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This is actually a tougher question than you might think.

Whether you go to bars or clubs, you'll probably notice that women roll in groups with their male friends or boyfriends, which means you can't make a move without some conflict popping off.

For a guy like me who's in his 30s, the weekends are worse for meeting random women than the weekdays. I find it's easier for a 30s guy like me to meet random women when we're just out running errands.

And since most of my friends are married with kids, I'd have to roll solo.

Okay so here's where I'm heading tonight: the casino. Yes, I know, trashy women are there. But then again, trashy women are what you'd find at bars and clubs.

I honestly don't know where men can find quality, decent women on the weekends.
 

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Watch chicks on twitch streams. If you send them $20 they will at least say thank you.

you’re welcome
 

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All the quality women are already in relationships. If the girl is so great why would she be single and going out to a bar/nightclub?
If you just want to bang, you don’t want quality women. Quality women indeed don’t drink and have ONS.

you only want quality if you’re seeking an LTR.

You will find lots of sexually open, decent looking women in bars and nightclubs. It’s often the only reason they are there is to find men.
 

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This is actually a tougher question than you might think.

For a guy like me who's in his 30s, the weekends are worse for meeting random women than the weekdays. I find it's easier for a 30s guy like me to meet random women when we're just out running errands.

And since most of my friends are married with kids, I'd have to roll solo.

I honestly don't know where men can find quality, decent women on the weekends.
Friday and Saturday nights at the bars is one of the worst options for meeting women that might amount to anything more than a one night stand. There are even better options than Fri/Sat nights at the bars for one nights stands and casual sex. I can think of better nightlife plays.

There is a ton of hype around the increase in childlessness in the Millennial generation. @Xenom0rph is a 30 something Millennial. I'm also there too. The hype rarely matches the reality though. The reality is that although there has been an increase in childlessness and unmarried marital status into one's 30s as Millennials, the typical Millennial in their 30s is in some sort of committed relationship at any given time. Unattached and marginally attached men in their 30s (men who typically have shorter term relationships) are often at the fringes of social circles. Social circles, even for Millennials in their 30s, are dominated by established couples.

Seduction at bars/clubs is more based upon going out in groups more so than rolling solo. I have rolled solo to bars many times and done approaches. Women have never outwardly questioned me for it, but it does feel a bit out of place to do it. Being Dark Triad, especially psychopathic, can help in managing those feelings.

You could do plenty of non-bar approaching on the weekends at city parks, walking/hiking paths, gyms/fitness classes, grocery stores, and malls/other retail. It's much easier to find a woman solo in those settings. Those settings are also available during the week as well.

You might need to do some bullshiit, weak social circle type thing like a co-ed sports league for getting your dicck wet, though it can be tough to swoop in and do that.

Whether you go to bars or clubs, you'll probably notice that women roll in groups with their male friends or boyfriends, which means you can't make a move without some conflict popping off.
Over the years dating all the way to the 2000s, I have tended to see women rolling in groups with their female friends more than ones with their male friends.

All the quality women are already in relationships. If the girl is so great why would she be single and going out to a bar/nightclub?
Even a quality woman can find herself single at some point. She is more likely to find a new man via her set of social acquaintances than any other option out there. Daygame is a good hack for men as well. The bottom of the barrel is swipe apps. Bars/nightclubs are a little bit above that. Almost all women who find themselves single at some point will find themselves going to a bar/nightclub with their female friends/acquaintances if they don't have an extensive social circle. It's possible to find something decent via the bars/nightclubs but it'd take a lot of work. If you want an extended relationship with a woman, the best venues for finding that are social circle, organized social groups (like a co-ed sports league, not anything off of Meetup.com), or some sort of non-bar approaching.
 

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I used tinder and bumble to meet new women this weekend. I'm currently in SEA and I am basically an Alpha where I'm at. I get to date pretty ladies who are at least 1m60, educated and smart. I'm at the top 10% of the dating apps so there's that.
 

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There is a ton of hype around the increase in childlessness in the Millennial generation. @Xenom0rph is a 30 something Millennial. I'm also there too. The hype rarely matches the reality though.
Yeah it doesn't, in fact millenials are the last cohort where you will find relatively moderate numbers of people with integrity. Not the same thing about Z tho. Being an very early Z myself, most of what i see in my generation is a mass of childish idiots with good hearts but who in practice have bad characters. This is what i see in both men and woman, but woman are far worse due to IG "fame" and people cloning eachother's minds and having no individuality due to web 4.0. if you choose wrong woman of friends from this generation, you may get stomped, while at least most of the earlier gen coudn't be as inhumane and selfish to do so in such high chance.
 
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All the quality women are already in relationships. If the girl is so great why would she be single and going out to a bar/nightclub?
This, I use to go to clubs/bars a lot when I was in my 20s (use to write tons of FR's here)
Now in my late 30s It's a waste of my time. Its counter-productive to the healthier lifestyle I'm trying to live
and even if you do meet a woman most women are flaky af at those settings
I found what works best for me now a days is

Art Festivals--Pre covid this was a great way to meet women, art, music, drinks and women tend to be more open-minded plus we had art in common. I'm not sure about now because I haven't been to one in 3 years

Fashion events-ratio of 2 women to 1 man(sometimes 3 to 1). The last event I literally had 3 women fighting for me (cougars) be careful going after the models though

Boat parties-Is the thing again in 2022. If you don't know anyone go on eventbrite.com depending on your city you can find one every weekend or even every day

Social circle-is a must in your 30s that's where quality can be found
 
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