I decided to make a guide for you guys since I wanted to contribute some advice to this forum, finally. So we all have types, some of us like hot blondes, some of us love a hot Latina, and some of us are into a crazy sexy Asian woman. Now sometimes, the stars line up and you're in a good spot. You just happen to have a "type" and women of that type happen to find men with your looks attractive, it's a match made in heaven.
Generally speaking, hot girls like men with a look that is different from theirs, for quick flings it is the case that "opposites attract".
Hot blondes love guys with dark hair, hot white girls with black hair prefer men with lighter hair, Latinas are not too into "brown" guys of any kind for quick flings, and you get the picture. So if you happen to be in that situation, great for you stop reading this thread now.
But let's say you've done that and you're in a situation where you have a "type" yet social barriers, perceptions, and those things don't work in your favor. You might like a Latina or raven-haired Euro girl with tanned skin but her friends prefer the blond viking over your Cristiano Ronaldo lookinazz. What do you do?
Whatever it is that women of the group your type is in, you are not on the favorable end of that. Whatever it is that is going on, it isn't favorable to you being balls deep in her, especially if she is your type. So what do you? Well Good Gao is here to help.
Accept it before anything, don't start fooling yourself.
Yeah, to be frankly honest with you, women are choosy about race and women from certain groups like certain kinds of men. A hot Latin girl for example prefers the whitest looking guys possible because that is valued in her culture. A hot blonde prefers guys with dark hair or darker men in general since blond haired men are too common to her. Don't start fooling yourself here, it is a denialism mindgame you are playing. No matter your race, you'll do well with certain races and cultures of women and horrible with others.
When you go against the grain and natural attraction trends, you will have to realize that women who are your "type" but from a group that normally does not go for a guy like you will have an ulterior motive. They might be in bed with you when all is said and done but these women would not have swiped right on you and likely have rejected you at a nightclub if you walked up to them.
Get good with the women you can get good with and be out with them.
Lonely Asian guy hitting the bars all alone? Not hot to the Asian girls he prefers.
Asian guy shows up to bar with a hot white girl? Asian girls want to fight for him and his attention.
I know, as an Asian guy, it is sad. In other words, get good with girls in general and practice being seen as the guy who can get girls to come out with him. I have an Arab friend that regularly has hot blondes come out with him, now Latinas and Arab girls who would have otherwise put this guy in a provider category at best have let him plow them away.
Most of all, some of the women you are seeing have friends and those friends might be of the type that you are into, win win. Those women tell those friends good things, you are set.
Go to places where escorts are legal and plow away at your type if you have the money.
Great way to psychologically get over it. One of my friends is a Latino guy who kills it with blondes but dark-haired white girls that he loves tend to pass him up. What did he do? Once he got rich, he said screw it slept with about 20 different escorts with that Megan Fox look. I cannot comment on how he does with those women now because it doesn't bother him anymore as to how he does. I think this is the best option because you can actually get it out of your mind for good.
Create situations where you have leverage over your "type" (location, wealth, etc.).
One of my friends is a Latino from the East Coast with a huge thing for dark-haired white girls, unfortunately, the area of the east coast he grew up in had a very high Italian population. For those who do not know Italian Americans well, they aren't too fond of minorities and the women hate darker guys of all types. As you can see, he was a severe disadvantage as an Aaron Hernandez lookalike with the kinds of girls he wanted.
My friend decided to stay in Romania for a year, needless to say, he has slept with a lot of hot white girls with dark hair as a result due to his American citizenship and naturally higher status. I recommend most guys do the same, key is to leverage your first world citizenship and natural status. I also recommend Seeking Arrangement.
Social circle status and other high status jobs that make you attractive to women are also an example of leverage.
If you have done the above enough, MAYBE approach.
The truth is, you are better off approaching women who are naturally inclined to go for you but if you have done enough of the above and still want to plow your type, just approach now that your head is more clear. You'll still do worse than you would with women who are naturally inclined to go for you but the **** wants what it wants. Just know that you cannot fight societal programming that women go through and you can only combat nature with the tools I have shown above, it won't be genuine though.
Some closing words and thoughts.
1. Remember, don't get attached, get your sex and bounce.
Plow her and bounce, she is not genuinely into you. You might plow that hot blonde as a Thor lookalike yourself but she wants a darker guy once you are off the bed. You might plow that hot Salma Hayek lookalike as some handsome Bollywood stud yourself but once you are off the bed, she is done with you and only slept with you for some ulterior motive. She won't make a good wife for you or anything, you wanted a taste of your type and you got it.
2. Even if you get it all out of your system, nature is what nature is.
You can sleep with 50 hot Latin girls as a brown guy yourself, not gonna change they fact that they are not too fond for brown guys. You just used status, leverage, and other ways to get your **** wet. Maybe you could have slept with a 100 hot blondes instead, who knows, but you got it wet.
