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I Decided to Visit an Escort

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I’d consider visiting an escort for a BJ. Since I’ve found amateur girls BJ’s to be ‘meh’. However, I’m not much into getting BJ’s anyway. So, unless I was mad drunk (which is rare), it’s not gonna happen.
 

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Hookers, escorts or glory holes. They should be treated like banks accepting your deposit.
Its transactional and if you’re expecting more - don’t do it!
 

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I've had friends that've paid. I actually respect them for that decision.

If you think about it, we all "pay." The difference is that with a lot of us, it's not with and out and out dollar bill exchange. Instead it's with our time, drinks, dinner, pretending to be interested in their conversation etc..

I'm glad that you posted about your experience. At my age, there's not a lot with women that I haven't done. I'd always thought that it might be fun to try for new kicks. I doubt that I ever will now. The whole 'robotic' feeling doesn't sound appealing.
 

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Can you explain this a bit more?
How did demons and the succubus attack you?
I've already written about this account many times before and everything in 2014 is faded-out memory wise so it's better to dig through older posts where I've referenced it and it was more fresh in mind. What I can remember is that I felt overwhelmed to the point I was unable to eat, sleep or drive, or watch TV or music videos or fap or watch porn, enjoy a coffee, eat pancakes or waffles, and I had to explain to my mother what I did as I was just losing my mind. While the whole month of December 2014 was gone the first week was the worst experience, than the following weeks were not as bad but it was still hard on my system.

During this time I did research on all sorts of anti-anxiety and anti-depression medication on youtube (similar to how I've recently looked into covid-vaccines, etc...) but listened to my mother who counselled me to stay away from that and ride the whole thing off and Jesus eventually delivered me from this but it was allot of work. I listened to positive messages from Joel Olsteen, rented a hotel that had more spacious room in the house and had like a mini-retreat, and if the panic attacks flared up again, we simply booked a hotel to stay out of this home. At some points the nights were so bad, I actually had to sleep next to my mother like a little boy. This thing basically wrecked me up.

You would have moments were I'm fine then all of a sudden this weird thing making me feel like turning into a zombie that I'm fighting off.
Some horror TV-shows this might remind me of was feeling like in the "upside down" dimension of Stranger Things, or Lock and Key where the mother gets lost inside a mirror and wants to get out. Just like you are in the same place but something feels off about where your true self is in relation to the world and that's jarring.

Even up to today there are some interesting reactions even on the level of onlyfans subscriptions. I stop subscribing to a particular escort and then feel very edgy or nervous with my parents and do things which seem like my heart is not there properly. Sort of weird but nothing to compared to those past escorts.

I'm currently subscribed to just one escort on onlyfans (I was going to cancel but re-subscribed at the last minute). She was offering to sell me custom videos for $ 120 and saying what a nice escort she is and I should book a session with her after she sends these videos to me. This was the sort of emotional buffer I was looking for in terms of re-engaging with an escort. However, I'm going to put the breaks on that since I want to pursue real women and shelve this.
 

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I've had friends that've paid. I actually respect them for that decision.

If you think about it, we all "pay." The difference is that with a lot of us, it's not with and out and out dollar bill exchange. Instead it's with our time, drinks, dinner, pretending to be interested in their conversation etc..

I'm glad that you posted about your experience. At my age, there's not a lot with women that I haven't done. I'd always thought that it might be fun to try for new kicks. I doubt that I ever will now. The whole 'robotic' feeling doesn't sound appealing.
It works if you want pure NSA sex with a woman who will do as you command. I can see why wealthy married men would do it.

It's definitely not something i want to do again but I'm glad i experienced it.


She was offering to sell me custom videos for $ 120 and saying what a nice escort she is and I should book a session with her after she sends these videos to me. This was the sort of emotional buffer I was looking for in terms of re-engaging with an escort. However, I'm going to put the breaks on that since I want to pursue real women and shelve this
Why don't you spend that money on a real escort instead or even a happy ending massage?
 

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It works if you want pure NSA sex with a woman who will do as you command. I can see why wealthy married men would do it.

It's definitely not something i want to do again but I'm glad i experienced it.




Why don't you spend that money on a real escort instead or even a happy ending massage?
I just said that I've put the breaks on it and shelved it which means no money was spent. There is no budget for that type of things other than an onlyfans subscription, which I reluctantly re-billed because I felt a connection with her the way she wrote back to me.

Going into last month's mindset the idea of a video means that I don't have to interact with this escort in any sort of way so there would be no risk of any soul-tie or demon/spirit transference from an in-person incall session. All I would be doing is watching a video. See if there is another spiritual attack or what is happening, etc...
 

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I've had a few 'encounters' with escorts/hookers, couple of times in UK, a fair few times when travelling around Asia.

