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Is it wrong for a 30+ year old man to be attracted to girls in their late teens?

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its because you’re extremely thirsty bro.

“I gotta have my nut” *pant pant pant*

“if a young woman isn’t available, granny pvssy will do.”

It’s the wrong way, dude:
Lol bro, you act like getting younger chicks is difficult and the equivalent of catching a unicorn. It's not. You're 34 years old. You're smarter and more intelligent than a High School girl. Of course you can seduce them. They're easy.

To be honest, I think you're just intimidated by woman your own age. You probably have nothing going for you. Women in their 30s with real careers probably scare you. There's nothing wrong with ****ing young chicks when the opportunity arises, but if that's all you exclusively try to fvck it's a little bit sus.
 

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The problem is when men actively search for 30+ women. I can get if some men feel they are not good enough to get a younger woman based on whatever circumstance, so they will submit to going after older women as the easier option. And they are easier because they are less valuable sexually. However older men still go off to foreign resorts where they get access to younger escorts.
Older, experienced women aren’t necessarily easier either. An experienced, jaded women who’s taken multiple c0ckas knows the score. She knows men are bad and she’s experienced significant emotional pain from failed relationships and her waning biological clock. It’s a nest of vipers.

A younger woman who’s less experienced tends to take more risks because she doesn’t know what emotional pain feels like. She might be more inclined to have a one night stand, because she doesn’t know that horrible, cheap feeling women usually get when they have casual sex (it’s why young women need protection).
 

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Lol bro, you act like getting younger chicks is difficult and the equivalent of catching a unicorn. It's not. You're 34 years old. You're smarter and more intelligent than a High School girl. Of course you can seduce them. They're easy.

To be honest, I think you're just intimidated by woman your own age. You probably have nothing going for you. Women in their 30s with real careers probably scare you. There's nothing wrong with ****ing young chicks when the opportunity arises, but if that's all you exclusively try to fvck it's a little bit sus.
You definitely have a feminine mindset. You care about a woman’s career, I don’t. She could be unemployed for all I care. I might even prefer it if she’s unemployed.

If she doesn’t want to work, she doesn’t have to. I’ll support her. But the deal is she takes care of the home.

The problem with this arrangement is I don’t like the legal position I put myself in because of government laws and regulations. I have something to lose. You don’t, so you don’t get it.
 

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Older, experienced women aren’t necessarily easier either. An experienced, jaded women who’s taken multiple c0ckas knows the score. She knows men are bad and she’s experienced significant emotional pain from failed relationships and her waning biological clock. It’s a nest of vipers.
I've experienced women in their 30s have the same, overly inflated standards as women 10 years younger than them. There isn't much difference in degree of difficulty in getting vag from a 23 year old vs a 33 year old.
 

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An older man obsessed with chasing High School aged girls has clearly hit the wall or he is basically Dan Blizeran(more than likely the wall). You are telling me that you aren't economically attractive to women your age or in their late twenties/early thirties, so you have to go for girls in high school that see a car and TGI Friday dinners as successful.

BUT BUT all of the older girls are fat, single moms, and nasty. This is because you live in Texarkana, Texas or Southside Chicago where the only attractive girls are straight out of high school before they get knocked up or destroy their bodies with their lower income lifestyles. Notice these guys do not even try to negotiate with age and just straight up say High School aged girls lmao.

We are having kids much later in life, so finding a non single mom isn't an issue if you are in the RIGHT AREA. If you are in Texarkana, Texas or Southside Chicago then you are shvt out of luck.

Every girl is crazy regardless of age. TBH, I think Gen Z and whatever generation that follows them is worse than millennials, so idk what drugs yall are smoking.

Again, the location is going to matter the most. Yes, a younger girl is going to beat out most older women in Texarkana, Texas because it's flipping Texarkana.
 

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You definitely have a feminine mindset. You care about a woman’s career, I don’t. She could be unemployed for all I care. I might even prefer it if she’s unemployed.

If she doesn’t want to work, she doesn’t have to. I’ll support her. But the deal is she takes care of the home.

The problem with this arrangement is I don’t like the legal position I put myself in because of government laws and regulations. I have something to lose. You don’t, so you don’t get it.
Say less. You just like fvcking low quality women. Who wants to have a relationship with an unemployed hood rat? I sure don't. Maybe a relationship is not your goal. Which is fine. Fvck borderline underage women all you want. I have no morals against it. I just don't see why you hate on women who are LITERALLY YOUR OWN AGE. They need d!ck too. I see pvssy as pvssy. Most guys on this forum are virgins and would be happy to smash a milf. Think about the dudes reading this.. does a 30+ year old virgin have to **** an 18 year old to feel validated and accepted on this forum? Congratulate people on this successes. You made it clear what your preference was. That's cool bro. Some of us are willing to get sloppy from a drunken milf, and I'm not gonna let you or anyone else make me feel bad or less of a man about it.
 

