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Its bad sign when I makeout with girl on first date and no in second?

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We were a little drunk in first date not in second. She want a third date
 

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What happened on the second date?

Hopefully you got at least a regular kiss.

Going from a makeout to zero physical affection is more concerning.
the only contact i have is a hug.
 

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Not a bad sign, if you didnt go for it. The bad sign would be if you go for the kiss and she rejects.
 

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We were a little drunk in first date not in second. She want a third date
Yes, it's a very bad sign. It's a lack of progression. Moving backwards, in fact. If the girl isn't excited to move things forward with you, generally it's a wrap.
 

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Even if you do bang her, she will try to push you into an undersexed relationship.

She's currently moving you down a path that will soon have three forks: friendzone, giving her attention while you try to get laid, or a lame relationship.
 

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Perhaps not, but I have had a relationship with a woman that was somewhat like this. We had had coitus about 8 hours after he knew that the other had existed. She was quite unreceptive to sex after this (although she had relented a few times), and once we had gotten into a long-distance relationship (yes, I know), her legs seemed to be zipped up tight when we got together. Obviously, once I had figured out the trend, I lost interest.
 

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the only contact i have is a hug.
i would never hug a girl I was going to smash, just women Im aqquainted to.

also dont mention the second date issues, dont apologise for them

moderate your drinking watch you dont drink quick

women have zero leeway, men give women too much leeway

she will drop you for a stray eyebrow

stay james bond at all times
 

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I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just make sure you do better on date 3.

If she wasn't interested she wouldn't be suggesting a date 3.
 

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Didn’t read the entire thread just OP first post.

And yes its a problem because
this is the only woman you currently have.
 
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