Master Don Juan
- Sep 8, 2016
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There's an nuanced approach to this approach. Instead of complete 'cold' approach, look to RESPOND to some interest a woman had given to get your attention, and only respond IF you are attracted [this could be called 'warm' approach]. This is probably the natural and spontaneous way it works for most men. You may not have as many interactions, but the odds are those interactions are going to go further. It's a natural way of screening, and one where you have other things on your mind besides women.Women are the ultimate choosers. That part is out of our control. It doesn't matter how much you improve yourself, women still have the most choice.
Approaching random women you're attracted to isn't just about getting laid; it's also about getting out of your comfort zone, getting better at talking to women and learning to accept rejection.
I think the reality that most are not willing to face is that we are actually 'wired' to be intimate with very few people in life. We're given an illusion of unlimited choice, like a kid in a lolly shop, or a woman in a supermarket, and told to go for it.