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how to have a high sex drive when your older?

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Mr. Wood claims this isnt true because these women like older guys his age he says. Even though I'm younger and have more stamina that these 50 year old teacher shouldn't be going after older and sluggish guys. A young guy like me is a better choice.
 

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Mr. Wood claims this isnt true because these women like older guys his age he says. Even though I'm younger and have more stamina that these 50 year old teacher shouldn't be going after older and sluggish guys. A young guy like me is a better choice.
Women don’t think logically. So what makes you the better choice?
 

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Women don’t think logically. So what makes you the better choice?
Because she likes men around her age or older. Which means typically lower sex drive and probably aging and more overweight and slow. Wouldnt a guy in his 30s with more stamina be a better choice for a 49 yr old milf?
 

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Because she likes men around her age or older. Which means typically lower sex drive and probably aging and more overweight and slow. Wouldnt a guy in his 30s with more stamina be a better choice for a 49 yr old milf?
What happened to the 21yo?
 

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What happened to the 21yo?
That was a vendor and I dont even know her name lol. Shes probably little younger. Maybe I'll see her this weekend. I still want the 50 year old teacher though.
 
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That was a vendor and I dont even know her name lol. Shes probably little younger. Maybe I'll see her this weekend. I still want the 50 year old teacher though.
What're we gonna do with you, Norman?
 

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That was a vendor and I dont even know her name lol. Shes probably little younger. Maybe I'll see her this weekend. I still want the 50 year old teacher though.
I typically advise against s hitting where you eat, but there's no harm in talking to the girl, especially if it'll keep you away from the ladies in your mom's bridge club.

Look. You're 30, right? So, one of two things is going on, here: you've either got an oedipal complex, or you're trying to pick the low hanging fruit, thinking there's less chance of rejection. If it's the latter, that would explain your reluctance to talk to the young girl... Fear of rejection. Just talk to her. It isn't a proposal.
 

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I typically advise against s hitting where you eat, but there's no harm in talking to the girl, especially if it'll keep you away from the ladies in your mom's bridge club.

Look. You're 30, right? So, one of two things is going on, here: you've either got an oedipal complex, or you're trying to pick the low hanging fruit, thinking there's less chance of rejection. If it's the latter, that would explain your reluctance to talk to the young girl... Fear of rejection. Just talk to her. It isn't a proposal.
On old there is not a lot of pre wall women around here so competition uber fierce and like the lottery. Older women are easier and in more abundance. I only have old to meet women.
 

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Mr. Wood claims this isnt true because these women like older guys his age he says. Even though I'm younger and have more stamina that these 50 year old teacher shouldn't be going after older and sluggish guys. A young guy like me is a better choice.
You gain skills as you age if you are into it. Some of the **** I know now I would look at you crazy at the age of 30. But anyway, you use it or lose it. Don't deal with un or under instrested babes. Deal with females who CANT GET ENOUGH and your golden for the rest of your life. If a female becomes a problem, you drop her. Stress kills. Anger is not good.
 

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im 24 now and my sex drive is high as **** and i love it. Im terrified i will lose this when i am in my 30s 40s and 50s. I want to be havig great sex my whole life. Does it diminish as you get older? Are there ways to increase sex drive as you get older? Certain foods, exercises, habits:?
Find a lady you are attracted to. If you are healthy, you'll be able to get it up. At 38, I do not have an issue. Then again, I am a toad.
 
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Find a lady you are attracted to. If you are healthy, you'll be able to get it up. At 38, I do not have an issue. Then again, I am a toad.
Yes sir. And if you are attracted and she keeps rejecting you? If she maintains a masculine swagger around you, but is feminine around other men? ( because she doesn't want to "help" you ) What will happen to your dyck if you don't cheat or drop her?
 

