Is sex sacred to women at any point?

[christie]

well you have to think more about the future , like for example if you really like the guy you will start a relationship based on lies , which is not the best start

btw I would really appreciate a woman thought about something , will send you a dm

I cannot lie, I will get sick and spiral down.

However, I can learn to calibrate saying 'No, I will not answer any sexual questions, thanks anyways' to a new prospective boyfriend that is asking.

Almost like a Tomassi Iron Rule.

If anything, it should demonstrate I deem sex sacred and private.

 

[Bigpapa]

I cannot lie, I will get sick and spiral down.

However, I can learn to calibrate saying 'No, I will not answer any sexual questions, thanks anyways' to a new prospective boyfriend that is asking.

Almost like a Tomassi Iron Rule.

If anything, it should demonstrate I deem sex sacred and private.

yes , but again if you deem that sex is sacred and private and in reality you did not see it like that , then more or less you are just manipulating the situation in order to get what you want ...

Like I said , I do not think that a healthy relationship can be built on lies .

sure there are a lot of red pill dudes here that are way too extreme in what they say , but I am quite sure that there are also guys who are more middle centered and will not judge the past of a woman no matter how colored it is .

the point of a relationship is for everyone to be as they really are , not to pose in something that they are not

me for example , I do not really care about this kind of things , for me it matters how the woman is

 

[christie]

yes , but again if you deem that sex is sacred and private and in reality you did not see it like that , then more or less you are just manipulating the situation in order to get what you want ...

Like I said , I do not think that a healthy relationship can be built on lies .

sure there are a lot of red pill dudes here that are way too extreme in what they say , but I am quite sure that there are also guys who are more middle centered and will not judge the past of a woman no matter how colored it is .

the point of a relationship is for everyone to be as they really are , not to pose in something that they are not

me for example , I do not really care about this kind of things , for me it matters how the woman is

yes, I understand.

It always did make me uncomfortable with questions about past boyfriends/sex.

I was never under any obligation to divulge confidential information and I almost regret sharing when I realise they refused to equally share or outright lied about their sexual past.

Reading on this forum I am convinced that I actually don't want to know a guy's sex history. I'm not kidding.

 

[derby1]

It has more significance for them because they don't want to give it to any guy.

They give it to a lot of guys from what i see, and i wouldnt call many of them "Alpha"

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Wh0res, slvts and escorts have what we call the 1000 c0ck stare. They have lost their bonding glue and are "fallen" women. It's not a judgement - women can choose whatever life they want for themselves. However, it's pretty well known that high notch women are deeply unhappy.

Are these the type that emotionally it feels like a "porcupine" or degrading to be around? Any comfort is replaced with spikes and discomfort?

 

[Baibars]

They give it to a lot of guys from what i see, and i wouldnt call many of them "Alpha"

They still don't give it to any guy that's contrary to their nature. That's the reason why they don't accept any guy on tinder or chase men. It's because of their selective nature. He must be useful for them wether it's alpha or beta.

 

[christie]

Are these the type that emotionally it feels like a "porcupine" or degrading to be around? Any comfort is replaced with spikes and discomfort?

avoid these like avoiding covid

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You're right.

Still, best to keep previous bedroom experience talk to myself--there's zero benefit to myself for being that honest to a man-------------------there is no participation trophies to be handed out, not joking.

Vice versa.

Man, I appreciate this honesty. I recognise this and it helps me to identify how I can change the way I refer to an ex.


I think its key to hold back info when speaking of an ex. I've been honest without tact and that's attractive to noone.



The running list I have so far when meeting someone new in non-forum life.

*I will not divulge my age(its the first thing guys describe and pigeonhole you with)

In the first several dates, why does it matter? What should m

*I will not divulge my sexual notch count(again, 11 will be deemed a wrong number)

*I will not speak about an exboyfriend past a playful, respectful joke or two.

*I will not display any masculine traits or characteristics.(I will not admit I work, what I do or have done nor speak of money at all; I will not admit knowing importance of red pill and selfdevelopment, ever. It will be obvious in my actions that I know my role; I will not treat a man like a buddy I compete with or spar for power comeuppance in my romantic life anymore....only feminine, supportive, cooperative at all times)



This is the list I have so far after 10 straight months on sosuave.
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avoid these like avoiding covid

 

[christie]

Vice versa.


In the first several dates, why does it matter? What should m

*I will not divulge my sexual notch count(again, 11 will be deemed a wrong number)

*I will not speak about an exboyfriend past a playful, respectful joke or two.

*I will not display any masculine traits or characteristics.(I will not admit I work, what I do or have done nor speak of money at all; I will not admit knowing importance of red pill and selfdevelopment, ever. It will be obvious in my actions that I know my role; I will not treat a man like a buddy I compete with or spar for power comeuppance in my romantic life anymore....only feminine, supportive, cooperative at all times)



This is the list I have so far after 10 straight months on sosuave.

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much respect for sharing a lady youtuber, I'll continue to watch it now

 

[mrgoodstuff]

much respect for sharing a lady youtuber, I'll continue to watch it now
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She's really good at this type of message.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

much respect for sharing a lady youtuber, I'll continue to watch it now
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[christie]

Sufficiently, Adequately, Compassionately, Competently, Comfortably, Calmly and Confidently express your feelings and stick up for yourself even with the consequences of them not hearing us or they may not agree with us still--we may have to then negotiate.

At least we are no longer passive aggressive or immature.


She is genuine. She has a roadmap for spiritual enlightenment that involves spiritual detachment!

 

[christie]

I believe in that "vice versa" too now, @mrgoodstuff

 

[christie]

factchecking; being unreactive to emotions, not responsive; having selfbalance and having a relationship with yourself first are a few things that will unattract an unhealthy 'shady' narcissist or other dangerous personality in your life.

Good youtuber find!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Why being "too good" to someone can get you fvcked up... It was because narcissists exploit this personality type, this is what they think they are supposed to be used for...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sufficiently, Adequately, Compassionately, Competently, Comfortably, Calmly and Confidently express your feelings and stick up for yourself even with the consequences of them not hearing us or they may not agree with us still--we may have to then negotiate.

At least we are no longer passive aggressive or immature.


She is genuine. She has a roadmap for spiritual enlightenment that involves spiritual detachment!

Listening to her is depressing as he11. But it makes it really clear.

 

[christie]

Why being "too good" to someone can get you fvcked up... It was because narcissists exploit this personality type, this is what they think they are supposed to be used for...

Man, she's personable. I like the metaphoe

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Man, she's personable. I like the metaphoe

The subject is depressing though. Maybe that's how it's supposed to be.

 

[christie]

The subject is depressing though. Maybe that's how it's supposed to be.

down on phone battery and can't get the type in and still listen to her video.

Don't let this sap your energy. Give it another month or two before watching her again. Its ok, its heavy important stuff.

Hey! that big match is today!!!! Both Tyson and Jones look ready!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

down on phone battery and can't get the type in and still listen to her video.

Don't let this sap your energy. Give it another month or two before watching her again. Its ok, its heavy important stuff.

Hey! that big match is today!!!! Both Tyson and Jones look ready!

It makes the clarity of the treachery of a narc well defined and crystal clear. Curious about this fight.