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Say less. You just like fvcking low quality women. Who wants to have a relationship with an unemployed hood rat? I sure don't. Maybe a relationship is not your goal. Which is fine. Fvck borderline underage women all you want. I have no morals against it. I just don't see why you hate on women who are LITERALLY YOUR OWN AGE. They need d!ck too. I see pvssy as pvssy. Most guys on this forum are virgins and would be happy to smash a milf. Think about the dudes reading this.. does a 30+ year old virgin have to **** an 18 year old to feel validated and accepted on this forum? Congratulate people on this successes. You made it clear what your preference was. That's cool bro. Some of us are willing to get sloppy from a drunken milf, and I'm not gonna let you or anyone else make me feel bad or less of a man about it.
Keeping reaching, mommy’s boy.

No one said “highschool girls” or “hood rats”. That’s your own projection.

Although I think 17 is okay, my ideal is around 21.

I’ve noticed that thirsty guys like you who have convinced themselves that they can only obtain the grey flaps, they then like to accuse anyone who disagrees with them of pedophilia or being a loser for not enjoying the dust of old vagina.

I’ve also found it quite gay wanting to put your penis in a place where other penises and have been. It’s why I can’t bang women who are banging other men. It’s too gay for me.
 

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LITERALLY YOUR OWN AGE.
Women want you to be more experienced and higher value than them. They generally can’t find that amongst their own age group in their 20’s.

Guys in their 30’s are in their prime. If you don’t know it, it’s because you don’t experience it. You’re balls deep in dust and walking sticks
 

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Keeping reaching, mommy’s boy.

No one said “highschool girls” or “hood rats”. That’s your own projection.

Although I think 17 is okay, my ideal is around 21.

I’ve noticed that thirsty guys like you who have convinced themselves that they can only obtain the grey flaps, they then like to accuse anyone who disagrees with them of pedophilia or being a loser for not enjoying the dust of old vagina.

I’ve also found it quite gay wanting to put your penis in a place where other penises and have been. It’s why I can’t bang women who are banging other men. It’s too gay for me.
I never accused you of pedophilia. I said borderline underage, which is literally what they are. I never said it was illegal or accused you of being a pedophile. I'd be a hypocrite.

I hate to break it to you, but most girls are tossing multiple ****s at once. Even your 18 year old princess.
 

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An older man obsessed with chasing High School aged girls has clearly hit the wall or he is basically Dan Blizeran(more than likely the wall). You are telling me that you aren't economically attractive to women your age or in their late twenties/early thirties, so you have to go for girls in high school that see a car and TGI Friday dinners as successful.

BUT BUT all of the older girls are fat, single moms, and nasty. This is because you live in Texarkana, Texas or Southside Chicago where the only attractive girls are straight out of high school before they get knocked up or destroy their bodies with their lower income lifestyles. Notice these guys do not even try to negotiate with age and just straight up say High School aged girls lmao.

We are having kids much later in life, so finding a non single mom isn't an issue if you are in the RIGHT AREA. If you are in Texarkana, Texas or Southside Chicago then you are shvt out of luck.

Every girl is crazy regardless of age. TBH, I think Gen Z and whatever generation that follows them is worse than millennials, so idk what drugs yall are smoking.

Again, the location is going to matter the most. Yes, a younger girl is going to beat out most older women in Texarkana, Texas because it's flipping Texarkana.
Older women have emotional, sexual baggage and, because of this, are less feminine and more jaded.

I’ve said this many times before - it’s about experience.

A 30 year old female virgin is more valuable than a 25 year old female who’s taken 50 c0cka for example. And that’s purely because you get the best out of a woman when she’s “new.”

Women aren’t like men. Men get better with experience. Women get worse (unless you want a mommy).
 

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I never accused you of pedophilia. I said borderline underage, which is literally what they are. I never said it was illegal or accused you of being a pedophile. I'd be a hypocrite.

I hate to break it to you, but most girls are tossing multiple ****s at once. Even your 18 year old princess.
I say “younger women” and you start saying “highschool girls” - you’re like a creepy politician.

You’d give women chills with your fake morality. No wonder you’re so thirsty. “Gotta have my nut. Gotta have my nut.” - quoting you directly.
 