3. See it as a transaction.
Whether you see an escort or not, as you go for women who naturally don't like men like you, they are doing it for ulterior motives. See it as you getting sex with your type and then forget about it. Get it out of your system.
I'll post more on this later.
Generally speaking, hot girls like men with a look that is different from theirs, for quick flings it is the case that "opposites attract".
Hot blondes love guys with dark hair, hot white girls with black hair prefer men with lighter hair, Latinas are not too into "brown" guys of any kind for quick flings, and you get the picture. So if you happen to be in that situation, great for you stop reading this thread now.
But let's say you've done that and you're in a situation where you have a "type" yet social barriers, perceptions, and those things don't work in your favor. You might like a Latina or raven-haired Euro girl with tanned skin but her friends prefer the blond viking over your Cristiano Ronaldo lookinazz. What do you do?
Whatever it is that women of the group your type is in, you are not on the favorable end of that. Whatever it is that is going on, it isn't favorable to you being balls deep in her, especially if she is your type. So what do you? Well Good Gao is here to help.
Accept it before anything, don't start fooling yourself.
Yeah, to be frankly honest with you, women are choosy about race and women from certain groups like certain kinds of men. A hot Latin girl for example prefers the whitest looking guys possible because that is valued in her culture. A hot blonde prefers guys with dark hair or darker men in general since blond haired men are too common to her. Don't start fooling yourself here, it is a denialism mindgame you are playing. No matter your race, you'll do well with certain races and cultures of women and horrible with others.
When you go against the grain and natural attraction trends, you will have to realize that women who are your "type" but from a group that normally does not go for a guy like you will have an ulterior motive. They might be in bed with you when all is said and done but these women would not have swiped right on you and likely have rejected you at a nightclub if you walked up to them.
Get good with the women you can get good with and be out with them.
Lonely Asian guy hitting the bars all alone? Not hot to the Asian girls he prefers.
Asian guy shows up to bar with a hot white girl? Asian girls want to fight for him and his attention.
I know, as an Asian guy, it is sad. In other words, get good with girls in general and practice being seen as the guy who can get girls to come out with him. I have an Arab friend that regularly has hot blondes come out with him, now Latinas and Arab girls who would have otherwise put this guy in a provider category at best have let him plow them away.
Most of all, some of the women you are seeing have friends and those friends might be of the type that you are into, win win. Those women tell those friends good things, you are set.
Go to places where escorts are legal and plow away at your type if you have the money.
Great way to psychologically get over it. One of my friends is a Latino guy who kills it with blondes but dark-haired white girls that he loves tend to pass him up. What did he do? Once he got rich, he said screw it slept with about 20 different escorts with that Megan Fox look. I cannot comment on how he does with those women now because it doesn't bother him anymore as to how he does. I think this is the best option because you can actually get it out of your mind for good.
Create situations where you have leverage over your "type" (location, wealth, etc.).
One of my friends is a Latino from the East Coast with a huge thing for dark-haired white girls, unfortunately, the area of the east coast he grew up in had a very high Italian population. For those who do not know Italian Americans well, they aren't too fond of minorities and the women hate darker guys of all types. As you can see, he was a severe disadvantage as an Aaron Hernandez lookalike with the kinds of girls he wanted.
My friend decided to stay in Romania for a year, needless to say, he has slept with a lot of hot white girls with dark hair as a result due to his American citizenship and naturally higher status. I recommend most guys do the same, key is to leverage your first world citizenship and natural status. I also recommend Seeking Arrangement.
Social circle status and other high status jobs that make you attractive to women are also an example of leverage.
If you have done the above enough, MAYBE approach.
The truth is, you are better off approaching women who are naturally inclined to go for you but if you have done enough of the above and still want to plow your type, just approach now that your head is more clear. You'll still do worse than you would with women who are naturally inclined to go for you but the **** wants what it wants. Just know that you cannot fight societal programming that women go through and you can only combat nature with the tools I have shown above, it won't be genuine though.
Some closing words and thoughts.
1. Remember, don't get attached, get your sex and bounce.
Plow her and bounce, she is not genuinely into you. You might plow that hot blonde as a Thor lookalike yourself but she wants a darker guy once you are off the bed. You might plow that hot Salma Hayek lookalike as some handsome Bollywood stud yourself but once you are off the bed, she is done with you and only slept with you for some ulterior motive. She won't make a good wife for you or anything, you wanted a taste of your type and you got it.
2. Even if you get it all out of your system, nature is what nature is.
You can sleep with 50 hot Latin girls as a brown guy yourself, not gonna change they fact that they are not too fond for brown guys. You just used status, leverage, and other ways to get your **** wet. Maybe you could have slept with a 100 hot blondes instead, who knows, but you got it wet.
3. See it as a transaction.
Whether you see an escort or not, as you go for women who naturally don't like men like you, they are doing it for ulterior motives. See it as you getting sex with your type and then forget about it. Get it out of your system.
I'll post more on this later.