This is reality. You can ignore reality but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. When a woman says no... that's it... it's game over. A lot of this PUA stuff that guys were learning int he 90s will get you tossed in jail today.
It's only reality because men let it become that way. I have been falsely accused of rape 3 times in the US by ****s like this. One was a church girl who was slut shamed by her friends immediately who then proceeded to lie about what happened. With all the political garbage going on over there now, not in a hurry to get back. It's a lot funner dating in machismo dominated cultures or basically anywhere that's not rampant with feminism.