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Mid twenties male virgin and sex

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Senior Don Juan
Feb 7, 2023
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I’m in a similar situation as this guy, although in a much less pronounced way.

I’m a 27 year old virgin. This is mostly because I have always been introverted, shy, anxious, awkward, etc, as a kid/teenager.
Right now, I’m in a much better spot. I’m satisfied with my looks, I have a relatively high status job which I’m very good at, I’m relatively muscular (I look pretty good in a shirt). My game is relatively good thanks to certain books.
My bad attributes right now are that I don’t have a driver’s license (I can’t seem to learn it, I probably have some kind of learning disability, but I’m working on it), and don’t have many friends. I also never had any social media, mostly because of shyness and anxiety (also considering changing this in the future).

I’ve gotten a relatively good amount of attention from a few girls. They go out of their way to be around me, they’re looking to do favors for me, they assume other girls are interested in me, etc.
Men that don’t know me very well have also assumed I get lots of women.
There’s one girl from work to which all of the above applies heavily. On top of that she seems to be looking for excuses to text me and immediately texts back when I text her (even though I myself often take quite a lot of time and keep the messages very short (but funny)).
She looks hot enough and has all the traits of a promiscuous woman. I think the chances are high that If we end up alone in a room (/her place) together it would lead to her wanting sex.
She is a single mom though, so part of the reason for all of it is probably that she’s looking for the provider type.
Now the big problem is that I’m a kissless virgin. On top of that I have a small d*ck. (I did the “toilet paper roll test”, it barely got to the end of the roll and it fits very loosely. It’s probably around eleven centimeters, so 4.33 inches. It points up pretty heavily when erect, perhaps way too much. The girl is extremely short though, so maybe she could be very tight, I don’t know)
I was wondering if there are known ways to hide the fact that I’m a virgin when having sex. Are there any kind of “tutorials” for men in my situation? I was hoping there were some kind of articles about this from people like Roosh V or Rollo Tomassi or others from these kinds of scenes.
Also ways to compensate for the small d*ck? (positions or fingering techniques or whatever)
And the same for kissing?
I know that I won’t be able to hide it completely, but I was hoping I could at least come with the excuse of “It’s been a while” or something like that.
Go bang and escort.

Go at-least 2-3 times to get a sense of having sex and intimacy with a woman.

Never mention to any girl you are going to date that you were a virgin until your age now. This is a turn-off.

Also, go on p0rn-hub or x-videos and search for "how to" videos there is plenty of p0rnstars teaching many things.

Watch also youtube and AMS (Alpha Male Strategies) on how to get laid when you get a woman to your place.

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Aug 1, 2023
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Also, go on p0rn-hub or x-videos and search for "how to" videos there is plenty of p0rnstars teaching many things.
Any one in particular you would recommend?
I guess I would need one that covers all the basics.