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She identifies as a Pansexual-Meaning she is attracted to more personality than looks. This just means she knows she can't attract the same type of man in her youth and will settle for the provider if he has the provision to provide
You used the wrong term. The term you were looking to use is Demisexual. A demisexual is a woman is who is attracted to men for a close emotional bond. A pansexual is a woman is a woman attracted to all sexual orientations and identities.

In real life, a pansexual is a woman with multiple tattoos, piercings, and often oddly colored hair like blue, purple, or pink who is having sex with men, women, and sometimes non-gender binary people. Pansexuals generally are not concerned with finding a provider.

A demisexual is usually a heterosexual woman who won't have sex unless she feels a close emotional bond and gets commitment.

If you don't like Trump-You'll see this, especially with a lot of 30-40 year old WW. They know if they date a conservative that cuck shyt isn't gonna fly. I'm black in a liberal state but I'm not a liberal nor conservative more of an Independent. I try to avoid talking about politics and if it does come up. I don't try to engage seriously (for obvious reasons)

With these women what I find works for me is letting them know directly from the jump what you're looking for it cuts through the b.s. What I find works is if you frame it congruently it weeds out if she is DTS or not. Be warned though if the woman really likes you she will come cook, clean your place often in hopes of changing your mind
I don't really talk politics outside of family members and my closest friendships. Even with some male friends, I don't want to talk politics. The last place where I want to talk politics is with a woman I'm seducing. I might talk politics after a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship has been established and our political viewpoints are similar or she demonstrates she can respect my points of view.

30-40 year old White women who are unmarried and childless are usually more liberal than conservative on the spectrum of political ideologies. On swipe apps, there are plenty of women who say "Swipe Left if You are Conservative". That's really a shiit test to be ignored for those who use swipe apps. Even still, those women are annoying in real life if you happen to match with them on a swipe app and get them out on a date.

So, you think 30-40 year old liberal White women prefer to date a liberal man because they think they can find a more compliant beta male amongst liberal men than conservative men?

I think there are plenty of beta males among both liberals and conservatives.
 

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You used the wrong term. The term you were looking to use is Demisexual. A demisexual is a woman is who is attracted to men for a close emotional bond. A pansexual is a woman is a woman attracted to all sexual orientations and identities.

In real life, a pansexual is a woman with multiple tattoos, piercings, and often oddly colored hair like blue, purple, or pink who is having sex with men, women, and sometimes non-gender binary people. Pansexuals generally are not concerned with finding a provider.

A demisexual is usually a heterosexual woman who won't have sex unless she feels a close emotional bond and gets commitment.



I don't really talk politics outside of family members and my closest friendships. Even with some male friends, I don't want to talk politics. The last place where I want to talk politics is with a woman I'm seducing. I might talk politics after a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship has been established and our political viewpoints are similar or she demonstrates she can respect my points of view.

30-40 year old White women who are unmarried and childless are usually more liberal than conservative on the spectrum of political ideologies. On swipe apps, there are plenty of women who say "Swipe Left if You are Conservative". That's really a shiit test to be ignored for those who use swipe apps. Even still, those women are annoying in real life if you happen to match with them on a swipe app and get them out on a date.

So, you think 30-40 year old liberal White women prefer to date a liberal man because they think they can find a more compliant beta male amongst liberal men than conservative men?

I think there are plenty of beta males among both liberals and conservatives.
Thank you I see Demisxual, pansexual, sapiosexual I don't know WTF they all mean but I do know those women tend to be "Out there" and usually are full blown feminists (even if they are hot) once again this is my experience

Regarding your last part I don't know, once again I'm a black man living in the midwest in a state that's 92% white. I'm not trying to paint myself as a victim. I enjoy the weather, restaurants and plenty of things to do during the summer

But in my experience when I do date WW they assume off the bat I'm liberal and don't even get me started on black women (99% of them are democrat lol)
 

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You used the wrong term. The term you were looking to use is Demisexual. A demisexual is a woman is who is attracted to men for a close emotional bond. A pansexual is a woman is a woman attracted to all sexual orientations and identities.

In real life, a pansexual is a woman with multiple tattoos, piercings, and often oddly colored hair like blue, purple, or pink who is having sex with men, women, and sometimes non-gender binary people. Pansexuals generally are not concerned with finding a provider.

A demisexual is usually a heterosexual woman who won't have sex unless she feels a close emotional bond and gets commitment.
Some demisexuals are demi just in word. They will put her desires above the supposed vital bond and will give 100% more easy time and emotional opening to build the connection with for example (as in the case of our friend solomon, and i actually think this must be explored when detected to the advantage) a black guy instead of a white italian-looking guy like me OR even put a huge wall after certain point of confort if you do not fit her "preference". So there should be awareness that she may cheat you or leave you before LTR if she finds the kind of guy she "gets the bond easier" i.e can feel less thotty for being shallow or even racist while thirsting over some random guys who may actually not even give a **** about her.
 
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Women in SEA really mention not having money on their profiles? to me that's a red flag like when a woman says she is in an "open relationship" or "Poly"
No, but it has happened to me that a few women around 23-25 years old, when I suggested meeting somewhere, would say things such as "I don't have money to go out", or asking if we were going to a restaurant. These women could not be detected right from the start by looking at the profile description. They had normal pictures and were good-looking, slim. I think they were just trying to see what they could get away with, because I met 2 of them and they didn't strike me as poor or freelancers. Both lived in an affluent part of the city, quite near from my place actually. I lured them to my condo and they both refused me sex. Both promised at the 2nd date we would do it but they never accepted to meet again.
 
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