Personally found experience of 'right 30/60 mins begins now' and ok'ish sex in UK a waste of money so far. And its not cheap if you want something slightly better than curb crawler levels. Probably a culmination of knowing you're directly paying, know they've been with loads of men before you (probably just that day as well), may carry disease, fake, lack of true emotion/desire a real turn off, could get mugged by pimps/gangs etc.

Asia was much better as they its a bit more relaxed, lines very blurred at times. They can hang around next day etc - which may be a positive or negative depending on how you view it.

I know some men just love having sex with whoever, and that of course is fair enough, but some people need a bit more connection, mutual attraction etc, otherwise can leave you feeling hollow/empty ime. Think I'd rather have a long dry spell than go to another escort tbh.
 

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I've had a few 'encounters' with escorts/hookers, couple of times in UK, a fair few times when travelling around Asia.

Personally found experience of 'right 30/60 mins begins now' and ok'ish sex in UK a waste of money so far. And its not cheap if you want something slightly better than curb crawler levels. Probably a culmination of knowing you're directly paying, know they've been with loads of men before you (probably just that day as well), may carry disease, fake, lack of true emotion/desire a real turn off, could get mugged by pimps/gangs etc.

Asia was much better as they its a bit more relaxed, lines very blurred at times. They can hang around next day etc - which may be a positive or negative depending on how you view it.

I know some men just love having sex with whoever, and that of course is fair enough, but some people need a bit more connection, mutual attraction etc, otherwise can leave you feeling hollow/empty ime. Think I'd rather have a long dry spell than go to another escort tbh.
The worst part is they have been with an industrial level of other guys including the same day. The other aspects dont sound as bad, at least from the list you mentioned.
 

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Now in Australia they are legal, It was a licenced Brothel actually so the women there have regular health check ups and the girls even inspect you for possible infections before sex (its very awkward).

I was curious about the experience and after the fat chick last week i needed a hot girl to cleanse myself. I went down to the local brothel that was in the middle of an industrial Area. I was greeted by the receptionist who was a middle aged woman(very unfriendly like she didn't want to be there) she asked for my Vaccine passport and told me to take off my mask when inside. She told me there was one girl and to "wait in the booth" for her to come.

I sat there, there was Pørn playing on the tv(which is really weird) the girl named Poppy comes in and introduces herself, she let me know about her service and mentioned only kissing on the lips. She also said $100 extra for a PSE experience. The rate per hour was already $350 so i didn't want to spend that much. I went for the $230 for 30 minutes.


the girl looked a lot like my ex girlfriend (brunette with green eyes) it was almost like deja vu. She was a 7/10 but her nose ring brings her down to a 6.5.

We go into the room i had to shower, then she showered and she put the towel on the bed. Once we started having foreplay it felt off. Normally women would kiss on the neck and do more then just kiss on lips. When we had sex i could tell her orgasims were fake from her facial expressions and the fact that she started moaning as soon as we started. There was no passion or intimacy at all. Felt like i was with a sex doll.

After the sex we had a talk, she was one of those "sex positive feminists" and seemed to be really passionate about the sex "work" industry. She also told me she was glad to have a client that wasn't a married man for once. She also told me she was from tamworth (a country town in Australia) and the reason she moved was incase her dad might book her at the brothel.

I was then escorted out the back door to the parking lot and she said we hope to see you again.

The experience was a great learning experience, i don't know how any guy could enjoy Pros because the feel so robotic and fake without any genuine passion or desire for you.

Has anyone else here visited an escort?
enterer a brothel like 2-3 times , and all the time it was post partying , when I was already drunk and stuff like that .

what I remember that all the time entering there I felt like a lot of sadness in the air and basically I could not spend time there more than 1h .

felt Really weird , and could not really enjoy any minute once inside …

went once in a room with one of the girl , more because my friends insisted a lot , but I did not feel like doing anything . Just talked a bit , smoked some cigarettes and left .

looking back at my experiences , I do not really people that promote this kind of things , it just feels extremely off , and man that sadness that is in the air it just kinda kills you from the inside for at least a couple of days and takes you out of the game in really feeling in the mood of talking with girls

also , I do not really go out thst much during the night , as to be frank , I rarely met anyone normal . Mostly crazy people
 

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enterer a brothel like 2-3 times , and all the time it was post partying , when I was already drunk and stuff like that .

what I remember that all the time entering there I felt like a lot of sadness in the air and basically I could not spend time there more than 1h .

felt Really weird , and could not really enjoy any minute once inside …

went once in a room with one of the girl , more because my friends insisted a lot , but I did not feel like doing anything . Just talked a bit , smoked some cigarettes and left .

looking back at my experiences , I do not really people that promote this kind of things , it just feels extremely off , and man that sadness that is in the air it just kinda kills you from the inside for at least a couple of days and takes you out of the game in really feeling in the mood of talking with girls

also , I do not really go out thst much during the night , as to be frank , I rarely met anyone normal . Mostly crazy people
Yes mate, agree, IIRC you live in major city in Espana... I won;t mention the place in case you rather keep in private :)

I went on stag do there 4 years ago and ended up in brothel after big night out. A few of the lads (1 had wife, the other g/f's) ended up going to rooms with the girls. I was smashed and ended up chatting to some Hungarian 'escort' whilst they got on with it.

