brahmabull2
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I had seen the movie "Spiderman 2" about a month ago. Why this movie comes to my mind is that there is a particular issue in the film that covers the topic of self confidence and personal power. When Peter finds out that Mary Jane has decided to move forward with her life, his spider powers literally shut off as well as his self-confidence. And, as a result, he quits being what made him unique or special. Well, after he realizes that his life shouldn't be affected by the actions/opinion of one person or the one he has always loved, he begins to get his confidence back by refocusing more on himself of being what he trully was meant to be which is Spiderman. The next thing you know he gets his powers back and you know what...he even gets the girl (sorry to ruin the movie for those who haven't seen it yet).
And just recently this kinda applied to me when I decided to take a chance and ask the girl that I've liked for a long time out on a date only to be rejected in the end. My level of confidence was at an all time low and self-doubt about my own qualities were at question. It got to a point where changing the very things that brought me entertainment was at a point of being terminated from my life. For example, most girls can't stand it when guys play video games. Well, your reading a thread from a guy who likes to play video games and has been since the age of 8. And believe it or not, the thought of actually giving this favorite past time up just to be more attractive to women did cross my mind.
So, it was only a couple of days ago where i felt that there was no way in hell my confidence would ever come back to me nor any woman would ever have anything to do with me ever again. BUT, something happened to me a few nights ago that has changed my attitude about women from that point forward.
I was surfing the net on tarot card stuff which is my way of searching for answers that no one but stars and the fates can answer for me. Well, after being mildly amused from my readings, my pointer wandered to my list of favorites. As the list of sites began scrolling downward, my eyes caught one site that hasn't been visited in ages...The Don Juan Center. So, out of desperation for finding anwers, my finger clicked on the site without any hesitation.
For the last couple of nights I began reading just about every free tip, feature article and quick bit advice that was on the site and really tried to pay attention and understand how this applied to my girl problems. Sure, months ago, reading this stuff for the first time really didn't sink in with me but, reading this stuff again and again...and again now had more meaning. The first time reading this stuff didn't really help me cause no risks of trying to date and hook-up had happened at that time. Now, things are different and after experiencing one heartbreak after another, the advice really hit home with me this time.
So, how does this apply to me Spiderman story? Well, after reading all that info., it enpowered me and gave me back my confidence and personal power back because it made me realize that heartache is all part of the game and not letting it destroy truly makes you even more confident and Don Juanish. Basically, my confidence came back to me when i realized that this girl's rejection of me doesn't matter cause only thing it will do is make me a complete emotional mess making other opportunities that could come my way unattainable. So, if you're reading this long thread, please take it to heart and don't let some chic who doesn't care about you make you into a jelly of a man. BE A MAN and show her and the world that you won't let her actions be your downfall but, your ressurection into someone who is twice as strong as you were before you fell for her. Focus on yourself for awhile and not on that dream girl as far as being a better man both physically and mentally and everything will once again fall into place. And if this doesn't help, remember what my brother has always told me..."man, only thing these hoes want these days is a free meal". : )
And just recently this kinda applied to me when I decided to take a chance and ask the girl that I've liked for a long time out on a date only to be rejected in the end. My level of confidence was at an all time low and self-doubt about my own qualities were at question. It got to a point where changing the very things that brought me entertainment was at a point of being terminated from my life. For example, most girls can't stand it when guys play video games. Well, your reading a thread from a guy who likes to play video games and has been since the age of 8. And believe it or not, the thought of actually giving this favorite past time up just to be more attractive to women did cross my mind.
So, it was only a couple of days ago where i felt that there was no way in hell my confidence would ever come back to me nor any woman would ever have anything to do with me ever again. BUT, something happened to me a few nights ago that has changed my attitude about women from that point forward.
I was surfing the net on tarot card stuff which is my way of searching for answers that no one but stars and the fates can answer for me. Well, after being mildly amused from my readings, my pointer wandered to my list of favorites. As the list of sites began scrolling downward, my eyes caught one site that hasn't been visited in ages...The Don Juan Center. So, out of desperation for finding anwers, my finger clicked on the site without any hesitation.
For the last couple of nights I began reading just about every free tip, feature article and quick bit advice that was on the site and really tried to pay attention and understand how this applied to my girl problems. Sure, months ago, reading this stuff for the first time really didn't sink in with me but, reading this stuff again and again...and again now had more meaning. The first time reading this stuff didn't really help me cause no risks of trying to date and hook-up had happened at that time. Now, things are different and after experiencing one heartbreak after another, the advice really hit home with me this time.
So, how does this apply to me Spiderman story? Well, after reading all that info., it enpowered me and gave me back my confidence and personal power back because it made me realize that heartache is all part of the game and not letting it destroy truly makes you even more confident and Don Juanish. Basically, my confidence came back to me when i realized that this girl's rejection of me doesn't matter cause only thing it will do is make me a complete emotional mess making other opportunities that could come my way unattainable. So, if you're reading this long thread, please take it to heart and don't let some chic who doesn't care about you make you into a jelly of a man. BE A MAN and show her and the world that you won't let her actions be your downfall but, your ressurection into someone who is twice as strong as you were before you fell for her. Focus on yourself for awhile and not on that dream girl as far as being a better man both physically and mentally and everything will once again fall into place. And if this doesn't help, remember what my brother has always told me..."man, only thing these hoes want these days is a free meal". : )