Laziness = Masturbation

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Since today is Labor Day, I think a few words might be in order regarding the pathetic lack of effort some of you (and you know who you are) are guilty of where it concerns meeting new women.

You say you want to meet girls. OK. But how hard do you try? I mean REALLY try? I believe some of you approach maybe 1-2 girls a month, get blown off, get discouraged, go home and pout about it, then beat your meat. Do you honestly expect any success by being so lazy?

People that are good at things are dedicated to being the best. They're constantly looking for improvements. Take Tiger Woods.......Do you think he just got up one day and discovered that he had a great golf swing? Not hardly! The kid eats, drinks, and sleeps golf. He hits over a thousand balls a day in practice. His dedication has paid off.....He's the best there is! Eddie Van Halen once told someone that he went to bed with his guitar so he could start playing it as soon as he woke up.....I could go on and on, but I think you get the drift......

Meeting women is no different, it takes work, dedication, and patience to get results.

Most of you don't want to disrupt your "balance".....You get up, go to work/school, come home, get on the PC or watch TV, eat some dinner, go for a stroll at a mall, never approach anybody, go back home, get a shower, then go to bed with Miss Rosey Palm.

Does this sound like you? If so, then don't b*tch about being so alone. It's your own fault!

There was a time during my twenties when I approached over ONE HUNDRED women a month! I didn't spend my spare time doing nothing....I wouldn't go to one store a day, I'd go to thirty! I loved it! Every second of it! Hell, even getting blown off was fun....I'd get with my buddies later and swap "war stories" with 'em. We'd laugh our @sses off!

I loved going out with/banging multiple chicks at the same time. I think all young guys should. When I met my (future) wife I was seeing something like six different girls!

Unless you live in some remote wilderness, you have no excuse......Available women aren't going to come to your door, you have to get out there and find them!

Remember guys, someday a nursing home attendant is going to have to help you get up to take a piss.......Go have a blast while you're young!!

Best Wishes>>BJB
 

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bond your posts are very motivational.for a month and a half i've had so many chances with the ladies and i just did'nt give them a chance because i felt like when i went out with girls in the past. i would get so far with them only to have it all blow up in my face and i got sick of getting so far and then starting again.it's like a videogame you always get to this one level that you can't get by and you give up and never want to play the game anymore or you forgot to save it and you have to start way back at the first again.who wants to do that!but i came to the dj forum to learn and grow.and its posts like these ones that make me want to pick up that game again and want to beat it this time!if other people can beat this game then i should be able to too!thanks bond!
 

improvingdonjuan

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great post!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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Confidence is the key to women
 

Stealth

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well put james bond, when ever i feel that fear of rejection setting in i think the same thing, i better do this now wile i still can i dont wanna be old and realize i had so many chances i was to scared to take.

if you dont approach an attractive women its not because your lazie and its not beacause you didnt have the time its beacuse YOU WERE AFRAID.
 

Pedro

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All well said, very well said...but what if you have a life on work and other things that make you every weekday (or almost) without a single minute for you, from waking up at 7am until 11pm/1am ??

bondjamesbond..now answer it !
 
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Hi Pedro......My post obviously wasn't directed to a guy like yourself....Why don't you read it more carefully?........

"Most of you don't want to disrupt your "balance".....You get up, go to work/school, come home, get on the PC or watch TV, eat some dinner, go for a stroll at a mall, never approach anybody, go back home, get a shower, then go to bed with Miss Rosey Palm.

Does this sound like you? If so, then don't b*tch about being so alone. It's your own fault!"..........

Sure doesn't sound like you to me.....I only accuse those of being lazy that HAVE the time but fail to do anything with it, then b*tch about being alone......

Good enough?

Besides, you're already married....to your job!
 
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I realised that when i shifted to a new city...and was dating my hand over and over again....I JUST HAD TO GET MY SELF SEEN MEETING TALKING to girls. things are getting brighter.... :) though i still have my virginity as a pal i am going to see off... :)
 

Bones

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Stealth, I comletely agree with your point about being afraid. Too often people use laziness, not enough time, etc as excuses for their lack of balls. If you think about it, what's the only reason you wouldn't want to talk to an attractive women? It's fear and fear alone.
 

Eternal

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 

Bvbidd

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What about all those rejections?

If they mean nothing then how then why does the success mean anything?

That's because you've had neither buddy besides a few rejections and your angry, your not out banging multiple women at once. Come on, we wouldn't be posting here if we were.

But besides that, lol good motivation post.

But we gotta ask ourselves.. how can success be called succes if failure never existed.
 
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good motivational post
 
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Now less than ever. I prefer being lazy over being insulted by someone I don't even know. Positive affirmation or get the fu.ck out.
 
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