though, she had a barrier up at first but she couldn't resist my charm.

Her daughter lives in another country so I'm not worried about that. Her daughter is hot too... I want to enjoy this fling honestly. I mean it's not gonna last forever, just have to keep my emotions in check and enjoy the moment. I always wanted to have a fling with an older woman (a milf).

The only potential problem I see is that she was "dating" someone for 3 months but I could tell it wasn't serious. She was like "what I am gonna say to him." I told her that I'm so much better than that "old guy" she is dating and that I'm incredibly good looking which she agreed with. I told her that she needs to tell him that it's over because I'm not gonna go out with her if she's gonna see that guy...That's not right for me or him even. Anyway, we'll see what happens but I know this is just gonna be a fling.
 

Billtx49

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Thanks for the advice for those of you who gave me solid advice instead of insulting me...Update on the situation.....I made a move and got laid...She was hesistant at first but we were making out alot and touching and finally she was just like let's go...It wasn't easy though, she had a barrier up at first but she couldn't resist my charm.

Her daughter lives in another country so I'm not worried about that. Her daughter is hot too... I want to enjoy this fling honestly. I mean it's not gonna last forever, just have to keep my emotions in check and enjoy the moment. I always wanted to have a fling with an older woman (a milf).

The only potential problem I see is that she was "dating" someone for 3 months but I could tell it wasn't serious. She was like "what I am gonna say to him." I told her that I'm so much better than that "old guy" she is dating and that I'm incredibly good looking which she agreed with. I told her that she needs to tell him that it's over because I'm not gonna go out with her if she's gonna see that guy...That's not right for me or him even. Anyway, we'll see what happens but I know this is just gonna be a fling.
Sounds good. Be open and receptive with her, might learn some new moves, i.e. she’s probably been around the block a few more times…. I did in a similar situation back in the dark ages when I was a teen…
 

BURT MCQUEEN

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Thanks for the advice for those of you who gave me solid advice instead of insulting me...Update on the situation.....I made a move and got laid...She was hesistant at first but we were making out alot and touching and finally she was just like let's go...It wasn't easy though, she had a barrier up at first but she couldn't resist my charm.

Her daughter lives in another country so I'm not worried about that. Her daughter is hot too... I want to enjoy this fling honestly. I mean it's not gonna last forever, just have to keep my emotions in check and enjoy the moment. I always wanted to have a fling with an older woman (a milf).

The only potential problem I see is that she was "dating" someone for 3 months but I could tell it wasn't serious. She was like "what I am gonna say to him." I told her that I'm so much better than that "old guy" she is dating and that I'm incredibly good looking which she agreed with. I told her that she needs to tell him that it's over because I'm not gonna go out with her if she's gonna see that guy...That's not right for me or him even. Anyway, we'll see what happens but I know this is just gonna be a fling.
how did you meet this milf ?
 

Snake-eyes

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I told her that she needs to tell him that it's over because I'm not gonna go out with her if she's gonna see that guy...That's not right for me or him even. Anyway, we'll see what happens but I know this is just gonna be a fling.
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Dude don’t explicate just demonstrate, **** her real good. That’s going to hook her on you. Specially if the older dude ain’t doing it right
 
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