In which country would you love to live and why?

[Dr.Suave]

Finland I guess

Happiest Countries in the World 2023

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Columbia...cost of living is super low, women are good looking, lots of exPats in communities there, mostly safe unless you go to the wrong areas.

https://nomadicfire.com/guide-to-living-in-colombia

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[Redwood]

What about Cancun?

 

[ManFromTartarus]

Finland I guess

Happiest Countries in the World 2023

That's a great link, lots of great info, but some of it conflicts. Finland is supposed to be the happiest but it's in the top ten countries for depression, while small island countries like Samoa and Tonga aren't on the happy list but are the lowest list in depression.

That said, I'd be miserable in any of the top "happy" countries, too cold, don't like the food, not into blondes.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

That said, I'd be miserable in any of the top "happy" countries, too cold, don't like the food, not into blondes.

I feel the same way. Someone once told me that the correlation is that those countries offer the most rights/equality (esp. for women) and of course gov't benefits. So, high taxes and probably not as individualistic. I'm more of an individualist. That stuff goes against what a lot of RP dudes want. But, if people say they're happy, okay then. Those countries do have a lot of wealth and their infrastructure seems top notch.

 

[EyeBRollin]

New Jersey, USA.

 

[RangerMIke]

I really depends. Every place in the world has it's advantages and disadvantages. I liked living in Germany, I liked France too. But being raised in the US, the culture that I grew up with was so different I could not be completely happy. There is a LOT about the US that I don't like, but it is what I am used to... so I'm fine here.

But since this is a dating and relationship forum, I'm guessing that many will answer this question with that in mind. SO let me add this... If you are American, British, Canadian, Australian, or New Zealander, you can pretty much move to any of those countries and be okay. While there will always be an anti-immigrant minority, in what I like to call Anglo-Saxson Western Culture... all these countries have an immigrant past and generally are welcoming of newcomers. You are NOT going to get this anyplace else.

I have been all over the world, and most places are very leery of 'outsiders' and it is something that you will deal with on a daily basis. You can get over this provided you can demonstrate that you are giving back more than you are taking (i.e. starting a company and creating jobs, independently wealthy with a willingness to completely commit to the culture you adopt) you will be tolerated. But the truth is you will never be completely happy, because your identity is tired to the culture you were raised in.

 

[SW15]

I have been all over the world, and most places are very leery of 'outsiders' and it is something that you will deal with on a daily basis.

There are regions within the USA that are hostile to outsiders from other areas even within the USA.

 

[RangerMIke]

There are regions within the USA that are hostile to outsiders from other areas even within the USA.

True. You can say the same with any country. But let's be completely honest..... in those parts of the US that are very unwelcoming to immigration has more to do with race and religion than the fact someone is an immigrant. I've been to these parts of the US and I will say that an immigrant family who are Lutheran Norwegians, with a working knowledge of English are going to be welcome with open arms. A family with brown skin and are Muslim will face hostility.

Americans will always be leery of large scale immigration no matter where it comes from. Massive immigration from Ireland and Italy in the late 19th and early 20th century was VERY hostile. But those groups were white, and within one generation integrated without any serious issues. Americans, at the time, had a problem with the fact that these immigrants were mostly Catholic.

I'm not trying to start a political debate here, but it is a fact that race and religion are big factors in American immigration acceptance. In most other countries, while race and religion will create cultural tension and conflict, there is a general distrust of anyone coming in regardless of skin color... if you are not from that country there will be suspicion and wonder why you are there.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

There are regions within the USA that are hostile to outsiders from other areas even within the USA.

I think it's more certain people than regions. The US is filled with friendly, welcoming people wherever I've gone. Also xenophobes and jerks can be found but are an extreme minority. And even some people who hold "anti immigrant" or pro-wall/border sentiments are often super kind to immigrants (even illegals), to a man. Certainly there are some who are haters but most of it is amplified by media IMO.

 

[DonBig]

I really depends. Every place in the world has it's advantages and disadvantages. I liked living in Germany, I liked France too. But being raised in the US, the culture that I grew up with was so different I could not be completely happy. There is a LOT about the US that I don't like, but it is what I am used to... so I'm fine here.

But since this is a dating and relationship forum, I'm guessing that many will answer this question with that in mind. SO let me add this... If you are American, British, Canadian, Australian, or New Zealander, you can pretty much move to any of those countries and be okay. While there will always be an anti-immigrant minority, in what I like to call Anglo-Saxson Western Culture... all these countries have an immigrant past and generally are welcoming of newcomers. You are NOT going to get this anyplace else.

I have been all over the world, and most places are very leery of 'outsiders' and it is something that you will deal with on a daily basis. You can get over this provided you can demonstrate that you are giving back more than you are taking (i.e. starting a company and creating jobs, independently wealthy with a willingness to completely commit to the culture you adopt) you will be tolerated. But the truth is you will never be completely happy, because your identity is tired to the culture you were raised in.

