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Two gym girl workers. One is actually invested in me, she gave me the password of the Wi-Fi from the gym even though it’s not allowed, flirted with me shortly.
Today I was working out and she looked at me but I wasn’t really looking at her, it was like I looked past at her and had this condescending look, but not on purpose, I was with my thoughts else were.
After that I went down stairs to change my clothes, went up again and I see her together with the other female gym worker in their office (both in my age).
The other female gym worker checked me out, looked at me and after she looked at me, she immediately tapped at the girl I gave the condescending look. I hear her crying and after I went pass them the girl who tapped at her looked at me like they were talking about me the whole time. I think she cried because of me she was very happy the whole time and after that look complete turn over and her friend gazing at me passing by and still gazing at me when I looked from behind.
But It was like this she started crying after she tapped at her like it was planned, I couldn’t see her face she was looking down with her hands on her face

Both of them gave me once choosing signals, but I ignored them because I don’t want any trouble, and now by ignoring I will probably be in trouble as well?
What’s going on here?

What should I do next time? I think something will happen next time
 
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What should I do next time? I think something will happen next time
Yes, something could very well happen next time if you make a move and ask her out…
She isn’t going to seduce you, that’s your job.
 

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If you are gonna get in trouble anyway, go for the threesome.
 

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Why all this overanalyzing for women you haven't done anything with yet?

Ask one out. That's the first step.
 

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Yes, something could very well happen next time if you make a move and ask her out…
She isn’t going to seduce you, that’s your job.
After that cry I’m rather unsure about asking her out. With something happen, I thought more about something negative
 

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After that cry I’m rather unsure about asking her out with something happen, I thought more about something negative
Don’t think. Ask the girl out that flirted with you, if she’s a yes, problem solved. If she’s a no, you’re free to concentrate on other girls.
It’s as simple as that…
 

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Don’t think. Ask the girl out that flirted with you, if she’s a yes, problem solved. If she’s a no, you’re free to concentrate on other girls.
It’s as simple as that…
Actually both flirted with me. The one who tapped her keeps stealing glances at me everytime I’m in the gym. It could be that the girl who cried figured out that her gym worker friend is as well into me. That’s dangerous game territory and as I said I’m not ready for this, not yet
 

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"A whole lot of nothing happened' "What do i do guys?"

This cant be serious. You're just lookin/staring at girls and thinking they're talking about you and all this ****.. Basically you set up a foundational idea/framework that this girl likes you, so now your brain is looking for signs to validate that.

I just want you to realize that absolutely nothing you said means anything on a social or personal level. You're simply overanalyzing things and probably being a bit creepy with how you're staring at them.

Might also borderline on pure narcissism.. considering you believe, you giving a girl a "condescending look" (for no apparent reason) made her cry tears as if she fell in love with you or you're her favorite celebrity crush based on 1 interaction you had with her.
 

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"A whole lot of nothing happened' "What do i do guys?"

This cant be serious. You're just lookin/staring at girls and thinking they're talking about you and all this ****.. Basically you set up a foundational idea/framework that this girl likes you, so now your brain is looking for signs to validate that.

I just want you to realize that absolutely nothing you said means anything on a social or personal level. You're simply overanalyzing things and probably being a bit creepy with how you're staring at them.

Might also borderline on pure narcissism.. considering you believe, you giving a girl a "condescending look" (for no apparent reason) made her cry tears as if she fell in love with you or you're her favorite celebrity crush based on 1 interaction you had with her.
Shut up and leave my thread if you have nothing useful to contribute. I’m not social unaware like you, everytime i knew if a girl was into me, I was 99% of the time right, because I usually approach women like this
 

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While I was at the gym this chick looked at me for at least 2 seconds. I’m in there, this counts as a lay right guys? On to the next conquest!

seriosuly though I found this very hard to follow. Two chicks you think want you and because you slightly flirted with one the other one burst into tears? Is that the analysis?

I don’t know how old these people are but it’s odd behaviour.

Broadly I don’t know why people treat the gym like it’s a nightclub. Most the dudes there dress in full cap+Expensive outfit and the girls do their makeup. F off man, just workout. Pulling at the gym is cringe.

recently I observed a roider grunted (full cap and gym fancy dress outfit) literally eyeball this chick. Observing this was like watching a gorilla mating display. I was half expecting a few chest beats and a little “awooooo!”.

The other highly amusing time was when this very fit but very reserved (you could tell) chick who was about 16 on a treadmill being constantly checked out by like 30 yo guys. This culminated after serveral weeks with this poor girl on her own just running and about 4 of the gym bros congregating right in front of her and get this - they started flexing and posing in kind of competition. The girl looked literally like she wanted to die, and I pissed myself laughing to the extent they all looked at me rather upset. I’m a guy who goes generally in cheap shyt clothes and not a roider so just carried on. What are they gonna do, beat me up? Lol.

it was like watching monkies compete for the alpha female, absolutely fkin hilarious.

Hence whilst I love training I am quite scathing of the “professional trainers”. Usually indentified by a cap or hoodie and tattoos for men, and make up and kind of hip hop clothes for women.

each to their own but I’m fed up of avoiding their elbows when they do the fake “big lat” walk - you know the one, gorilla walk as of their lats are SO big they walk like they’re carrying 2 rolls of carpet under each arm.

And grunting like they’re lifting heavy weights even though it’s the test they are clearly pinning which is making them big lol.
 
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Shut up and leave my thread if you have nothing useful to contribute. I’m not social unaware like you, everytime i knew if a girl was into me, I was 99% of the time right, because I usually approach women like this
So if you are so aware and right 99% of the time why the he11 are you asking us fuhktards? You sure react like a narcissist.
 

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While I was at the gym this chick looked at me for at least 2 seconds. I’m in there, this counts as a lay right guys? On to the next conquest!

seriosuly though I found this very hard to follow. Two chicks you think want you and because you slightly flirted with one the other one burst into tears? Is that the analysis?

I don’t know how old these people are but it’s odd behaviour.

Broadly I don’t know why people treat the gym like it’s a nightclub. Most the dudes there dress in full cap+Expensive outfit and the girls do their makeup. F off man, just workout. Pulling at the gym is cringe.
I know from experience that highest form of attraction is woman wanting them to make you notice them, in either positive or negative way. Crying is a big way to make someone notice her and that when I occurred. 3 or 4 gym members pass by and they didn’t do anything, only when I passed by but the members were outside already
 

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So if you are so aware and right 99% of the time why the he11 are you asking us fuhktards? You sure react like a narcissist.
I already messaged privately with one of our moderators and the reason was a break up that happened 5 weeks before. I’m still on the healing phase and don’t feel confident about approaching them.

Reacting like a narcissist? That’s laughable being falsely accused to be something is the problem here. I don’t let that slide, a narcissist would admit with proud that he is one, I’m not.
 
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I know from experience that highest form of attraction is woman wanting them to make you notice them, in either positive or negative way. Crying is a big way to make someone notice her and that when I occurred. 3 or 4 gym members pass by and they didn’t do anything, only when I passed by but the members were outside already
Pretty sure the highest form of attraction from a woman is when she opens her legs :cool:
 

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If this is a gym you frequent and wanna keep frequenting, stay clear of the drama. Also in general, stop being a bytch, and either go do the damn thing or forget about instaed of overanalysing it.
 

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@Chilimili I've got a used blow up doll that still holds air. She doesnt cry and never says no to other girls. I promise she won't be as confusing as these gym girls.
 
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