He didn’t kiss me or touch me while having sex. No foreplay. No oral. He didn’t care about pleasing me.
this makes a lot of men feel better I am sure
I was expecting some complicated shyt but if the dude just climbed on and humped, he is indeed terrible in bed.
The guy you are infatuated with is either a weak man who doesn’t understand courtship ritual (and based on your previous partner, perhaps you have found another one like your ex. Try and work out what is attracting you to guys who don’t know how to interact with women. Perhaps your father or brothers were similar, introverted perhaps? Poor communicators? These are just guesses.
the other possibility is, and just brace yourself for this because it’s going to hurt. Is that he doesn’t want you.
When you initiate and get rejected, it hurts. You are should searching for what you did wrong. Welcome to the world of male experience. This is 90% of dating for us.
So let us give you the correct advice we would give a brother in need. As others have said, move on as quickly as you can. That’s all you can do. And work on yourself.
the longer this stays in your mind the more you won’t leave it alone and it will eat you alive.
This is why I came here and 10 years on I’m married with a kid, and happy.
don’t get stuck in this whatever you do. It’s the black pit of death and cold and it consumes souls. Climb out sister.