You liked Germany? If you are seeking freedom and a healthy lifestyle the least you can do is to stay in Germany. Bunch of low quality woman there, I’d even say one of the country’s with the most sluts in history. System is terrible, People there are either extreme racists or the complete opposite, not polite and very likely to be backstabbing so it’s either one or another when you encounter someone there. I was born and raised there and I wouldn’t recommend anyone to settle down there, currently living in another country where I’m more satisfied

 

[DonBig]

New Jersey, USA.

Why New Jersey?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why New Jersey?

I live here now. Wouldn’t move anywhere else. It works for me. Many reasons

 

[RangerMIke]

You liked Germany? If you are seeking freedom and a healthy lifestyle the least you can do is to stay in Germany. Bunch of low quality woman there, I’d even say one of the country’s with the most sluts in history. System is terrible, People there are either extreme racists or the complete opposite, not polite and very likely to be backstabbing so it’s either one or another when you encounter someone there. I was born and raised there and I wouldn’t recommend anyone to settle down there, currently living in another country where I’m more satisfied

Don't get me wrong, after living there for 4 years I was ready to leave. I think it was very helpful that I spoke the language. Plus, post war, American troops in Germany just became part of the culture. When I was there (early to mid 90s), there really wasn't the internet the way we have in now. I met women through a dating service called "Kontact", it was dating services the way they were before the internet. They took your picture (you did not send it in) and it was periodically updated. You would share information about your self that was validated, state what you were looking for and what you wanted. Then they would match you up with women that had the same interests and purpose. Once a week they would mail you a news letter tailored to your profile... you would send back, or call in who you were interested in meeting, and if the other person also agreed to meet, phone numbers were exchanged.

This worked out very well for me... I made it very clear what I wanted, which was have some fun casual dating, and the women I met stated they wanted the same... who didn't have a problem with dating an American. It worked out VERY well for me. I think I paid 1000 DM (at the time about $6-700) a year, and there was a fee for an actual connections, but I honestly don't remember what that was, but it was nominal. Using the rail system made it very easy to meet up where ever. I have no doubt in my mind that it is much worst now. I only hooked up with one woman that ended up being crazy.

What I liked about Germany:

(1) In the 90s, The roads were in good shape. Anytime you needed a service of any kind (painting, car repairs, moving, et. al.) you would get quality service.

(2) You didn't have advertising in your fvcking face all the time. Few bill boards, no pile of advertising flyers in the mail, advertising on TV wasn't as aggravating as in the US.

(3) The climate was nice, I lived in Rhineland-Pfalls so the Winters were relatively nice compared to other parts of Northern Germany. Summers were pleasant, My base was in a rural area, hilly, wooded and pleasant.

(4) People pretty much followed the rules. You didn't see stupid @ss driving or junk cars on the road. You didn't see run down shacks and piles of trash everywhere.

(5) Easy to travel anywhere in the EU. I traveled all over the place from Poland, to Greece, to Spain.

(6) When you paid for something, you paid the price quoted, there were never any hidden costs or BS fees like you see in the US.

What I didn't like about Germany:

(1) Everything is much more expensive.

(2) Some of the rules are pretty stupid, and penalties for failure to comply are pretty steep. The police are professional and generally fine, but if you give them any guff at all... out come the clubs. The police generally picked on US service men, and if you went 1 KPH over the posted speed limit, and you had a US Army tag, you were getting pulled over. It was always the best COA to just be pleasant, pay your fine (on the spot, which was also pretty nice) smile and go about your business. But as long as you are following their sometimes-silly rules, you didn't have a problem.

(3) Everything closes early accept Gasthauses and restaurants, and night clubs. Sunday everything is closed.

(4) There really isn't a wide variety of products, it's not unusual to go into a market and there will only be 2-3 types of coffee for example.

(5) I know other service men that did not speak German that had a hard time connecting with locals, they all pretty much speak English, but they really appreciate if you can communicate in their language. That appeared to make a difference.

(6) Germans can be cold and detached, I noticed this a lot. And it does take time to build rapport with them. It is always best to be formal when you first meet, then let them come to you. Once you build trust with your neighbors, they are actually great people.

(7) Germans are, as a general rule, a lot more racist than Americans, but they hide it very well... and this only really comes out when they trust you and can fully open up. It's actually kind of scary when this happens. You can know someone for months, and when they get comfortable with you and open up... it's a shock.

 

[DonBig]

I live here now. Wouldn’t move anywhere else. It works for me. Many reasons

You mind elaborating on it a bit, because I’ll do my masters together with my cousin in New Jersey hence my curiosity

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You mind elaborating on it a bit, because I’ll do my masters together with my cousin in New Jersey hence my curiosity

Access to NYC women. It's the only good thing about Jersey.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You mind elaborating on it a bit, because I’ll do my masters together with my cousin in New Jersey hence my curiosity

New Jersey has everything. You get two major cities, land, parking, beaches, hills, countryside, gambling if that’s your thing, wineries, horse farms, diverse cuisine, good schools, safe neighborhoods, multiple public transportation options, major international airport, and lots of good paying jobs. Also, people here are very professional. Everyone kind of respects each other as long as they’re on their shvt. Not quite as many lowlife losers compared to some other places.

Also, I live in the coastal part of the state less than 5 miles from the Atlantic Ocean. The climate is moderate to have all four seasons. Rarely does it stay below 40F or above 85F.