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How could you have a non-existent sex life when you had a prom date and women hitting on you? That's better than many.
A lot of the negative trends that we see in the mating environment today had their origins with the earliest Millennials, which would have been the high school graduating Classes of 2000-2002.
losing your virginity in hs is pretty good not bad lol. I didn’t kiss a girl til 19. I had everything going against me in HS lol. I was a skinny black gamer nerd at a white school with low confidence from being black in a white suburb lol. I did have my chances that I blew though. I remember we would have youth church nights on Wednesdays and this girl told me to meet her in some room. She basically tried to give me a ******* but her dad arrived right when she was unbuttoning my pants lol. Guess what!! Coincidentally, my dad stopped taking me to church on Wednesdays haha. I went to a SEC university similar @Jesse Pinkman and things were basically the same atmosphere wise. I joined a fraternity and used my genetics to build muscle fast. By sophomore year, I could get hookups but couldn’t close lol. I lost mg virginity from an aggressive hoe that my frat brothers hooked me up with for a party lol. I still wouldn’t learn how to close properly til my late twenties.
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I think it's common for men in high school and college who aren't "Big Men on campus" to compensate by delving big into their studies to get the job to deliver the money that will result in the poontang. I think this "Build it and it will come!" mentality among STEM majors and Econ/Business majors isn't ideal. Sometimes it does come and sometimes it doesn't. I knew a guy with that "Build it and it will come" mentality who had a younger sister who was solely responsible for his sex life for a time. This guy had relationships or banged multiple friends/acquaintances of his sister. His sister basically acted as his personal Madam.
That graph of how straight males meet their partners now is flat out disturbing.How could you have a non-existent sex life when you had a prom date and women hitting on you? That's better than many.
I had zero guidance due to no brothers, no father, and no nearby male cousins. I also hadn't discovered much of the internet content surrounding pickup during my high school years (1997-2001). I had
A lot of the negative trends that we see in the mating environment today had their origins with the earliest Millennials, which would have been the high school graduating Classes of 2000-2002.
Long term romantic relationships forming in college started to drop off around 2001, when the Millennials were starting to arrive on campus. See chart below.
Roosh had a good article about changes in game a year prior to his religious conversion.
9 Ways Game Has Changed From 2001 To 2018 – Roosh Valizadeh
A lot of men ask me what it was like to run game on American women over 15 years ago. While I don't automatically take the nostalgic view that everything in the past was better than today, if you knew how to cold approach in 2001, you received significantly higher results than from the same effort iwww.rooshv.com
The Columbine High School shooters in 1999 were the first to bring awareness to the growth of incels.
I really liked that Pinkman article about sex life at party schools. Gave me some closure because I didn’t not go to a party school or even one with a sexual atmosphere. In fact it was almost the opposite of a sexual atmosphere believe it or not, had a very bizarre hipster vibe in Seattle and people acted too cool for sex. I basically only went there for the music scene in Seattle. Anyway, you’re also right about the media portrayals of sex in college to be way over the top, I would say it’s just a marketing tactic.Disappointing. I was not the big man on campus. I was a total average frustrated chump. I wasn't a complete loser but my sex life was nowhere near where I wanted it to be.
I lost the first two years of high school due to a shortness issue. I got to 5'8" by the end of sophomore year and topped out at 5'10" at the end of junior year. It wasn't until end of sophomore year that I was taller than enough women to warrant pursuing sex. I didn't ask out my first woman until early in junior year when I was finally tall enough.
I also switched high schools after sophomore year, relocating to another state. I was a complete unknown with a zero circle when I started junior year. I wasn't much at my first high school due to a recent relocation even prior to that.
In freshman year before I was reasonably tall enough, I do remember going to a couple of dances and being a non-factor. I remember in freshman year, a fellow freshman male was dry humping a woman on the dance floor. I was impressed by that.
Due to an overall disappointing high school sexual experience, I evaluated colleges upon the sexual atmosphere of those schools. I ended up selecting a school similar to the school @Jesse Pinkman described in the thread below. Entering college, I was hoping that I would get a lot of pusssy. I wanted to have multiple sex partners. I did have multiple sex partners in college but my sex frequency did not live up to the hype. The media sells young males in junior high and high school a bill of goods about college being a poontang nirvana when it really isn't. The media has been doing this for decades. "Revenge of the Nerds", which was released in Summer 1984, was an early example of this. Young males consume media and expect to be getting a lot of pusssy on campus when they arrive. It's a big shock to the system when you arrive on campus, you go to college parties (often the ones at apartment complexes with red cups and beer), and you're not having massive success getting laid or getting dates that lead to relationships from those parties. This shock is worse if you didn't have a good high school dating experience. I would say that my college sexual experience was an improvement over high school, but the bar was set low. Because I persisted and was obsessed with sex in college at "Hot Girl U", I was able to have some results but it didn't live up to the hype for me.
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.
In this discussion, we have used terms like SEC to describe certain large, public universities in Southern states. Phrases related to athlete conference groupings are very irrelevant as the conferences have been changing rapidly. Last year, it was announced that University of Texas and...