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Yes sir. And if you are attracted and she keeps rejecting you? If she maintains a masculine swagger around you, but is feminine around other men? ( because she doesn't want to "help" you ) What will happen to your dyck if you don't cheat or drop her?
Simple. You move on. No sex, no use with them. Never had a lady have masculine swagger around me, so never experienced that. However, when she gets out of line, you put her in her place and tell her there's not going to be a second. As you guys know, I've doc'd that here and said bye bye. You need to let the lady know that you could walk any minute. It's harder when you are married, but possible; especially with the docs I've listed all dudes should get signed prior to cohabitation and the possible marriage contract.
 

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Simple. You move on. No sex, no use with them. Never had a lady have masculine swagger around me, so never experienced that. However, when she gets out of line, you put her in her place and tell her there's not going to be a second. As you guys know, I've doc'd that here and said bye bye. You need to let the lady know that you could walk any minute. It's harder when you are married, but possible; especially with the docs I've listed all dudes should get signed prior to cohabitation and the possible marriage contract.
Lesbians will have a masculine swag.
 
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you’re talking 30s, 40s and 50s, the bigger problem is often going to be the state of attraction and not so much blood vessels.
Yes to that.

It might help if a man takes notice of what his long term mate does naturally - something that he might find amusing, it could be something as little her fidgeting in a certain way.
 

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They have a male physical presence.
Also the OTHER thing that has a "male" physical presense is a female who is actively CUCKING her man. She takes his masculinity for herself and shares it with her lover. As long as he is aligned with her, he is in a position where his manhood is LESS. She defines the level, and it's very low. In her eyes likely lower than any other male she knows.
 

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I'm in my 40's and here is what I recommend:

-Eat right, work out.
-Stay mentally healthy.
-Date attractive women of course! ;)
-Try out some viagra for fun, it will make you feel like you have a 20yo pocket rocket again.
-Change it up, be a freak, try different things.
-Probably the biggest thing I have noticed about myself and a few close buddies is don't get locked down in a relationship where the amount of drama/b.s. you have to put up with is so high that it kills your sex drive over time. Get out before it erodes your core.
-Don't keep women that don't take care of themselves mentally and physically.
 

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I can contribute to this one. I am older than the average on this board, but not the oldest..

First thing to know and understand is genetics.. some just have it better, from God... or from that good looking milk man.
Second is that many men don't tell the truth about these things.. and or don't know what the truth is... now I am not an expert, and for sure don't know everything about it.

1. ****s under 20 years old work better than over 50, 90% of the time. this is fact. Yes there are exceptions.
2. some cardio health will help maintain and keep fat down. this will help. I like sprinting for this, and not jogging.
3. heavy lifting on large muscles will help. this is science.
4. long term diet, the same for keeping heart healthy will help.
5. some guys never have the problems... therefore do not get it that others do and how fkng awful it can be.
6. relationship/girl has a much to do with it. sometimes listen to your ****.. it knows what you want.
7. sleep and water. not kidding, you really need it.

now for those that have the trouble already and want to take action and have done the above already...

1- Cialis is a great short term and possibly long term fix. it is flexible for time and many don't get much side effects.. although have to investigate that for yourself.
2- Kegals will help, even if it does not fix your problem there are other advantages that will benefit that are related.
3- Shockwave. this for sure works in case you have issue based on blood flow and many do... just buy the machine online for 3 or 5 hundred dollar and treat yourself. no need to spend thousands to a medic.
4- Mesteralone. If your low and T, this is a relatively safe (in my opinion and for sure I am not a Dr. and have no credential to back up that it is safe. just an opinion). you can read all about it, almost no liver problem and the way that it works is different than other roids. It is often actually used by lifters to conteract that bad effect of the powerful meds. One of the common use for this one is specific for low T. It for sure can work.

These four things together can bring a dead one back to real life. In a sustained way.
 

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I'm 62 and still going strong. I don't really know why. I guess it's genetics. I certainly look way younger than in my 60s. To a remarkable degree actually. Maybe sex drive and looking young go hand-in-hand.
 
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