Well-said. Being a beta male, I really get the short end of the stick.if the OP was a chad, she would have thought he was mysterious, silent and respectful. She would be creaming her pants.
If the OP was "masculine", she would have thought he was borish and self centered.
At the end of the day, women make excuses for people they do not want to date and overlook the faults of those they like. This is just another example.