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IME women very rarely straight up ask “do you want to be my boyfriend.” Often times they ask open ended questions hinting at it, and that is good enough for me to introduce monogamy, if I deem her good enough for that role in my life.A different perspective to consider.
Do you want to be a strong leader and lead the relationship?. Or would you rather SHE be the leader and you passively follow?
IF you want to be a strong masculine leader and you believe she's worthy of you, tell her you'd like her to join you on your journey and gauge her response.
Not ask, but tell.
As has been said on this forum many times, you allow a woman to lead, she may lead your relationship straight into the ground and I'm a woman saying that.
Feminine women don't lead.
If you're a smart and strong leader, you won't allow that.
You can't just be a leader some of the time, it must be all the time otherwise a woman will think you're a wishy washy coward and weak.
Assertively tell her what you want, and allow her the opportunity to follow.
She either chooses to join you on the journey, or she doesn't. If she doesn't, it's ciao baby, simple as that.
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That's cool, there's no right or wrong, imo.IME women very rarely straight up ask “do you want to be my boyfriend.” Often times they ask open ended questions hinting at it, and that is good enough for me to introduce monogamy, if I deem her good enough for that role in my life.
“what are we doing?”
“Where is this going?”
“How many other women are you dating?”
“What do you think of us?”
“What are you looking for?”
“Do you see me in your future?”
“I could fvck you forever”
^^all of those and plenty more indicate a woman who wants to be exclusive to me. She is telling me she wants me to lock her up, she’s ready. It’s now up to me to lead this woman down whatever path I want the relationship to take. Often times I don’t want exclusivity and we do the plate path until she inevitably moves on after 6 months trying to change my mind along the way. Rarely do I engage in the relationship route. That is for truly rare women.
That's the thing though, some men are ready to settle down and start a family.Don’t. It is her job.
Monogamy is the last thing a man should want. She needs to be the one forcing you into it.