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How women block escalation

jaymbrs

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Yeah, that´s BS. Instead of meeting her alone, she wants you to go to some place where she works that´s full of kokblockers. Total waste of time. I'd just forget about her.

Another way of seeing it is she´s leading the interaction instead of cooperating and following your instructions. When women do that, it´s almost always some kind of a scam.
Curiosity is a *****. I'm going to see this through because she has a 1 of a kind booty. I'll update later.
 

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Saying "it's too soon", this is especially annoying when they try to make you jump through hoops before you have even met them for a first date.
 

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I'm I guess a regular at the Hooters up the road. Quite a few of the girls know me but I haven't done anything with any of them. "Don't **** where you eat" is something I follow. But recently this newer, very attractive girl there has been giving me an excessive amount of attention. Like leaving her tables unattended to come chat. The other day she voluntarily gave me her number before she left. After texting her to set something up, she countered by asking me to go see her at her other job (that rivals Hooters). My guess is this is a sign that she's just building up clientele since it's what these girls do.
That's the classic example of what OP is talking about.
 

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Ah yes, "too soon". That´s a good one. It´s not too soon for her to get free food and drink, though, is it?
Another similar one is "i need to get to know you more"

"I dont share my number"

I just block girls like this, not jumping through their hoops
 

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Another similar one is "i need to get to know you more"

"I dont share my number"

I just block girls like this, not jumping through their hoops
Yeah, if there´s not strong cooperation from the start it´s likely probably not worthwhile. Other indicators of women being low interest and therefore not worth dealing with are not replying, taking too long to reply or suggesting dates far into the future. If a girl says "I´m busy this week" forget it.

And, as in the case of the girl at Hooters, insisting on setting the location. That´s a huge red flag.
 

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The " get to know you more" is a classic female stalling tactic either to blow your interaction off all together or because she hasn't decided if you are worthy of her pu$$y yet

" im on my period" is the favourite of all time for stopping escalation to sex , women know their cycles and wouldn't usually schedule a date with a male in the same window so you can guarantee this excuse is usually B.S

I think you just need to be wary of hoop jumping all together ......a large proportion of women believe they are worth more than they actually are

Case in point a HB7 adds ME on instagram last week , i message her flirting ....her responses are slow and boring it felt like she almost wanted me too start being a dancing monkey to get her attention

this girl is ok worth a bang but at the end of the day she is a HB 7 !! they are common as muck :lol:

I just left her on read.
 

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Generally, if you're not getting laid, you're getting played.
 

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they will say anything to string you out just a little further...
” I need to get to know you more” or “let’s start as friends”
In other words,you’re an option and not her first choice.
 

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When I see the let’s start as friends line , I know that the chance of me stickin my dxck in that woman is low, possible but unlikely.
I will probably have to do all the work.
pass.
 

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Insisting on a lengthy phone call in lieu of texting before any meet. This way they can fully scrutinize you without any pic exchange, sexting or any in-person charisma or kinoing.

And half the time they'll mumble the entire convo. Naturally these same women will speak clearly for any business call or with family members. But not for you, you dirty player!
 
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