Let’s make a list

brixlingo

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#1
Let’s make a list on things we are sick of in both ourselves and others and declare we will never do any of these things again. I will add A lot when I come back from the gym
 
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I'm not going to declare "I will never do any of these things again". Personality/habit change requires the formulation of clear goals, mindfulness and discipline. We can't permanently override patterns of standard behaviour by declaring so.

But primarily I'm working on killing my pvssy-talk. All the agreeable, flakiness of speech is what I'm trying to cut out.

Eg. "Ohh", "Umm", "Uhh", "That's just my opinion", "I'm just" and that nervous "hah" we add to the end of our sentences. Etc. Etc.

Basically anything that is bred from a place of being indecisive and weak. Besides correcting myself when I do engage in these speech patterns I have fleshed out my goals very clearly and elaborately. I also try and speak the truth and never, ever give tacit approval.

Most of this pvssy speech comes from us thinking about how we want to come across to the other person (insecurity). When we know our goals clearly and commit to the truth we have nothing to hide and therefore our speech is less interrupted and restricted from trying to figure out "the right thing to say" and "the right way to say it". When you know what you want and commit to the truth there is no need to attain anything from almost any given interaction, resulting in directness and assertion.

Analogous to game & red pill. Once you've started to internalize the red pill your need to 'rehearse' game will gradually decrease because it becomes who you are, instead of being about what you're trying to achieve from the interaction.
 
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#3
I'll do one..

I'm a writer and when I don't do what I feel,feel like I'm losing a girl,or desperate, I will write them letters and give them to them.. Its kind of like my last chance ditch with them but it usually never works..

It really is my version of emotional vomiting...
 

brixlingo

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#4
I will not let my desires go unfulfilled
I will not tolerate ANY disrespect from people and will cut a relationship if I don’t know them well
I will only follow MY heart and passions and not the rules of society
I will not engage in toxic behaviors that harms my body mind and soul
I will not get into a routine making me stagnant and not following my dreams
I realize how cringey this is like something out of a self help book but to increase ones life happiness and quality requires STANDARDS
 

brixlingo

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#5
Anytime your emotions are controlled by the outside world, you are no longer at the cause but at the effect, thus getting ****ED by the world (literally and figuratively)

Work EVERYDAY to create your own REALITY. Real success is carving reality the way YOU want it and accepting nothing less. You have to literally be a tank navigating the world full of bull**** to get what you want. Perseverance is the key to success. Not talent, not intelligence, perseverance alone.
 

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brixlingo

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#6
At your core, you are fearless and you fear no man or obstacle. If one man can do it so can another
 
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Myself: Having insecurities about my looks. I was always told I was good looking growing up, but maybe I hit some kind of "wall" while I was in prison. Also, relying on money all the time, despite the fact that it's pretty cool. Also, not knowing how to start conversations except for those that seem forced in the first place.

Sick of in girls: Their pretentiousness. The fact that they think they deserve a place at the top of the world just because they exist.
 
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Myself: Having insecurities about my looks. I was always told I was good looking growing up, but maybe I hit some kind of "wall" while I was in prison. Also, relying on money all the time, despite the fact that it's pretty cool. Also, not knowing how to start conversations except for those that seem forced in the first place.

Sick of in girls: Their pretentiousness. The fact that they think they deserve a place at the top of the world just because they exist.
Funny that Richardthefrog I was in prison and have trouble conversating with people in general
 
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My insecurity that always gets me is the performance one in the bedroom.. sometimes I get so psyched out by it. I just give them oral sex and run and never look back
 
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My insecurity that always gets me is the performance one in the bedroom.. sometimes I get so psyched out by it. I just give them oral sex and run and never look back
Haha. Not my problem.

Try Viagra?

Google = Canadian Pharmacy Viagra (sildenafil citrate). But if your problem is real, just go to a urologist.
 

brixlingo

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#13
Focus on the future, never the past.
Be the person who can accurately predict what will happen in the future and people will crown you as a leader. Build the dream of the future.
 

brixlingo

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#14
Thou shalt never put anything in my body that harms it
Thou shalt only allow the highest quality people in my life
Thou shalt never tolerate disrespect or negative energy in my life
Thou shalt take FULL control of my life and intent
Thou shalt NEVER settle for a life that is not the best for me


Life is what you make it boys. 1 life, 1 chance. Go for it.
 
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#17
Never give control of some aspect of your life to a women (kids, house decoration etc)

Never let a women make me believe she knows better than me.

Fix bad habit, bad relationship dynamic asap otherwise it will amplify

Dont argue its a waste of time, dictate and lead by example
 

brixlingo

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#18
Never give control of some aspect of your life to a women (kids, house decoration etc)

Never let a women make me believe she knows better than me.

Fix bad habit, bad relationship dynamic asap otherwise it will amplify

Dont argue its a waste of time, dictate and lead by example
Thou shalt go right when everyone goes lef
Thou shalt stand firm in face of controversy
Thou shalt make my own way in this world
Thou shalt never take things at facevalue
Thou shalt treat my focus as the most valuable thing in the world
 
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