Let’s Settle This Once and for All! Direct AND Indirect Approaches!(Intent)

[mrskinnypantz]

I use indirect game , that's right ... I ease it in.
Being too direct can come off as a turn off , especially if you fvck up the approach .
I take it slow but that's because that's what works with ME.
for some reason the longer I know a woman the more and more attracted she may become towards me , direct game works for me sometimes , but not all the time.

 

[BadWatermelon]

Yeah, it definitely happens. All you can do is get more options

Seems to happen a lot more these days. Spam approaching is pretty much your only option.

 

[Serenity]

Ah, direct or indirect. What actually are these approaches? When I speak about it I put in technical terms what I do as instinct, I describe what I do. Problem is that the doing was never the problem, you and I can do the exact same things while getting very different results. If you're trying to emulate what I'm doing I can guarantee that you won't get the same result.

It's like jokes, one guy can tell the joke and make a whole room laugh while another guy tells the exact same joke only to get weird looks. Both direct and indirect works, debating which one is better is a diversion because it does not matter. How you pull it off is what matters, just doing what someone else is doing simply isn't enough, you have to completely own it and go all the way.

I have done the direct and the indirect, I know it ultimately won't make or break anything. What will is bad execution of what path you choose or failure to commit to one path consistently. Both paths work, it's just up to personal preference and committing to making the best of whatever path you choose to take.

 

[derringerG]

"Technique" is a very small portion of the overall picture.

No. 1 is your physical attractiveness.
No. 2 is proper escalation (context is very important)
No. 3 is general social skill and intelligence (closely linked to 2)
No. 4 is proper logistics

The opener or type of opener isn't completely irrelevant, but as long as it's "good enough," you are fine. Do not overthink this one.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yeah… gotta remember that you can’t be dogmatic. There’s more than one way to go about things

Just keep field testing and stack from the bc experience. Live your id.

"Technique" is a very small portion of the overall picture.

No. 1 is your physical attractiveness.
No. 2 is proper escalation (context is very important)
No. 3 is general social skill and intelligence (closely linked to 2)
No. 4 is proper logistics

The opener or type of opener isn't completely irrelevant, but as long as it's "good enough," you are fine. Do not overthink this one.

Yep. Looks max. Hair game on point. Lift. Have diet on point. Social equity is king. Big ups @SW15 and sniper approach. Quality and time we'll spent once competent and got game. Fellas really need to work volume. After enough experience, it's not your first rodeo. It's old hat. Whatever.

I prefer indirect but MAN TO WOMAN. IE There is no ambiguity. I'm going to take my **** out. If indirect take up space. Esculate. Make moves.

Rsd Alex once "it doesn't matter the moves you make. It matters you are a man &&& you make moves." Calibrate after the fact. Obviously no means no. Exercise common Sense.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Just keep field testing and stack from the bc experience. Live your id.


Yep. Looks max. Hair game on point. Lift. Have diet on point. Social equity is king. Big ups @SW15 and sniper approach. Quality and time we'll spent once competent and got game. Fellas really need to work volume. After enough experience, it's not your first rodeo. It's old hat. Whatever.

I prefer indirect but MAN TO WOMAN. IE There is no ambiguity. I'm going to take my **** out. If indirect take up space. Esculate. Make moves.

Rsd Alex once "it doesn't matter the moves you make. It matters you are a man &&& you make moves." Calibrate after the fact. Obviously no means no. Exercise common Sense.

Looksmax + Game is the way to do it. Not one or the other, but both!

And combined with getting more options through Cold Approach. #NextSet