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I say “younger women” and you start saying “highschool girls” - you’re like a creepy politician.

You’d give women chills with your fake morality. No wonder you’re so thirsty. “Gotta have my nut. Gotta have my nut.” - quoting you directly.
When you say 18, I literally think of a senior in high school, or fresh out.

Creepy politician? How? I think you're the one projecting now..

I really don't care what you do and I'm not gonna entertain this conversation any further. You keep fvcking 18 year olds, more "grey *****" for me.
 

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It's funny how certain posters have beliefs that are aligned with the feminine imperative... Makes one wonder...
 

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It's funny how certain posters have beliefs that are aligned with the feminine imperative... Makes one wonder...
From what I understand, banging older women and slvts definitely supports the feminine imperative because it supports “consequence-free sex” for women. It allows them to extend their hypergamy indefinitely.

Shunning slvts and older women puts enormous pressure on female standards. Something that is very needed.

Have you noticed how older women like to patrol younger women too? Older women will enthusiastically shame men for liking younger women - classic stuff.
 

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Older women have emotional, sexual baggage and, because of this, are less feminine and more jaded.

I’ve said this many times before - it’s about experience.

A 30 year old female virgin is more valuable than a 25 year old female who’s taken 50 c0cka for example. And that’s purely because you get the best out of a woman when she’s “new.”

Women aren’t like men. Men get better with experience. Women get worse (unless you want a mommy).
First. there is no such thing as a 30-year-old virgin. Second, you are translating women from a Texarkana, Texas perspective. Lets Compare two different women by age 30.

Ashley (lives in Texarkana or Southside Chicago)- Ashley is the hot high school girl that peaked physically in HS and doesn't perform well in school. She decides to not attend college and work at Buffalo Wild Wings as a hostess. In addition, most of the guys going after her are dead beat losers because she's a dead-beat loser herself. By the age of 30, she is overweight, works at Mcdonalds, been ran through so many guys, and has a kid out of wedlock. As a result, 18 year old Ashley is miles better than 30 year old Ashley due to the extreme wear and tear of living lower class.

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Elizabeth (lives in Midtown Atlanta, Georgia)- Elizabeth is a plain jane nerd in HS and does well on the SAT. Elizabeth decides to attend the University of Georgia after high school. Elizabeth has her eyes set on working at Deloitte in Accounting and most of her energy is diverted to that. Yes, she might have a few one-night stands with some Frat Boys in college, but she finds a Boyfriend eventually. However, Erick gets a job offer in Denver, Colorado and Elizabeth wants to stay near her family, so they have a post college breakup. Elizabeth decides that she wants to focus more on her career and travelling afterwards. Elizabeth finds a few guys, but none of them pan out because of her career. Elizabeth makes it into Deloitte and is able to afford a luxury apt in midtown Atlanta. She also has access to a gym, a healthier diet than in her early twenties, and just knows how to take care of herself better due to experience. Now older Elizabeth pans out better than high school Elizabeth, but she makes 100k which disqualifies a lot of men her age. Plus, she lives in Midtown Atlanta and not Calhoun, Georgia.

Most women in these bumfvck towns are Ashley and end up like Ashley by age 30. As a result, if you live in Calhoun, Ga or Texarkana, Tx then this is mostly what you get. If you want to meet a girl like Elizabeth then you have to have money because she lives in a more expensive place, and she makes a lot more money than a Mcdonalds line worker. Last, I like Mcdonalds and I have never seen a hot mcdonalds worker, so don't even bring up this 10/10 girl flipping hamburger patties scenario.
 

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Exactly. Thirst.

Guys who confess to liking slvts and older women are telegraphing their own failure
I think you are overcompensating.

Every time you point a finger at someone you have 3 pointing back at you....


Seriously, what do YOU care? Did you have a traumatic episode where one of your buddies took down your MOM?

A recurring theme around here is the most critical posters are compensating for their lack of ability as well rounded men.

A TRULY beautiful woman is beautiful no matter her age. There comes a point in a man's life where he values consistency, relatability and dependability in a mate. DJ then stands for "Dad Jokes", He has created an Alpha Widow, because she wouldn't leave him and he has obliterated all her previous lovers because in addition to his good rogering he owns her soul because he knows what makes her tick and continues to lead in the relationship. He has relationship endurance and a skill set to continue to stimulate her mind body and soul. He handles her $hit tests the first time, and she doesn't test him again often because he handled it so well early on . But even then he's not intimidated by a strong woman because she is strong alongside him, not some meek naive servant that does what she is told and no more...