But yes, when younger night clubbing is (was) fine for meeting, but as you get older its slims pickings really, or chances high they're into drugs, skanks etc. Unless of course you can still attract younger women clubbing, or during early evening.

Imagine its a great city to live btw, a lot of tourists, professionals, all sorts passing through.
 

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Yes mate, agree, IIRC you live in major city in Espana... I won;t mention the place in case you rather keep in private :)

I went on stag do there 4 years ago and ended up in brothel after big night out. A few of the lads (1 had wife, the other g/f's) ended up going to rooms with the girls. I was smashed and ended up chatting to some Hungarian 'escort' whilst they got on with it.

But yes, when younger night clubbing is (was) fine for meeting, but as you get older its slims pickings really, or chances high they're into drugs, skanks etc. Unless of course you can still attract younger women clubbing, or during early evening.

Imagine its a great city to live btw, a lot of tourists, professionals, all sorts passing through.
what I have noticed about night life , and again this based on my personal experience in Europe , is that in the clubs mainly you either have the tourists , either have mostly the dodgy people . Sometimes there are the normal people , but usually they come in big groups to celebrate a birthday or stuff like that , and usually penetrating this groups is quite difficult as c0ck bl0cks are often happening

coming back to brothels and stuff like that , me personally I would not recommend it , unless you really really have to go . But be prepared to question your life afterwards
 
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It really was more of the curiosity to see what the experience was like, this might sound weird but it definitely felt like she was doing this as a job and not out of genuine desire.

The moans were exactly the same as the ones you hear in pornos, i would have preferred if she kept silent instead of that. It felt patronising for some reason.



If you just want to bust a nut try fapping instead, that's even cheaper.



Probably depends, in Australia they have weekly health check ups so they can't just spread diseases. I'm not sure if Columbia has the same health standards.

It basically reduces sex to just busting a nut though, you might as well have sex with a doll. Even if i was rich with money to burn i wouldn't see escorts.



I at least learnt from my experience, i really wonder how men visit them on a regular basis. It doesn't seem that enjoyable to me
I don't do it regularly, but occasionally it can be worthwhile in certain parts of the world. Never tried Australia, but places like Mexico, Vietnam, Argentina etc can be good.

What I've found is that if you find a good one, then it's worth going back regularly. It can be like you say, but on the other hand it can also be really good.

You can a avoid those kind of bad experiences by choosing carefully anda if anything about a place or their attitude seems off, just walk away. Beleive me there are always plenty of other options.
 

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If you think about it, we all "pay." The difference is that with a lot of us, it's not with and out and out dollar bill exchange. Instead it's with our time, drinks, dinner, pretending to be interested in their conversation etc..
Every human interaction is an exchange. It's an exchange of validation, of thoughts and emotions, of opinions, of time, of power, of deeds, of resources or status, or of currency.

Spending money on dates and spending money on hookers are both exchanges, yes. But this is like equating spending time with your family on Christmas to banging hookers, because they are both exchanges.

I respect that a lot men view sex as a purely carnal, biological urge that needs to be satisfied, even if by the most base or efficient means necessary. Paying to have that biological need met, and conforming to the courtship guidelines of our society in order to seduce a female mate, are not comparable outside of both being "exchanges."
 

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time is the most valuable asset in that case we have all paid for it at some point!
 

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I get you. Whatever you do just try to focus on enjoying yourself. Especially sex.
I think we give women far too much of our emotional "give a fck" in this area.
Women are there to be consumed and they know this in their biology.
Women are takers. Most of them are just a bill and offer nothing in return. At least with pros you get what you pay for and it’s done.
 

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It isn’t just women that want to feel wanted and desired. Men certainly do too, and a prostie can’t provide that feeling/experience to you.

If you must “scratch an itch,” it’s ok; but don’t expect any more from it.
dunno man , for me personally I always look at the worst case scenario , and if It makes sense or not .

in the case of banging a woman with a high notch count , you always have a high risk of getting an STD . Seems even a worse trade off if pay money for it :)

I rarely go without a rubber this days , and usually I take it off only when I know the girl quite well and see that she takes health serious
 

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I think every guy should experience it once.

I think Pro's should be legal, and it might keep some marriages together.

I've been in some parts of the country where access to women for dating purposes was few and far between. Having professional services available to some employees when they got their 4 days a month off kept them on an even keel rather than the emotional rollercoaster of long distance relationships with limited face to face time.
 
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