At a minimum, I would say you should date 1 year prior to getting married. Typically, your "honeymoon phase" will last at least six months where you feel like everything is golden. Letting that wear off a bit and seeing how it plays out is smart. Keep in mind that there are certain events in an LTR that can happen and you can't control how it impacts your relationship - the biggest and most common one being moving in together.
You can have vetted a woman 100% and as soon as you move in together negative issues will pop up that you can't really know for sure will arise. Same thing with a marriage. Same thing with having kids. Etc. Etc.
Not the entirety, but the point is accurate. Children reared outside of wedlock, raised in a non traditional household are more likely to be fvcked up. Just the facts..
Lies. Marriage is just a business contract, to raise children you don't have to be married. And what you referring to "out of wedlock" is a women getting pregnant from a guy who doesn't want anything with her. A contract doesn't tell you how good you're gonna raise children.
Lies. Marriage is just a business contract, to raise children you don't have to be married. And what you referring to "out of wedlock" is a women getting pregnant from a guy who doesn't want anything with her. A contract doesn't tell you how good you're gonna raise children.
He is right. But that is only part of the story. And the fact a "contract" exists is immaterial.
Children raised in healthy marriage (or long-term LTR) are generally more happy than ones that aren't. However, I would say children raised in a nasty marriage (or LTR) where the couple is constantly at each other's throat are probably going to be worse off than being raised in a single parent household without that conflict present.
He is right. But that is only part of the story. And the fact a "contract" exists is immaterial.
Children raised in healthy marriage (or long-term LTR) are generally more happy than ones that aren't. However, I would say children raised in a nasty marriage (or LTR) where the couple is constantly at each other's throat are probably going to be worse off than being raised in a single parent household without that conflict present.
Yeah don't know man, I think a piece of paper changes people, they get complacent, women start to let themselves go (also men) and then everything goes to $hit.
Yeah don't know man, I think a piece of paper changes people, they get complacent, women start to let themselves go (also men) and then everything goes to $hit.
I am certainly not saying that doesn't happen. It does. For both sides.
But if we are talking about the children specifically, they will be better off in a long-term (healthy) LTR/marriage than with only one parent.
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I've got a 22yo half white/half black niece. Same ole story... black daddy ran off, raised by single white mom. She has major issues with masculine males. Struggles to respect male leadership. She has looked to me as a solid male because that is one thing she has never had in her life. Very sad what happens when two parents don't raise their off spring like they should. That absent father has scarred her for life. Lots of fear there.
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