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less sleep + no masturbation helps confidence?

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whats up guys i just found this site about a week ago while doing a google search for ways to overcome my horrible conversation skills with women (the hotter the girl, the dumber / cornier the stuff i say), and ive been reading the bible religiously for a week now. I noticed in the FAQ it says that getting "only 6-7 hours of sleep" and not masturbating are ways to improve confidence. Can someone with some experience explain this? Being tired and horny seems like two more stressful things I'd have to deal with how does it help confidence?
 

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No, you should give your body as much sleep as it gets. I think that sentence in the bible should be interpreted as "Don't stay in bed when you could be out there doing better stuff (like working out or approaching chicks ;))".

Stopping masturbation: Try it. It might make you more motivated, but it might also drive you crazy. It might also have no effect :).
It will have an effect, if you belive that masturbation is wrong (which it is not). If you feel bad doing it, your confidence will go up if you stop it.
 

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They dont exactly help with confidence but I can tell u that not getting alot of sleep will make you reallly cranky and you wont give a fvck about alot of things(confidence? something like that). During the summer I didnt jerk off for exactly 14 days and once I hit around 9 days, God damn i was horny, It made me feen to talk to chicks. I would be inlove with every other girl that passed by me. I think this is a plus, but its kinda hard to go without unloading for that long. One day your going to be really bored and have nothing else to do and your going to probably unload.
 

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I remember during the summer when I wnet 3wks without wacking. Man I was and wild as sh!t, felt like I had the confindence and strength of 19 men, man those where good times, I wonder wtf happened:D :confused:
 

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What kind of bull is that? You will chat more sh*t if you get less sleep as you will be less awake and wont really be thinking straight. The masterbation thing might have something to it as you will feel more hornier but its still wacked out having to not wank for a week or something. Look you aint going to find confidence from sh*t like this, you got to find that within you.
 

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LOL does anyone else remember the episode of Seinfield where George started to abstain from sex

that was ****in awesome!
 

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I have not masturbated for 5 days to this date.

One thing is suggest you do is THROW AWAY AND DELETE YOUR PORN COLLECTION.

It serves no purpose besides being a lameass. You want to wack off to chicks while there's real women out there? It's tough to do, but take possession of yourself and stop listening to what your pr*ck tells you what to do.

I deleted my porn collection about 7 days ago and still got masturbation residual urges 2 days after deleting then it went away.

Over the next few days I know it is going to hit me hard. But I like it this way.

I am not definite on this but I believe to be personally magnetic and powerful don't masturbate more than every other 4 days or so.

Remember that feeling you get after masturbating too much. How you feel weak, and all of the place?

anyone familiar with the term "Sex transmutation"?
 
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They dont exactly help with confidence but I can tell u that not getting alot of sleep will make you reallly cranky and you wont give a fvck about alot of things(confidence? something like that).
There is some truth to that. I find that when I've had less sleep I'm more agitated and I just don't give a fvck what people think, therefor I say more sh!t to girls and just don't care. Try it bro, get 5 hours sleep, wake up and go to work. You'll feel pissed off and it can give off a confidence vibe, as long as you're not a total pr!ck to everyone because you're TOO cranky...
 

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It actually make a whole lot of sense when you think of it. But not enough sleep is pretty unhealthy. Your going to have crap for coordination, not to mention it'll take you longer to heal from wounds and gain muscle mass if you work out. Sleeping only 7 hours a night for a week has worse effects then sleeping 5 hours one day and 8 hours the rest..your body lets you make up for lost sleep or something.
 

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It's different for everybody.

I've noticed if I go more than 3 days without unloading I become EXTREMELY depressed.

The less sleep thing works for me though, as I care less what people think when I need to catch up on sleep.
 

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im in that situation....i get around 5-7 hrs of sleep every night cuz of ****ing school & work. the only time i can catch up on sleep is sundays. slack off in school too much.

my sex drive has been pretty low past few months, but still masturbate occasionally.

i dont know how the sleep deprived me would compared to a me that has enough sleep.

but i dunno, usually i dont give a crap much and will talk to just about anyone i choose. if i dont wanna talk to you theni wont.
all my life i've been sleep deprived, but i dont think lack of sleep has anything to do with my confidence. sure it makes you a little cranky and not give crap much but if anything, i'd say maybe it helps a teeny bit.

but dont ruin your health over something you can easily develop, that being confidence.
 

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I didnt sleep for 7 24 hour days ( in a row) and did not wack of at the same time. My confidence right now is through the roof!
 

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I didnt sleep for 7 24 hour days ( in a row) and did not wack of at the same time. My confidence right now is through the roof!

7 24-hour days?? What other kind of days are there? Are there 16-hour days that I haven't heard about?

I think all that pent-up semen is affecting your brain. I advise you to masturbate and take a nap.
 
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