I find myself approaching the end of the year and my 53rd bday , again another year of frustration with women. I’m asking myself a very serious question... maybe I’m just not capable of a relationship?
we all know this pursuit of women is difficult. If it was easy there’d be no forums like this one. But damm! I was married for 17 years, together for 24. But I see that the raising of my 3 great children covered up for a lackluster marriage.
in my 10 years of being single I’ve had 4 girlfriends and was engaged to one of them, but it didn’t workout. It’s easy to point out those women’s flaws, and yes 2 of them cheated on me,,, but what about me? Maybe I suck at relationships.
almost all of my guy friends are married or in ltr of over 5 years. My ex wife is in a ltr of like 8 yrs. hell even 2 of my children are in ltr. What’s wrong with me? Sure I date, and bang those I can, but its all very shallow. Since my lAst girlfriend 2 years ago I haven’t even had a second date ! Probably 20 first
Dates/ hookups.
Maybe I’m just meant to do life on my own. I know I’ll get responses that say to focus on myself. I have! I’m successful in my career and I have kept myself in shape. I have hobbies such as mountain climbing, rock climbing, hiking, snowboarding, etc.
Anyone feel this way?
we all know this pursuit of women is difficult. If it was easy there’d be no forums like this one. But damm! I was married for 17 years, together for 24. But I see that the raising of my 3 great children covered up for a lackluster marriage.
in my 10 years of being single I’ve had 4 girlfriends and was engaged to one of them, but it didn’t workout. It’s easy to point out those women’s flaws, and yes 2 of them cheated on me,,, but what about me? Maybe I suck at relationships.
almost all of my guy friends are married or in ltr of over 5 years. My ex wife is in a ltr of like 8 yrs. hell even 2 of my children are in ltr. What’s wrong with me? Sure I date, and bang those I can, but its all very shallow. Since my lAst girlfriend 2 years ago I haven’t even had a second date ! Probably 20 first
Dates/ hookups.
Maybe I’m just meant to do life on my own. I know I’ll get responses that say to focus on myself. I have! I’m successful in my career and I have kept myself in shape. I have hobbies such as mountain climbing, rock climbing, hiking, snowboarding, etc.
Anyone feel this way?