Hello guys, I'm relatively new to the community. I encountered a situation which I could not find thread about somehow, but I'm really looking into how I should have handled this better.
So I talked a bit with a girl (I wasn't attracted to her initially so no moves), then on the next day I asked her friend about her, because I couldn't find a way to ask her out (pretty dumb) when we were together (group setting). Now, she literally told her and send me a message of her saying she can offer only friendship, which I declined with the enough friends response, through her friend, o god. After that, a week later we met (pretty ****ed up situation), and I didn't accept her friendship offer of course, but I said that we had a good time and nothing else. I know this is ultra retarded, but I'm really starting out, please be bitter as possible, I want to hear out how could I have handled this better and also, what should I do the next time I meet her if my goal is to give it a try (she got out of a toxic relationship recently), but I'm unsure if I just missed an opportunity by just nexting her. And in general, how would you guys determine that you next or not in that situation?
So I talked a bit with a girl (I wasn't attracted to her initially so no moves), then on the next day I asked her friend about her, because I couldn't find a way to ask her out (pretty dumb) when we were together (group setting). Now, she literally told her and send me a message of her saying she can offer only friendship, which I declined with the enough friends response, through her friend, o god. After that, a week later we met (pretty ****ed up situation), and I didn't accept her friendship offer of course, but I said that we had a good time and nothing else. I know this is ultra retarded, but I'm really starting out, please be bitter as possible, I want to hear out how could I have handled this better and also, what should I do the next time I meet her if my goal is to give it a try (she got out of a toxic relationship recently), but I'm unsure if I just missed an opportunity by just nexting her. And in general, how would you guys determine that you next or not in that situation?