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If you assume low libido... then the question is why is it. Yes can be a few cases of physical issues just the same as when men have ED from physical issue. Most of both of these is mental and the mental cause the physical. That same wife is really hot and excited for chad. If she takes action or not on it is a question. many threads in here about that.
Hot and excited for Chad, husband gets zero sexual attention or negative sexual attention, over time draining his sexual swag. Resulting in diminished sexual confidence, resulting in weakened boners and lack of confidence and over thought of erections.
 

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Hot and excited for Chad, husband gets zero sexual attention or negative sexual attention, over time draining his sexual swag. Resulting in diminished sexual confidence, resulting in weakened boners and lack of confidence and over thought of erections.
yes. that is exactly it. libido for women is a choice (not passive but active choice). for men, it can also be a choice... made by the woman they are with if man does do not take charge of themselves.
 

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yes. that is exactly it. libido for women is a choice (not passive but active choice). for men, it can also be a choice... made by the woman they are with if man does do not take charge of themselves.
Even if the woman doesn't have strong desire she can allow penetration abd her body will start to lubricate.
 

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Even if the woman doesn't have strong desire she can allow penetration abd her body will start to lubricate.
yes, that part is easy to understand. the desire part is more difficult to understand. does women have active choice about her desire or is it completely lizard? for men (well for me..) it is mostly lizard.
 

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yes, that part is easy to understand. the desire part is more difficult to understand. does women have active choice about her desire or is it completely lizard? for men (well for me..) it is mostly lizard.
That HUNGER style of desire where it has to eat is lizard. Allowing her husband to penetrate and realizing after stroking it for 60-120 seconds that she will lubricate and get aroused is actually caring. Attraction is great, sometimes it's just not that high due to familiarity, but a womans body is designed to get aroused after being stroked, UNLESS she highly detests or hates the person it will do what it's supposed to. For thousands of years wives fvcked their husbands and sometimes they didn't feel up to it, their mothers explained that they will get into it before too long and it will be enjoyable.
 
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