Yesterday there was a music bingo event, i met this chick who’s a 7. We hit it off, we’re having fun. Later in the night, some random guy approaches the girl and apparently they know each other already, they met once before at some random gathering. Guy does small talk about parties, tells her i just came to say hi, he then leaves. He musters up some courage and comes back again and tells her he is volunteering at this event and that she should check it out and asks for her instagram and tells her to text him if she’s going to the event. While all of this is happening i just stayed non-reactive.
However i don’t feel that that was the right course of action, i should’ve given him my instagram and told him we’ll hit you up if we go or atleast said i’ve wanted to do that event too i wanna join.
However i don’t feel that that was the right course of action, i should’ve given him my instagram and told him we’ll hit you up if we go or atleast said i’ve wanted to do that event too i wanna join.
You would be taking the piss and would make the guy feel awkward and leave. Or he'd get p1ssed at you and you can watch him lose his sh!t and see how much he lacks control. Women like men who are in control of their emotions and don't take themselves too seriously.
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Yesterday there was a music bingo event, i met this chick who’s a 7. We hit it off, we’re having fun. Later in the night, some random guy approaches the girl and apparently they know each other already, they met once before at some random gathering. Guy does small talk about parties, tells her i just came to say hi, he then leaves. He musters up some courage and comes back again and tells her he is volunteering at this event and that she should check it out and asks for her instagram and tells her to text him if she’s going to the event. While all of this is happening i just stayed non-reactive.
However i don’t feel that that was the right course of action, i should’ve given him my instagram and told him we’ll hit you up if we go or atleast said i’ve wanted to do that event too i wanna join.
So you are with a girl and another comes in and tries to seduce her in front of you. So what is the right course of action?
There are many variables that come into play.
Non-reactive usually is the best course of action.
My question to you is why you did not drag her and switch places while the guy left for the first time?
You should have moved from where ever you are to another area of that place, or to another place. Also, grabbing a phone number and moving on is another prime example of not staying there while another guy talks to her as this looks weak from your side.
You took too much time to make things happen.
Take the lead always, don't wait. Tell her "Let's grab a drink over here" since she is investing and you are having fun. Move her away from other guys that may re-approach, this creates a sense of attraction for the woman when she feels you lead the way.
If you say that and I'm the other guy, I'll say "oh damn your boyfriend is getting jealous, hit me up when you're not with him *wink*" And right there your fake confidence gets destroyed.
You should have moved from where ever you are to another area of that place, or to another place. Also, grabbing a phone number and moving on is another prime example of not staying there while another guy talks to her as this looks weak from your side.
That's called mate guarding and it reeks as desperation, his course of action is... Nothing, get her to have fun and escalate, if she likes him, she will blow the guy off. Didn't you read the Book of Pook? A true DJ's virtue is patience.
If she stayed with the other guy talking ignoring him, then the writings are on the wall or a $hit test to see how desperate he is for puzzy, he excuses himself and leaves. $hit test passed or not enough interest from her, either way you win.
So you are with a girl and another comes in and tries to seduce her in front of you. So what is the right course of action?
There are many variables that come into play.
Non-reactive usually is the best course of action.
My question to you is why you did not drag her and switch places while the guy left for the first time?
You should have moved from where ever you are to another area of that place, or to another place. Also, grabbing a phone number and moving on is another prime example of not staying there while another guy talks to her as this looks weak from your side.
You took too much time to make things happen.
Take the lead always, don't wait. Tell her "Let's grab a drink over here" since she is investing and you are having fun. Move her away from other guys that may re-approach, this creates a sense of attraction for the woman when she feels you lead the way.
Yesterday there was a music bingo event, i met this chick who’s a 7. We hit it off, we’re having fun. Later in the night, some random guy approaches the girl and apparently they know each other already, they met once before at some random gathering. Guy does small talk about parties, tells her i just came to say hi, he then leaves. He musters up some courage and comes back again and tells her he is volunteering at this event and that she should check it out and asks for her instagram and tells her to text him if she’s going to the event. While all of this is happening i just stayed non-reactive.
However i don’t feel that that was the right course of action, i should’ve given him my instagram and told him we’ll hit you up if we go or atleast said i’ve wanted to do that event too i wanna join.
It's hard to give a spot on advice cause it depends on the people involved.
What I would have done was simply letting it go, if a girl is easly distracted or taken away from such things, it was already a lukewarm connection the one between the two of you.
If she drops the guy or tells him that she is with you that's a good sign that deserves a reward toward her while if she enjoys the entertainment and waste your patience, you better understand that the effort and investment towards her needs to be decreases.
Anyway as I say it all depends on the people, I'm a distant person generally while others men and burning with jealousy and need to perform.
Given my average at best libido, the desire for sex comes way after the desire for peace so drama of any kind is a deal breaker.
If you say that and I'm the other guy, I'll say "oh damn your boyfriend is getting jealous, hit me up when you're not with him *wink*" And right there your fake confidence gets destroyed.
That's called mate guarding and it reeks as desperation, his course of action is... Nothing, get her to have fun and escalate, if she likes him, she will blow the guy off. Didn't you read the Book of Pook? A true DJ's virtue is patience.
If she stayed with the other guy talking ignoring him, then the writings are on the wall or a $hit test to see how desperate he is for puzzy, he excuses himself and leaves. $hit test passed or not enough interest from her, either way you win.
Yesterday there was a music bingo event, i met this chick who’s a 7. We hit it off, we’re having fun. Later in the night, some random guy approaches the girl and apparently they know each other already, they met once before at some random gathering. Guy does small talk about parties, tells her i just came to say hi, he then leaves. He musters up some courage and comes back again and tells her he is volunteering at this event and that she should check it out and asks for her instagram and tells her to text him if she’s going to the event. While all of this is happening i just stayed non-reactive.
However i don’t feel that that was the right course of action, i should’ve given him my instagram and told him we’ll hit you up if we go or atleast said i’ve wanted to do that event too i wanna join.
How long have you been seeing this girl? Thats important.
If you have just met then humor as said is best.
Ignore the fcktardz picking on you. He has been there too.
You cant stop these things these days.
Learn to push through them with an Idgaf attitude.
If the girl is new she might be interested if a guy is high status
Thats just part of the game. Her tingles dont care about our emotions. If she had bit on this guy you laugh it off and have a good time with other girls that are there.
That's something on you man. I've bang women with bf and even married ones, some people say it shouldn't be that way, others say its a jungle and the fittest survive.
If you feel you can bang her with no crazy bf trying to shoot you and you're fvcking sure you won't get attached, then do it.
I got to banged her, I got attached and I got stomped on, but I got to a place where that doesn't happen again. Live and learn, I guess.
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Dude a bit more context in your OP would have made the responses better.
This chic is a plate. You dont get upset at dudes hitting on potential plates.
If you havent had sex with her yet you shouldnt react to it at all. Like previous posts said. Laugh at it. Have fun and hook up.
Talk to other women
Its mostly just body language and confidence. Dudes be scared to come up to talk to a girl whos with an alpha male. But, moreso than that, alpha males we take charge, we put hands on asses, tongue down throats, arouse women sexually so shes not in the mood for small talk with some random or friend that comes up. Hard to approach and talk to a girl whos got a guy clearly marking his territory.
Next time whisper in her hear like "watch this guy thinks he can pull you, lets see what hes got" and smile and just say "whatup buddy" or something to him. and anything that comes out his mouth after that is gonna fall flat, because he's gonna wonder what you whispered in her ear and why shes smiling/laughing.
