Where did she say she thinks he's a player? If anything, she's hoping the opposite is true.100% completely wrong. Your behavior dictates how she responds to you. You mentioned competition anxiety. Where does that come from? YOU being able to attract other women. The woman you just slept with. In your words, why did she think you're a player? Because YOU were confident. You see how you just totally contradicted yourself? I know you didn't do it on purpose, but you did, and you didn't even know it. And that just proves my earlier post.
The people on this forum keep getting their wires crossed thinking that the females want this "Chad alpha fantasy" that exists nowhere besides on this forum. It definitely doesn't exist in the brains of the girls.