When we as men are not challenged, we cease to grow. As we mature we find different challenges. Show some class and encourage others who have different goals than you. I'm not looking to be Hugh Hefner. That would be exhausting.
 

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First. there is no such thing as a 30-year-old virgin. Second, you are translating women from a Texarkana, Texas perspective. Lets Compare two different women by age 30.

Ashley (lives in Texarkana or Southside Chicago)- Ashley is the hot high school girl that peaked physically in HS and doesn't perform well in school. She decides to not attend college and work at Buffalo Wild Wings as a hostess. In addition, most of the guys going after her are dead beat losers because she's a dead-beat loser herself. By the age of 30, she is overweight, works at Mcdonalds, been ran through so many guys, and has a kid out of wedlock. As a result, 18 year old Ashley is miles better than 30 year old Ashley due to the extreme wear and tear of living lower class.

VS

Elizabeth (lives in Midtown Atlanta, Georgia)- Elizabeth is a plain jane nerd in HS and does well on the SAT. Elizabeth decides to attend the University of Georgia after high school. Elizabeth has her eyes set on working at Deloitte in Accounting and most of her energy is diverted to that. Yes, she might have a few one-night stands with some Frat Boys in college, but she finds a Boyfriend eventually. However, Erick gets a job offer in Denver, Colorado and Elizabeth wants to stay near her family, so they have a post college breakup. Elizabeth decides that she wants to focus more on her career and travelling afterwards. Elizabeth finds a few guys, but none of them pan out because of her career. Elizabeth makes it into Deloitte and is able to afford a luxury apt in midtown Atlanta. She also has access to a gym, a healthier diet than in her early twenties, and just knows how to take care of herself better due to experience. Now older Elizabeth pans out better than high school Elizabeth, but she makes 100k which disqualifies a lot of men her age. Plus, she lives in Midtown Atlanta and not Calhoun, Georgia.
Those women aren’t relatable for me. They aren’t on my radar.

The demographic I look at is a girl who’s gone through highschool and is now in university or just entering the workforce.

She’s sexually inexperienced, from a good family and has typically had 1 or 2 extremely beta boyfriends who didn’t manage to bang her. Or banged her badly.

These women exist. There aren’t enough players to service them all in time, but the chances increase with time.

It’s after a woman encounters a true player for the first time that you start to have issues. Alpha Widowhood is a very real thing and once she’s had her heart broken once, all future men live in the shadow of it. You literally cannot beat the guy who was there first. Ever. And I don’t mean sexually. The first guy to capture her mind and she bonds to. That’s essentially her pinnacle of feminity.
 

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I think you are overcompensating.

Every time you point a finger at someone you have 3 pointing back at you....


Seriously, what do YOU care? Did you have a traumatic episode where one of your buddies took down your MOM?

A recurring theme around here is the most critical posters are compensating for their lack of ability as well rounded men.

A TRULY beautiful woman is beautiful no matter her age. There comes a point in a man's life where he values consistency, relatability and dependability in a mate. DJ then stands for "Dad Jokes", He has created an Alpha Widow, because she wouldn't leave him and he has obliterated all her previous lovers because in addition to his good rogering he owns her soul because he knows what makes her tick and continues to lead in the relationship. He has relationship endurance and a skill set to continue to stimulate her mind body and soul. He handles her $hit tests the first time, and she doesn't test him again often because he handled it so well early on . But even then he's not intimidated by a strong woman because she is strong alongside him, not some meek naive servant that does what she is told and no more...

When we as men are not challenged, we cease to grow. As we mature we find different challenges. Show some class and encourage others who have different goals than you. I'm not looking to be Hugh Hefner. That would be exhausting.
An unpopular opinion doesn’t make it a wrong opinion. You’ve got a herd animal mindset.

Younger women being better than older women, my detailed explanations aside, are very obvious even on the surface for a man who has a working endocrine system and values where he invests his time and energy. We have limited time on this earth, bro.
 

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Lol bro, you act like getting younger chicks is difficult and the equivalent of catching a unicorn. It's not. You're 34 years old. You're smarter and more intelligent than a High School girl. Of course you can seduce them. They're easy.
I've always found older women way easier. They seem to care less about looks for one! Lower standards

Super hot very young chicks don't care that you're older and smarter. If they don't want to be seduced by you (you're not her type), then your game (and the fact you're older and smarter) is irrelevant to her. If that wasn't the case and it was easy for old men to bang teens, all you would see when you left your house is broke 40 year olds banging hot 18 year old models lol

I take what I can get although personally target way younger girls since they're generally a whole lot hotter
 
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