Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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Let's talk about this "dragon". Does he make your wife act like a b!tch to her boss at work?Let's talk about this "dragon". Does he make your wife act like a b!tch to her boss at work? How about the girlfriends she has Sunday brunches with? The cute personal trainer at the gym? Or does the dragon have his sights set squarely on the husband?
Think back to the early days of your relationship. Do you remember how the dragon didn't even exist for the first several months? He probably didn't rear his ugly head until the two of you became exclusive (or said the marriage vows). And when he started to emerge, he did so cautiously and briskly at first, like a solider peeking out of a trench to scan the enemy position? And, with time, the dragon became more and more emboldened, right? Now why do you think that is? Do you think it's because (a) your wife did not have periods before you declared your undying love for her, or (b) there is something else at play here?
Now think about your own emotions and your ability to control them. Male and female emotions are the same. Yes, women are more emotional, on average. But the nature of the emotions does not vary between genders. Have you ever felt like telling your boss to go fvck himself? Or telling the traffic cop to stick that ticket up his ass? I'm sure you have. And I'm sure you were able to resist acting out on those impulses. Why? Fear of consequences. The dragon is a cautious predator. He will only attack when he thinks that the victim won't fight back and has no escape route.
she argues with her coworkers on occasion . And her mother.
How about the girlfriends she has Sunday brunches with?
She hasn’t got girlfriends, our friends we meet as a couple
The cute personal trainer at the gym?
Doesn’t go to the gym. She’s Asian bro. The only thing in life is family.
Or does the dragon have his sights set squarely on the husband?
and other family members. But I’m here more often than
Think back to the early days of your relationship. Do you remember how the dragon didn't even exist for the first several months?
It did happen a few times in the first year.
Largely agree with the rest.
appeasemnt is BS.