You make an excellent point about mood. Women operate on emotion.
In 5+ years, she only gave her number out to 10-15 men while at work. In those 5+ years, at least 400 men asked for it while she worked. Also, only 2 dates resulted, indicating a high flake rate post number acquisition. Neither date resulted in either a 2nd date or sex.
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