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Is it wrong for a 30+ year old man to be attracted to girls in their late teens?

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Nothing wrong with a silver fox
smashing 18+ year young p/ssy.

If anyone has a problem with this,
then lol at your problem

Remember that love has no labels
And we are two consenting adults
 

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No. Men never stop losing attraction to late teenage women. If they say so, they're lying.
 

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It's instinctual. Women of that age are the most fertile and have developed fully so that pregnancy isn't as dangerous to them.
 

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Women of that age are the most fertile and have developed fully so that pregnancy isn't as dangerous to them.
Yes. Most Western nations have seen a far too large percentage of their women postponing pregnancy too late into life. Women aren't supposed to be giving birth once they turn 35. Without various forms of contraception, most women would have their first kid before they turned 25. Biologically, women are supposed to start having kids around 20-24.

When women get college educations, they typically postpone their childbirths until around 30 or so. That childbirth at 30 happens if they are able to have a stable relationship.

In my social sphere, I'm seeing many "last call" type births from women in their early to mid 30s since 2020, on the heels of a flurry of weddings from 2015-2020.
 

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Normal to be attracted to younger women... but younger women are a pain in the @ss.

Leave these creatures to younger men. They have the energy to put up with the BS.
All women regardless of age are a pain in the azz if you don't have a strong frame and the ability to maintain boundaries.

At least younger pvssies are less drama and more juicy.
 

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I've been a great sommelier of late 10s/early 20s pvssy back in my 20s till the death of youth struck me in my early 30s.

Do I find them attractive? definitely yes!

Do I like interacting with them? I surely do!

Do I feel comfortable at my age with my 80s movie bad guy looks and my current cynism? No I dont, I believe I am doing them a disservice even if some of them (probably due to daddy issues) show me clear signs of interest.

That doesnt mean that I deal with women my age which are 90% of the times even more messed up than me mentally.

I find girls in their mid 20s to be the best option for me, also I'm very dominant and rude during intimacy so I need someone that can really appreciate it.

I believe that our peak, at least for most of us if we play all the cards correctly is between our mid 20s and early 30s...thats when your body can take the abuse of sport performances, nights out, messy sleep and still have what it takes to proper attract and bond in a sane way with late 10s/early 20s girls.
 

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I think 20-22 simply objectively tend to be more attractive. Teens...yeah I'd say maybe thats off. Women mature a lot physically and mentally even from 18 to 20. Even when I was in college at 18 I thought 20yo were hotter.
The recently late Olivia-Newton John looked better as she got older. I would say the same for Kate Moss. That said, this is a RARE occurrence for women.
 

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For the record, for the last five years I do not watch or see any kind of pornography.
That would make it wrong to like 18 year old women if you did? What kind of feminist brainwash has to have someone ask questions like this where you are shamed for being natural as a man, but can't call women slvts because its not politically correct. A 70 year old woman and a 18 year old is socially okay but the other way around he's a perv and predator. Crazy world.
 

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Men are naturally attracted to the 18-23 range for life I believe
 

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For the record, I am not at all advocating dating girls who are under the legal age. In my jurisdiction that age is 18 and I don't mess with girls under 18.

Most men in their 30s-40s don't have what it takes to attract and retain an 18-23 year old.
There's some good reasons for that

The closet pedophillia on this board is getting old
Why don't you and @Jesse Pinkman elaborate on that. Jesse stuck to his guns when he said I had pedo-like tendencies for finding a lot of girls between 18-20 attractive


I'm currently talking to two therapists because of marriage counseling and I've brought this topic up to them. In their opinion, there's no psychological disorder, after giving them detailed information. Both have over 20 years of experience.

Furthermore I've looked at various psychological concepts, including various forms of the definition of pedophillia, and none of them include women over the age of 18.

My guess, is that the explanation of this perspective goes into the people pleaser category. Because people like Opera implies it so, so do a lot of other vocal people, and it gets socially conditioned from there.

That would make it wrong to like 18 year old women if you did? What kind of feminist brainwash has to have someone ask questions like this where you are shamed for being natural as a man, but can't call women slvts because its not politically correct. A 70 year old woman and a 18 year old is socially okay but the other way around he's a perv and predator. Crazy world.
There are a couple of points to make here. First, pornography has been shown to re-wire brains. Second, you should not touch porn with a nine foot pole if you care anything about your mental or physical health.

I had a 19 yo GF. But would now go 21+. Getting kicked out of bars and BevMo gets annoying.
That's a good point.
 

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There are a couple of points to make here. First, pornography has been shown to re-wire brains. Second, you should not touch porn with a nine foot pole if you care anything about your mental or physical health.
Do you think everybody's reply to this thread would be different and blame it on that if you disclosed you looked at it or did not mention it at all?
 

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While there is nothing wrong with liking and being attracted to women younger than you, as long as they are legal, I do think that how most older guys go about it is pathetic. Now before the whole board jumps on me, let me explain.

If you happen to be a 35 year old guy and say some 19 year old girl is really into you, there is nothing wrong with being attracted to her and taking her home. In fact, in NYC it is somewhat common to see men in their 30s date and marry women in their early twenties. However, in these cases the guy is often attractive, cool, and the girl is usually the one chasing him because of his status and his success in life. The guy is also in sync with the girl's way of life and her crowd so he is easily accepted into her crowds.

What is pathetic is how most guys who are older and "red pilled", often out of sync with younger culture and what is cool in that word, pedestalizing younger women and chasing them. These guys are cringe because they will post crap on the internet such as "I want my fertile young women" (serious, say that crap in real life and look at how fast everyone thinks you belong in an asylum).

Being an older guy (30+) and trying to target going after younger women because you failed with them in college or your early twenties is quite pathetic. In fact, most of the times, you are going to fail if you are any of these red pill or pickup guys because you can't relate to their way of life, what they find cool, what they like, and are usually going to come off as that creep at the bar that they want to get away from.

Finally, as much as older dudes talk about "the wall" or how damaged older women are, most of them aren't a catch themselves either. Older guys are often bitter, out of touch, and weird themselves so I never get them attacking older women that are still single. You aren't really that much above dating an older woman or a woman around your age because you have just as many issues as she does in most cases. You two are made for each other.
 

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I think latinas and southeastern asians look better in their late teens and early twenties and drop off a cliff after 25. Now, if you are over here chasing white, eastern asian girls, and mixed girl in their late teens then that is weird because they really don't start developing until like 20 IMHO.
 

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As a young man in High School always dated girls older than me. The one time a couple of freshman girls were into me they basically "Me-Too'ed" me and it really soured me on younger women.

I've always preferred women over girls since age 18. They know what they want and they say what they mean. They don't have that "baby-fat" look to them. As I've aged my age range has widened but the lower age limit rule of 1/2 your age plus 7 has been very reasonable in my eyes. 30/22, 32/25, 34/27 etc....48/31

Especially now that I have daughters in teens and twenties I really have a hard time feeling sexual towards any female under 25. I do view older guys who prey on 18-20 year olds like the 21 year old who still goes to high school parties that peaked in high school.
 

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No, it's normal. I'm 34 years old. I find women 19-24 the most attractive, just like any healthy man should. It would be abnormal if I was more attracted to women my age.
Wouldn't go that far.
 

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18 year olds are not children bruh.
Tbf i think what he's saying is about the questionable undertones certain dudes relay when talking about young meat. Look at the comment i quoted above when you start saying prefering women your age is abnormal makes you wonder if they in the closet.
 
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