Man what a day. Okay I work at a gym as a fitness instructor. This new girl moved from the west coast. In college, one kid (I'm fine with that). Very very pretty. I was helping her out today and we were talking. She laughed at my jokes etc. It was fun... Now I said to myself I gotta do something. I would never hit on her or ask for her number. I would get fired.
She asked me if my gym has another location I said yes. Then I named this location. She said she need more ab stuff. I said if you have any questions I work at the place your looking at. I actually live close to that specific centers place. From my experience I've had girls ask me if they could workout with me. I was giving a test to see if she would wanted to workout with me. Nothing there... Then as we talked I said hey are you on facebook. She said "Yeah". I quickly switched the subject. Most of the members at the gym and staff always connect via facebook. Everyone here is real tight. From the way she said it I kinda got the sense she wasn't interested like that. I was disappointed because damn it, I really really like her lol. I mean she will make you not wanna cheat. Her facebook said she is single. Maybe I'm just not here type. Don't worry I didn't friend her. She is also going to try to go in the army. That's one thing where I said if she gets in the chase is a waste of time. Any suggestions? Thx
There's not enough info here. What was her tone? Eye contact? Should have asked for the facebook contact info.
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This^^^ bro. You being a funny fitness instructor does help, but if she's a beautiful woman, she probably gets guys trying to put the moves on her on a daily basis, and may have been on to your game. Building a little additional attraction to get her pining after you, may have helped here. (hind sights 20/20) Just throwing out thoughts.
You can say all the right things but, while you're doing it, are you staring at her tits? How's your body language? Are you the cool and confident guy with the smirk, and the sparkle in his eyes? (no homo)